Boy advice? will choose a best answer - 10 points!!!?

okay so there is this guy i really like. We have know each other for five years, since 8th grade. 8th grade was his first year in colorado, and i am the only one he really still talks to, i have known him the longest out of all his friends, i am still really close to him and he is probably one of my best guy friends. hes not that bad looking, but i am not that cute. we go to church and youth group at the same place and i talk to him at least once a week in person, but we also text a lot. i really think he would make a good first boyfriend for me, i am really afraid of rejection and getting hurt/it hurting our awesome relationship we have now. What should i do? How can i get him to ask me out?Boy advice? will choose a best answer - 10 points!!!?
You sound a lot like me when I was that age. I had a horrible case of F.O.R. otherwise known as ';fear of rejection';. First off, don't ever say your aren't cute! Until you see yourself as ';a good catch'; no one else will.





He sounds like a great guy and an even better friend. It's good to have those people in your life! Why don't you start by asking him to go somewhere with you. A school sports game, arcade, etc. Don't call it a ';date'; officially. Once you start to expand the things you guys do, he'll start to see how much you enjoy his company. This will help him to realize that you may in fact want to be more than friends (odds are, he could have that same F.O.R.). Don't worry about rushing anything into happening, just give it a chance to grow. See where it goes.





You could always have a friend ask him how he feels about you. That was something I used to do, but it sometimes makes things ';awkward';. You know him better than anybody, so try to think of things that you feel will help him to see where you are coming from.





It's never an easy situation, but not knowing what ';might have been'; is much worse! Good luck! %26lt;3Boy advice? will choose a best answer - 10 points!!!?
you should ask him if he wants to go out. IF he questions whether it's a date ask him if it's ok with him. if he says no then say no problem we can just go as friends then. doing that will make it look less awkward %26amp; it won't look like you were rejected at all.





EITHER WAY, he doesn't sound like a guy who will say no. you 2 definitely do a lot together from what you said i'm pretty confident he likes you %26amp; is willing to take it a step further.
If you guys are good friends, just try joking around with him and say; What if we went out, what would happen?


and see what his reaction is. If he just brushes that off as a joke, then start flirting with him more. Make him like you. If it's really meant to be, he'll tell you he likes you %26amp; things will just build up from there.


Of course, there's also the case where the guy is too shy to even say that he likes you when he does. Get a friend who's also good friends with him to talk to him and then have your friend tell you what he says. Make sure that he doesn't know that you're asking, though. That's how I found out that my current boyfriend liked me before we started dating.
hey girl =) well first of all, relationships will only work really well when both of the people feel the same about each other or atleast about the same, so if he feels the same for you then you're relationship will be amazing! to find out if he likes you get a friend to talk to him or ask one of his friends that you can trust to find out for you, this way you won't really get rejected, and also in some cases when guys find out that a girl likes them they open their minds and realize that they like the girl too, i've helped many girls out with this so i hope this helps good luck girl%26lt;3