focus on what you like to do for play or hobby.
chinWhat's the best way to make a career change?? I want to do something different. any advice?
well.... if u have a bachelor's degree, you might want to go for grad school with the major that u want to focus on. then it will be easier for you to get a job.
if u r high school graduate... u might wanna try college then transfer to a well-known univ.What's the best way to make a career change?? I want to do something different. any advice?
Go to school (tech college) for a new skill while you continue with your current job. Then cut and run!
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Profits give you a lifestyle!!!
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Please advice me on wats best??
im in a very tough sistuation, im pregnant and the baby father wants nothing to do with me,im 25 and he's 28, im currently unempoyed as of 3 weeks ago and he has a history of cant keeping jobs....i told my mom but she NEVERED liked him and told me to stay away from him .his mom doesnt like me either...i feel sooo alone coz i have no one and i dont know how i will be able to take care of this child on my own.....any suggestions?? the father of the baby is clearly a looser and a child he just wants to party with no responsibilites....Please advice me on wats best??
First of all you must think about you now and the baby your carrying. You need to take care of your health so the baby will not be harm. it's a bad idea for you to be on this much stress. If the father is useless, then that will be his problem,but as long as you know that he is the father,you have the right to ask him to help you esp. when the baby is born. The law will be on your side,even if your not married to him, he will be force to support the baby till your baby grow up.........get all the facts...Please advice me on wats best??
you just got a bad phase of your life.
this is not the end!!!
what you have to do is DON'T LOOK BACK,
in front of you is a long journey for you and your child to go.
don't regret what you have now.
your child is innocent and your child will bring you happiness.
if you really can't do it alone, find someone or some kind of social worker of government that can help you.
take a really good care of you and the baby.
GOD BLESS YOU.
there are lots of types of aide for single mothers out there , check with your local family planning agency ,
they can give you the help and support you need right now and then after the baby comes they should be able to put you in touch with job agencies
B.
1. U should listen to your parents.
2. Why would U have a baby with a looser like that...
3. Make an appointment to clean yourself up...
4. Get a job and stop crying.
Or
Your life will be like that:
U want it, U got it, now U take care of it...
either abortion or adoption it seems like those are your only options but if you really want to keep it there is always child support but seeing how you speak of the father im not sure you would get much if any out of him
First of all you must think about you now and the baby your carrying. You need to take care of your health so the baby will not be harm. it's a bad idea for you to be on this much stress. If the father is useless, then that will be his problem,but as long as you know that he is the father,you have the right to ask him to help you esp. when the baby is born. The law will be on your side,even if your not married to him, he will be force to support the baby till your baby grow up.........get all the facts...Please advice me on wats best??
you just got a bad phase of your life.
this is not the end!!!
what you have to do is DON'T LOOK BACK,
in front of you is a long journey for you and your child to go.
don't regret what you have now.
your child is innocent and your child will bring you happiness.
if you really can't do it alone, find someone or some kind of social worker of government that can help you.
take a really good care of you and the baby.
GOD BLESS YOU.
there are lots of types of aide for single mothers out there , check with your local family planning agency ,
they can give you the help and support you need right now and then after the baby comes they should be able to put you in touch with job agencies
B.
1. U should listen to your parents.
2. Why would U have a baby with a looser like that...
3. Make an appointment to clean yourself up...
4. Get a job and stop crying.
Or
Your life will be like that:
U want it, U got it, now U take care of it...
either abortion or adoption it seems like those are your only options but if you really want to keep it there is always child support but seeing how you speak of the father im not sure you would get much if any out of him
Please advice me on wats best??
im in a very tough sistuation, im pregnant and the baby father wants nothing to do with me,im 25 and he's 28, im currently unempoyed as of 3 weeks ago and he has a history of cant keeping jobs....i told my mom but she NEVERED liked him and told me to stay away from him .his mom doesnt like me either...i feel sooo alone coz i have no one and i dont know how i will be able to take care of this child on my own.....any suggestions?? the father of the baby is clearly a looser and a child he just wants to party with no responsibilites....Please advice me on wats best??
