Me and my best friend were inseperable until i moved an hour away and now we talk everyday but she has found a man, not just anyman he has episodes of being really angry and showing her up in public, shes put on tons of weight and feels really depressed.
In febuary she fell pregnant with his baby (they had only got together in january but knew eachother from years ago) then in march she miscarried and i was stright down by her side much to his dislike, even though he pretends to like me in front of everyone. I couldnt care less of what he thought of me its my friend im worried about.
I dont want to get into the deatils because we'd be here forever but shes not happy and holding onto him and wont admit shes not happy because she is afaraid to be alone. she has a house that she shared with her ex hsband and money worries too.
He is possessive and horrible and now she wants to marry him......my partner has said he isnt allowed in our house because of his childish ways, our other mutual friends all agree too.....
How do i make my friend happy, make sure shes okay?Some advice for a worried best friend?
hmmmmm it seems this guy needs a good old fashion head beating knock some sence into him but my advice is your the only help she has, try to help her realize he is a prick and that there are plenty more guys out there alot nicer and kinder, the only problem is she seems realy attached to him and so this would make it realy hard for her to see what you mean so i think you should try to get everyone to support her and to tell her the truth. he is maken her have an early grave threw depression cuz it can lead to suicide so you gotta help her get away from him while you still have the chance too. dont let her make a big mistake he will push her around for the rest of her life so act now and try get him away. support her and take her out to have fun and keep a close eye on herSome advice for a worried best friend?
Wow thats really complicated. I guess all that you can do is try to be there as much as you possibly can or as much as he'll let you.
She's a grown woman - give her space to let her lead her life. Don't judge her, as she hasn't asked you your opinion. Let her be and be there for her if she needs you.
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