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I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.





Anyways:





Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?





Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I was once in the same situation. It was also my junior year and i fell in love with a senior he was in love with this girl. I was devastated when I heard him tell me he was going out with the girl of his dreams. Soon they graduated and I never heard from him.I then found someone else who won my heart and broke up before graduating and a year later i got a call from the guy who had the girl of his dreams and invited me to a basketball game. We have been together for three years now. My advice to you is there could be many reason they could brake up and you shouldn't dwell on something that's already taken. I'm sure there are lots of interesting girls in your school, keep your mind open.If its meant to be she'll come to you.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Yes, get to know her, but keep your distance some so the guy doesn't shoo you off. If you can get to know her to see if you too are compatible as friends you'll know if the relationship can advance. When he goes off to college they will likely break up (most couples like this do) and if you still feel the same you can ask her out then and already know her well.
Thts a tough one but i would have to say.. you should never give up... chances are that he is goin to leave her when he goes for college but you never can tell. i know from personal experience when my Bf left for college he dumped me.. i was hurt.. she will be too.. so be as comforting as you can... if it is meant to be it will happen . have faith and dont give up!!





Hope it helped


Good Luck!!
hey vman.. be her friend if u can handle her tlk'n about her boyfriend and who knows.. but if your the jealous type dont get 2 close as it might b hard on ya... girls like older guy,s generally so they might not brake up,what u could do is find out what type of character this guy is and that might let ya know where u stand a bit better...
keep trying man. as long as you stay connected and dont let her forget that your there too then you have a chance. you might want to tell her how you feel so she knows. maybe she likes you too. just be mature women like that. dont let yourself get stuck in the friend zone. its hard to break out of that.
i think you should keep getting to know her so that if they do happen to break up, you will be there. Just dont rush things with her or she'll feel weird around you. Just be there for her and ask her questions about herself, AS FRIENDS!!!
Yeah, you should obviously get to know her so that when they break up (long distance relationships don't work.) you can be there for her.
i think if you should let them be together and when they break up try to be there for her and tell her how u feel u might when her heart like that ......


: ] good luck ......
depends..


its a 50-50 chance they might break up next year because he is going to college!


i mean she might dumb him because she cant see him everyday, or they might stay together..i really can't tell you..


but ya you can still talk to her and get to know her better!..


Unless it hurts to much. then just ignore her!


Its all up to you..can you handle hanging out with her as a friend only? if so then ya get to know her more and get closer!!


hope this helps
you said you feel like you make a connection...that obviously means something. I can't see her relationship lasting after her boyfriend goes to college, personally - if they don't break up for that reason, then they probably will for some other reason. Keep talking to her - be there for her, and hopefully she'll being to open up to you. Get closer to her, you sound like a decent ans respectful guy who would treat her well...you just have to make her realise that.





Good luck, and don't give up. Just be there for her and be patient, and things will fall in place.
well,


think about it seriously i know i have made big mistakes before i have lost a friendship with a boy i liked because i wanted too much. Maybe you were just meant to be friends but if yu really really do want more here are some ideas...


1.you could get reallly close to her hugs etc.


2. Let her know your into her, here is a good way how too, text her


hey ';name of your mate here'; i saw ';name of crush'; down the park she was looking fit. so you can send this text to her ';accedently';


3. See how she reacts it can go one way or another


4. go up to her and complement her then juz walk away example


hair is looking peng todaii oh best be off bye








these tips don't have to be in order ;D


hope these have helped
You don't want to be responsible for them breaking up but If you really care about her then you won't but in. It really sucks the only thing you can do is let her be and just hope that she's happy and he's treating her right. Now it's not wrong to acknowledge her and try to make friends with her but if it's going to be hard to handle, then just leave it for now and hope they break up lol. Best thing you can do bro. I feel for you though but just leave it for now... Because if anything you'll just be waiting to sweep her off her feet when the time is right.
Okay pal looks like u need help bud.





1. Talk to her as much as possible tell her that she is a really pretty girl. Girls luv to here stuff like that. Talk about stuff she likes.





2. buy here some flowers if u can and want to if u like her enough and definatly buy her some chocolate u know girls got to have our chocolate hahah





3. bump into her and ask her out to see a movie together or go do something without her boyfriend. make sure her boyfriend doesnt know about it though or else.





4.Have a party invite her over.





5. dont talk to her in a few days even though u really want to that will make her want to talk more like where have u been or something else. that will do the trick that happened to me before. That will grab her attention
This is a tough situation man. I'm in the same boat as you and I know how it feels. Sometimes you just have to move on, even though it feels like you will never find a girl like that again, but I promise you will find another. But for your question, theres a decent chance they can break up by than, and they might even break up in a week, you never know. They prolly don't know each other that well anyways because they jsut started dating. If I were you, I would continue being friends with her, and try to get closer and closer. But just try not to get yourself too emotionally attached because she's with someone else. Overall, its a tough situation. And should be up to you.