I need some advice! 10 pts to best answer :)?

there's this guy i've been talking to for a few weeks and he's really awesome. i know he likes me because he's said so but yesterday he told me that we should just stay friends because both of our schedules are busy, especially his, and he thinks it would be unfair to me to pursue a relationship with someone who isn't ready for the commitment.





but i'm afraid if we're just friends that we'll lose the spark we had. i don't want to lose the relationship we've built up. how do i tell him this without pushing him away? also (guys esp.) what is your perspective on this situation?I need some advice! 10 pts to best answer :)?
Sounds like a familiar situation......


The guys is just scared...u might want to agree at first..about being friends!!


But keep talking to him....dont loose the spark.


After a couple weeks....tell him that u feel that he is the right guy for you and that even though your schedules might be a bit off, you are ready to stay commited and that you think that this could last.


As a guy... i know that a lot of girls think that we should make the first move....but sometimes we get scared too especially when its a girl we really like!! Hope this helps!!I need some advice! 10 pts to best answer :)?
I say that go with it for a little while and if you really feel that he is slipping away, then tell him that you feel that way and that you are ready for a commitment and being together means finding time in a busy schedule is worth it to you than losing him. Also, maybe sacrifice some of the thing in your schedule for him to let him see that you are serious.
if he wanted to be with you he would, that is SUCH an excuse and ';easy way'; to put a girl down. face it: he is NO longer into you!