First of all you must think about you now and the baby your carrying. You need to take care of your health so the baby will not be harm. it's a bad idea for you to be on this much stress. If the father is useless, then that will be his problem,but as long as you know that he is the father,you have the right to ask him to help you esp. when the baby is born. The law will be on your side,even if your not married to him, he will be force to support the baby till your baby grow up.........get all the facts...Please advice me on wats best??
you just got a bad phase of your life.
this is not the end!!!
what you have to do is DON'T LOOK BACK,
in front of you is a long journey for you and your child to go.
don't regret what you have now.
your child is innocent and your child will bring you happiness.
if you really can't do it alone, find someone or some kind of social worker of government that can help you.
take a really good care of you and the baby.
GOD BLESS YOU.
there are lots of types of aide for single mothers out there , check with your local family planning agency ,
they can give you the help and support you need right now and then after the baby comes they should be able to put you in touch with job agencies
B.
1. U should listen to your parents.
2. Why would U have a baby with a looser like that...
3. Make an appointment to clean yourself up...
4. Get a job and stop crying.
Or
Your life will be like that:
U want it, U got it, now U take care of it...
either abortion or adoption it seems like those are your only options but if you really want to keep it there is always child support but seeing how you speak of the father im not sure you would get much if any out of himdermalogica eyeshadow makeup
First of all you must think about you now and the baby your carrying. You need to take care of your health so the baby will not be harm. it's a bad idea for you to be on this much stress. If the father is useless, then that will be his problem,but as long as you know that he is the father,you have the right to ask him to help you esp. when the baby is born. The law will be on your side,even if your not married to him, he will be force to support the baby till your baby grow up.........get all the facts...Please advice me on wats best??
you just got a bad phase of your life.
this is not the end!!!
what you have to do is DON'T LOOK BACK,
in front of you is a long journey for you and your child to go.
don't regret what you have now.
your child is innocent and your child will bring you happiness.
if you really can't do it alone, find someone or some kind of social worker of government that can help you.
take a really good care of you and the baby.
GOD BLESS YOU.
there are lots of types of aide for single mothers out there , check with your local family planning agency ,
they can give you the help and support you need right now and then after the baby comes they should be able to put you in touch with job agencies
B.
1. U should listen to your parents.
2. Why would U have a baby with a looser like that...
3. Make an appointment to clean yourself up...
4. Get a job and stop crying.
Or
Your life will be like that:
U want it, U got it, now U take care of it...
either abortion or adoption it seems like those are your only options but if you really want to keep it there is always child support but seeing how you speak of the father im not sure you would get much if any out of him
My best friend has lost her father, advice please!?
My best friends father has died suddenly of a heart attack. On the run-up to the funeral I was supprised at how strong she was. I spoke to her today, 2 days after the funeral and I think she has now hit rock bottom, she's so quiet and she says she feels so uptight she has painful nerves in her back. What words of reassurance can I offer her? I have been mainly listening to her and comforting her. I want to help her, it's just so tricky knowing what to do in such a sensitive situation. Any advice would be much appreciated.My best friend has lost her father, advice please!?
i lost my dad years ago and it was one of the worsed days of my life,i know how your friend will be feeling,all you can do is be there for her when ever you can,tell her to let it all out and not keep it in,if she needs a shoulder to cry on she knows she can come to you,take her out for a drink,just be there thats enough,you sound like your a great friend to herMy best friend has lost her father, advice please!?
I'm glad she has a friend like you to be there.
Just comfort her by telling her if she needs anything that you will be there to help her, and that no matter what happens you love her as a friend.
That is pretty much all you can do she may need to get over it. and this will take a lot of time.
generally when a person loses someone it isnt til after the funeral that they can start to grieve. my boyfriend recently lost his father and he was fine when he was busy taking care of the funeral etc but it was when all that stopped and he got back to work etc that it really hit him hard and he had no idea what to do with himself.
At the end of the day i've found that all that you can do is be there for them and hold their hand when they need it, sometimes you need to wait for them to come to you...
You are doing the right things and in particular listening.
Why not suggest you both go away for a few days and chill out, say to a health spa so she can relax.
