I need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?

M and i dated a month ago for two weeks. Amazing two weeks, everything was perfect and it felt ment to be!. We both agree that it was amazing. One day out of the blue she broke up with me because she needed space. She was lost and confused. i think it had to do with her x.





Well a week ago we dated again, she said she was sure what she wanted and it was me. we talked and i kept asking her if she was sure of what she was doing, she said yes. So she met my family and even asked me out.





well she broke up with me today saying she couldnt sleep, that she is scared, and unsure and needs to find herself. Maybe her x again.


I dont know. I told her to call me in a bit to talk about this.





what if she comes back a third time, do i let her in?


play hard to get? i mean i really do want to be with her....


or do i just walk away....?





i feel as she wants what she cant have, and have what she doesnt want, meaning she wants me but when she has me she wants to throw me backI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
shes confused but she is also not considerate of your feeings if she is doing that. u deserve better man if she is trying find herself its something she needs to do on her own but if she wants back dont give in easy make her regain your trust tell your hurt and make aknowledge your feelings aswell the best thing to do right nw is get your life back show that you can be happy without herr and show her u knw who you are lve you man xxxxI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
You need to get her out of your life. She clearly is very confused about what is going on and is not very decisive. You need to spare your own feelings and move on from her especially when she says she is sure of what she is doing and clearly isn't.
Then it is not worth it. If someone is not sure 2 of 3 times that's a pretty high percentage for failure, move on with your life. Life is too short for games
Play hard to get. Make her want you. Then she'll stay.
Give her a hard time, she can't keep playing with your feelings.
Some girls really do ';want what they can't have'; and when they get it all of the sudden they can't fantasize anymore and its uninteresting.





-The Solution: if you think this is the problem, definitely go the extra mile to surprise her and excite her so that she doesn't get bored - for ex: put flowers on her porch and ring the doorbell one day. Or make her feel suspense before a kiss.





Some girls are afraid of commitment and once they get in a relationship, they become nervous, scared, or just weird.





-The Solution: talk to her about how you don't want to plan way ahead, you just want to enjoy each day with her - you aren't going to put her in a cage or get angry if she doesn't text you every hour. She needs to know that you are a lax guy and not some high-strung commitment freak (i'm not saying you are, but just let her know lol)





Some girls have ex-boyfriends who get in the way - ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for.





-The Solution: Ask her if there's an ex that is causing her to be so wishy-washy. If its a yes, talk to her about it and see if you can help her get over him. You may also ust have to be tough and tell her that its you or him.





I say giver her another chance - but talk to her about it. Good luck!
Well im sure that you know that your realationship is unhealthy for both of you. One minute she wants you and the next she dont, im sure that she is probally confused about you and her ex, how long between the two of you had it been before she started dating you? Is she still in love with her ex? Yes you may like her and want to be with her, but she may need some time to sort things out and to make sure that she makes the right choice so she does not end up hurting both you and herself.





Go ahead and talk to her, but make sure to be a bit distant so that she knows that you want her to make the right choice, sometimes good things take time, and this might be one of those situations where if you wait a bit, give her time, she will come around, and you will both be better for it.





Good luck