So i met this really cool guy today and i got his number and we talked on facebook and txted some but i want to know the best way to talk to him. I wont get to see him to hangout or anything and i dont want to overtxt him so should i txt him like every two days or somethng or what do u think would be the best way to get to know him??Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
iight now based on what happened he is either really into you, not into at all, or has mixed feelings and doesn't think much of the confrontation you guys had. if hes into you text him but see where he is at. i kno if i'm into a girl nd she texts me i'm going to be all over it but this kid might not be the sharpest tool in the box so he might let it go over his head. so dont take it like hes not into if he doesnt respond to you right away or what not he might be shy. just say hi to him from time to time. it doesnt even have to be like oh hi. try to start conversation if he goes for it then let fait do its work if he doesnt theres another 209503249489 guys out there for you. good luck.Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
The best way is always face to face, if you can't do that, then talk on the phone. Text and facebook, myspace, IM, that is very non-personal. you won't make a connection. even over the phone its hard to really connect, but you can tell subtle things from the voice, whether he is smiling, nervous, or if he is really into you. But you need face time, otherwise he will think that you aren't serious and look elsewhere. Also make sure he wants to spend time with you, or talk, if he only wants to text, chances are, he is playing games.
Good luck i hope that helped.
i think facebook is your best bet because texting is a little too direct.
every time you text him he will probably get it right away and it may seem clingy or needy but if you talk to him on facebook you can
first of all express yourself more without being limited to 160 characters for example,
second of all show your personality because you can give full thoughts and details
and thirdly it will seem more casual for him to go on facebook and see ';oh! i have a message from _____'; as opposed to a texting him today ';hey whats up'; ...two days from now... ';hi what you doing?'; ....two days form now... ';hello how are you?'; you will have a continuous conversation on facebook whereas you cant in text messaging.
so if you cant talk to him in person which you should probably do then use facebook.
he probably didnt ask for your number because its easier for him to just save your number when you text him. no worries.
Well text him every dew days, then as you get closer text him more often. The guy wont care if you text him all the time if he somewhat likes you. If a guy gives you his number then he obviously wants to talk to you, and get to know you. Dont worry about over texting him. You will get to know him pretty quickly
Okay just text him every few days so you don't seem over-bearing. Once you start getting to know each other you can text him more. When you get home you can see about meeting him somewhere so you guys can talk in person. Then you can make sure he isn't just saying what he thinks you would like on texts!! I think the fact he gave you his number is good. Usually when they just take yours.... they don't call you T_T. I am done rambling. I hope I helped ^_^
I wouldn't read too far into this. He knows you aren't in town for the long term and so he is enjoying the flirting. Treat it like any other crush that will be over before you know it. Follow his cue on how often to txt. I think this whole thing is a little silly but I will give you a tip. Send him a txt (without being prompted by him) once a day unless you are busy. If you are busy, skip it. He will let you know how much he wants to communicate based on how often he replies. Don't be surprised if it ends as soon as you go back home.
Wait till he texts you, but if is like a couple of days and he still hasn't text you then just txt him to say hi and how his day was!!
After a while, say '; tell me about yourself, since we have been txting, i like to know a little about a person when i am txting them';
something like that then hopefully that will jump start a convo and you can learn more about each other!
i would text him and be like ';hey, do you wanna talk on the phone?'; or ';wanna play 20 questions';
20 questions is a great game to get to know someone and it doesnt seem like your stalking him or anything because you guys are both asking questions.
wow, this is a toughie.
i would text him even though you may feel like your over texting him.
guys like attention.
and chat w/ him on facebook whenever he's online.
since your only visiting another state, there isnt much you can do, but keep in contact like you are doing right now.
Ok look, the best way to chat with this guy, is to talk on the phone! show him you arent afraid of an akward silence. just do it trust me. he will see confidence and he will know that you definitely want to talk and that he has your attention. Trust me it will work! :) show confidence!!
yea dats smart dont kum off clingy most guys hate clingy but get a good txtn conversation goin 1 gud time and he'll jus start txtn u and facebook is gud but dont mix the both tho kuz dats jus overkill but if u txt him right and dont do dat 1 word answer and reply thing den you'll b fine and get 2 no him better
Facebook and texting are the best way to go. It gives him more time to think of answers and takes the pressure out of the conversation. Once you and he gain confidence, set up a date. You know what to do, you are doing well so far.
just casually talk to him when you get the chance..theres no need ot rush things...time will get you two to know each other better so just wait it out and talk when you get the chance..just dont seem desperate or anything and it should be fine..hope i helped, good luck!
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Txt him every week or every two weeks..dont be so quick to ';talk to him'; then he might say why haven't you this or why haven't you that then you'll know....and when you txt him talk about what you been talking about in the first place
Text him on accident.
Send something like, ';lol Yeah and he was pretty hot!'; When he replies, just say ';Oh, sorry that was meant for another friend! lol So wats up?'; :) It'll start a conversation, trust me, I do it all the time! X) lol
whats the point then if you won't get to see him?
just send him a nice text, see if he's responsive, if he is text him back right away don't play games and since you barely know the guy theres nothing to lose. if he;s not responsive just drop it...
Clearly the best way is to talk to him and get him more interested is face to face but otherwise, you know what you're doing.
this worked for many of my friends
just text him only 2 times a day or more but not more than 5 txts
txting him a couple of times makes u sound mysterious and he will want to find more about u so instead of u asking him to hang out or meet up he will ask u
If you like him then just talk to him like every day or you can play hard to get and wait for him to text you first. And if he likes you back there is no such thing as overtexting [=
You can't get to know someone via text. Conversations and being around the person is the absolute best way.
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just text him as much as you want if he didnt/doesnt like it he wont reply but what if you dont text enough? he'll think you dont like him
You will go through anguish unless you come right out %26amp; ask him, ';Hey, do want to meet for a coffee or something?';
just like start texting but make it casual flirty.
then ask to meet up.
its so much easier to get to know somebody when its in person
just text as much as u want. trust me if he thinks ur overtextin he wont text back.
see if he has a girl. and you should tell him exactly how you feel, if he doesn't.
call him or use msn and a webcam
lure him in and just do what feels right full confidence!!
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