Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Need advice asap! ten points best answer?

so my bestfriend started dating a boy Anthony on tuesday. she told me she really didnt like him jus using him. but the whole day he kept asking her for a pic of me in which he friended me on facebook and asked for my number and got it.


however, my friend jus texted me today sayinng she broke up with Anthony, but she never told him she broke up with him? (confusing i know)


anthony is really cute but he keeps asking for pics of me(normal pics) and is kinda flirty but idk what to do! cuz i might lose a friend but gain a guy.


idk what to sayy to make a good convo goin! any advice plzz


ten points bestanswerNeed advice asap! ten points best answer?
First off, do you actually like him? If so and if you can see this going somewhere, ask your friend if it is ok for you to date him. She obviously had no feelings for him and didn't even bother breaking up with him. He may have even gone out with her in order to be able to get to you. Be sure your friend is really ok with the situation because she is your best friend and you wouldn't want to lose her if the relationship with anthony goes nowhere, then you ll be left alone. If your friend says that she's not ok with the situation ask her why and make her give you reasonable answers. She didn't like him ,it was obvious he was into you the entire time since he insisted on your picture and phone number,she should have picked up on the subtle signs he was giving out. You should start talking to him about face book type questions, of course it doesn't matter what your discussions include because he's obviously into you!Need advice asap! ten points best answer?
okay ive been through a situation sorta of like this, and the best answer is to tell your friend how you feel, just be like well since you act like you dont really like Anthony, i think hes kinda cute and i was wondering if it would bother you if i liked him. but at the same time this guy kinda sounds like a total player if when their dating he was asking you for a picture and being flirty. So id watch out for him but for now just be friendly as in friends, until you get an answer from your friend.
Ask you friend if she'd mind if you dated him. If she doesn't, then go for it. If she does mind, leave it at that. Maybe to be flirty send him a picture of you, nothing slutty, something cute and sweet. Then maybe talk with him more and try and get to know him and then let him know that you should hang out! Or invite him to hang out with you! Go to a movie or something like that.
You won't want to hear this but give it a few weeks cuz this sounds like its going to blow up in your face and you will lose the friend and the guy. Tell your friend to let him go if she doesn't him and the guy why he wants the pics. Sounds like games and your the game piece.
Start to get to know him. Do you really like him? Decide for yourself. He obviously likes you. Not loads, but it's there. Talk to your friend about it. She doens't sound that bothered, so I bet she'll be OK with it, but it's important you check. Friends before boys. You must never do anything to upset that. I learnt that the hard way.


Besides, he doesn't sound that special and you sound like a brilliant girl :) xox
talk to ur friend. don't make it very seriouss conv.


laugh about it, say';so u left him!! he's cute is it my turn to try him now?'; and see what she'll say about it. if she didn't mind go for it, if not dont !


she doesn't need to know that he wanted ur pics and asked for more than a time, u dont want to make her jealous.


be careful don't let it show that u thought about it.





good luck xx
even though she may never have been going out with him in the first place, she obviously wishes she was. is this guy you barely know worth losing a friend? if not then don't do it, but if you feel you like him enough and you're willing to risk a friendship then go ahead. its all about weighing up your options.





go with your heart.





good luck


xx
Well if your friend was just using Anthony then she didn't really like him so go for it. Just tell him or flirt a little with him and see if he responds. I think he likes you. Hope that helps, good luck, and God bless!


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if you want to go out with him then ask ur friend first bc friendships last a lifetime, but guys come and go. so ask ur friend if it's okay first.





if you want to have a texting conversation then send a crazy forward and he'll say something back bc it was crazy. works for me every time.
1- DRAMA!


#2- Talk to your friend to see how they broke it off, and if it was on bad terms don't talk to this Anthony, but if it was on good terms then maybe you could talk to her about you and Anthony dating. Good Luck!!!
It sounds like Anthony doesn't even know he was dating your friend. I think she has an active fantasy life and she's only pretending it was real. You are safe to go after him. If you still aren't sure, then ask him if he is dating your friend. I bet he says no.
dude your friend sounds like a bi*t*c*h and a psyco i would go in for it f*c*k her and get with him talk to him make sure that it is fine with her first though
ok so thats a tuff one.......but freinds always come first cause guys are a dime a dozen and good friends are hard to find these days ya no


.....good luck!
**** your friend, she was using him. Go get with Anthony.
well i think that u should ask him she would mind since she dont like him
Speak with her friend....first ask her if you can have him then if she doesnt want him......if she says yes...call him, tell him you got good and bad news.....of course tell him the bad news...your friend doesnt want to go out with him...then the good news that you really like him and you just want to let him know in case he wants to ask you out....can you do that or are you to nervous.....or the good news could be that you can give him a picture of you that he s always wanted...he could take a hint.... if your friend says no you cant have him....you tell her whatever...ask her if shes going to cry because she doesnt have a guy she doesnt want.
Well Since Your Friend said she didnt like him and was just using him,maybe you can talk to her and straight up tell her you like him and want a relationship to evolve.If shes accepting of the idea and ok with it(if you care for her opinion),Start getting to know the guy and find out what hes interested in to start up a good convorsation,like clubs hes in or sports he likes:)


If your friend isnt ok with it,try talking it out with her and remind her that your her friend and she should be supportive of you as you were with her and that she didnt really like the guy.If it doesnt work out and shes upset about it and you really like the guy,Decide whats more important your friend or him?


Just Be honest with everyone,no matter what.it might be hard at first but it pays in the long run:) HOPE THIS HELPS!:)GOOD LUCK:)

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