You are doing an awesome job!!! i know how you feel my friend lost his dad a couple years back and i didnt know wat to do but later he told me that he was happy i was there just knowing that he had someone to talk 2 if he needed it or just sit in silence and holding his hand. I just let her know that you there and if she ever needs some1 to talk to that your there for her.
say her that u are always with her till u die.
hey there i have watched to people die and when i looked for my birth parents last year i found out they had died and it cuts like a knife all i can is to be there when your friend needs you and that's all you can do give her time she is coping the way she feels best but soon she is going to need you then you can be there for her don,t push just wait then you can comfort her when she needs to be ok chin up she needs you give it time you see am right.
i lost my dad years ago and it was one of the worsed days of my life,i know how your friend will be feeling,all you can do is be there for her when ever you can,tell her to let it all out and not keep it in,if she needs a shoulder to cry on she knows she can come to you,take her out for a drink,just be there thats enough,you sound like your a great friend to herMy best friend has lost her father, advice please!?
I'm glad she has a friend like you to be there.
Just comfort her by telling her if she needs anything that you will be there to help her, and that no matter what happens you love her as a friend.
That is pretty much all you can do she may need to get over it. and this will take a lot of time.
generally when a person loses someone it isnt til after the funeral that they can start to grieve. my boyfriend recently lost his father and he was fine when he was busy taking care of the funeral etc but it was when all that stopped and he got back to work etc that it really hit him hard and he had no idea what to do with himself.
At the end of the day i've found that all that you can do is be there for them and hold their hand when they need it, sometimes you need to wait for them to come to you...
You are doing the right things and in particular listening.
Why not suggest you both go away for a few days and chill out, say to a health spa so she can relax.
You are doing an awesome job!!! i know how you feel my friend lost his dad a couple years back and i didnt know wat to do but later he told me that he was happy i was there just knowing that he had someone to talk 2 if he needed it or just sit in silence and holding his hand. I just let her know that you there and if she ever needs some1 to talk to that your there for her.
say her that u are always with her till u die.
hey there i have watched to people die and when i looked for my birth parents last year i found out they had died and it cuts like a knife all i can is to be there when your friend needs you and that's all you can do give her time she is coping the way she feels best but soon she is going to need you then you can be there for her don,t push just wait then you can comfort her when she needs to be ok chin up she needs you give it time you see am right.
What does HE WANT? advice plz! reward for best answer!?
so there's this guy who i think is pretty cool and i'd like to get to know him.. which is possible because we have two classes together. in one of my classes he'll sometimes glance at me.. but rarely. in the other class, i'll be looking at him a lot, but he never talks to me though!! it's been like 3 weeks since school began....for the past two days, he's been looking at me a bit more, especially when he thinks i dont see, but i have side vision so it's all good.. and when we do lock eyes, it's like he's looking at me kind of in a dream. today we saw a clip in class and it was funny, so be both kinda looked over at each other and he smiled at me. or maybe he only smiled because the movie was funny? so what's up? what does he want? .. if anything.What does HE WANT? advice plz! reward for best answer!?
Here's a novel idea, TALK TO HIM.What does HE WANT? advice plz! reward for best answer!?
why don't you ask him, people on the internet don't know any better than you do. He could think you are hot, cute, funny looking, he might think you are wierd or cool. Who knows?
so cheeking you out get him to look hard by rub your leg and going oh oh ,,he look and he dose ,,talk ,,,i hert my leg ,,so how you doing in school and go from there and ware something hot so he keep looking ,,say you going to the game hay we can hock up
i think he wants u 2 mk the first move maybe hes 2 shy or afraid the u dont like him or something so is up 2 u try it i bet thats how hes feelin lol reward plz lol just kidding !!!!!
you should talk to him and find out..your waiting on him to say something to you..and he also could be waiting on you..so make an approach and say something to him 1st..shows your really intrested and if he dosent feel the same way..to bad at least you said something ..good luck with school!
hes interested in you.
Here's a novel idea, TALK TO HIM.What does HE WANT? advice plz! reward for best answer!?
why don't you ask him, people on the internet don't know any better than you do. He could think you are hot, cute, funny looking, he might think you are wierd or cool. Who knows?
so cheeking you out get him to look hard by rub your leg and going oh oh ,,he look and he dose ,,talk ,,,i hert my leg ,,so how you doing in school and go from there and ware something hot so he keep looking ,,say you going to the game hay we can hock up
i think he wants u 2 mk the first move maybe hes 2 shy or afraid the u dont like him or something so is up 2 u try it i bet thats how hes feelin lol reward plz lol just kidding !!!!!
you should talk to him and find out..your waiting on him to say something to you..and he also could be waiting on you..so make an approach and say something to him 1st..shows your really intrested and if he dosent feel the same way..to bad at least you said something ..good luck with school!
hes interested in you.
