Need advice as a married Best Friend?

I have been best friends with someone for a little over 10 years. I even asked this person to walk me down the isle when I got married instead of family. Recently, this person has been acting weird even though she has know my husband for as long as she has known me. She makes comments that talks about ';married'; people and how stupid they are and recently told me she didn't want to hang out because my relationship makes her feel like **** (I thought she would be happy for us-we're really in love-but still work hard at maintaining our friendships). I feel like I should have seen this coming: At my wedding she gave a toast about her being in her 30's and being okay with that (nothing really about us) and she also cried that day about her makeup and hair so I did her hair and makeup and had no time for my own (I went a bit au natural). I've tried to be open but I'm just really sad about the situation and feel helpless. Any advice on how I can make her feel better?Need advice as a married Best Friend?
she sounds like she is upset that she isnt married.................... but that is not your problem ...you should be putting all your attention into your mariage and not worry about her ........... as when someone worrys and puts effort into someone else and not there partner ...BIG problems emerge ............ i see it was selfish of her to have issues with herself on your big day........... that could of waited till the next day..or a time that you were not around her............ and i would go on and say it sounds like she is jelious of your relationship with your husband................ and having people like that in your life can be draining of you emotionly...something that you dont need.Need advice as a married Best Friend?
i don't know
she definitely sounds like she is jealous that you have found a person that you love and want to be with forever and she is still single and doesnt have that love in her life- it happens...as ive gone through a similar situation w/ my best friend- she sounds like shes being quite selfish tho....you can only do so much to make her happy and if you cant, you cant....if she doesnt want to accept that your happy and be happy for you, eventually it wont be worth it...now i dont know if youve sat down and spoken with her about your feelings on this or maybe she doesnt even realize what shes been doing but i would suggest writing it in a letter and then sitting down with her and discussing everything and maybe she'll realize that shes hurt you or what shes been doing