I agree some others that it's a bad idea to jump into a big relationship with him. I wish you would have said how long you've been friends with him for and long ago he was cheated on.
If it was a recent cheating then he might either be getting back at his wife or just trying to fill the broken heart his wife created when she cheated on him. Then again it could be a mid-life crisis.
You should tell him that you love him and will love him forever, but before you can be in a serious relationship with him, he needs to leave his wife and get over the divorce. IF you don't do this, more than likely he'll stay with his wife or go back to his wife after you hook up with him. I would tread very carefully because any woman getting involved with a married man usually leads to heart break for that woman.I need advice.i have a best friend and he has been married 24 yrs, but his wife has cheated on him on the past?
I think he MAY be acting a little bit spontanious.
It sounds like he is unhappy, and you are the first experiance he has away from her, and happy. I would take it slow, and THINK about the situation... what if he finds out he made a mistake, and regrets it, what if it was just a momentary thing?
I would say keep doing what you are doing, and TRY not to focus on this, and see what happens in a month or so, maybe talk financially about it, and see if he is still intrested.what ever you do do NOT just jump into a marriage!
i think he is just in a bad situation. He is dealing with alot of emotions, and may have based his feelings on that. It seems as if though you may idenitfy with him and thats what he needs right now moral support. Take your time, dont anything that you will regret. Love is patient and kind
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I'm not clear on what his wife cheating has to do with this situation. Her indiscretion doesn't justify further indiscretions.
It sounds like he would like to start a new life with you. Relationships like this can work, but it will be tough for the first while. If you're prepared for that, then things could turn out nicely.
I wish you both the best.
ive been married 24 yrs
if he could dump her like that he can certainly do it to you
he's not a good bet for a marriage partner
[the wife cheating is probably b.s. it was him doing the cheating].
i would wait until he gets a divorce to make any plans, if she has cheated on him before, and he hasn't divorced her, what makes u think he will divorce her now.
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