Advice for men..... The best thing to do?
On how to give a woman the big O.?Advice for men..... The best thing to do?
Love her, be patient and dont expext too much. All in good time.Advice for men..... The best thing to do?
invite your friends
go down on her and eat till they shake like jello and don't stop till they want it from you and they tie you up to get it. if you can use your touge then you will never get the big o from a woman.
go down on her
the back of the neck particularly near the base of the head is and extroadinarily powerful erogenous zone for many women....try just brushing your lips gently over the area and then get more intense as the mood does...also another biggie for me is breathing together...get real close to her face so that you can hear her breath and breath with her,so your breath almost becomes one...and you can feel each others body heat and well it just makes you hypersensitve and aware of every move or noise your partner makes...its really intense and you feel so in tune its like magic and you can slow it down and speed it up once you get used to doing this together...its amazing try it...god im gonna have to go find a man now...wow! lol
oral sex-guaranteed to work 100% but ask her first cus some women may not like it! why dont u ask her what she likes im sure she will be made up your thoughtful and want to please her! x
Put her on top..... never fails for me !
Licka-licka; licka-licka.
ORAL SEX ALWAYS DOES IT FOR ME,
Do it with flowers.
First u have 2 be comfortable and relaxed the if you are not of knowlage then good luck
Every women is different, so ask her what she likes and try different things!!!!!!!!!!!
Still waiting for the advice?
I find whatever suits the lady works best.
what the hell are u speaking about...
Thats the big money question aint it?
We are all different. All you can do is try your hardest, practice loads with your chosen partner!
If at first you dont succeed try, try again
listen to the girl, she knows what she wants!!
Love her, be patient and dont expext too much. All in good time.Advice for men..... The best thing to do?
invite your friends
go down on her and eat till they shake like jello and don't stop till they want it from you and they tie you up to get it. if you can use your touge then you will never get the big o from a woman.
go down on her
the back of the neck particularly near the base of the head is and extroadinarily powerful erogenous zone for many women....try just brushing your lips gently over the area and then get more intense as the mood does...also another biggie for me is breathing together...get real close to her face so that you can hear her breath and breath with her,so your breath almost becomes one...and you can feel each others body heat and well it just makes you hypersensitve and aware of every move or noise your partner makes...its really intense and you feel so in tune its like magic and you can slow it down and speed it up once you get used to doing this together...its amazing try it...god im gonna have to go find a man now...wow! lol
oral sex-guaranteed to work 100% but ask her first cus some women may not like it! why dont u ask her what she likes im sure she will be made up your thoughtful and want to please her! x
Put her on top..... never fails for me !
Licka-licka; licka-licka.
ORAL SEX ALWAYS DOES IT FOR ME,
Do it with flowers.
First u have 2 be comfortable and relaxed the if you are not of knowlage then good luck
Every women is different, so ask her what she likes and try different things!!!!!!!!!!!
Still waiting for the advice?
I find whatever suits the lady works best.
what the hell are u speaking about...
Thats the big money question aint it?
We are all different. All you can do is try your hardest, practice loads with your chosen partner!
If at first you dont succeed try, try again
listen to the girl, she knows what she wants!!
Advice on how to lead a guy to be your best friend(im a guy to)?
.Advice on how to lead a guy to be your best friend(im a guy to)?
You can't make anyone be your best friend, but if you want to gain a friend, just do fun stuff and be fun. Tell jokes, listen to interesting music. Draw attention to yourself in a positive way, while not overdoing it. Advice on how to lead a guy to be your best friend(im a guy to)?
Be authentic. Wins friendships all the time.
You can't make anyone be your best friend, but if you want to gain a friend, just do fun stuff and be fun. Tell jokes, listen to interesting music. Draw attention to yourself in a positive way, while not overdoing it. Advice on how to lead a guy to be your best friend(im a guy to)?
Be authentic. Wins friendships all the time.
I want to install best antivirus for internet cafe.plz advice free installation?
norten is installed but it has slowed the systemI want to install best antivirus for internet cafe.plz advice free installation?
avg free edition, is only available to home users and certain organisations, you can check the grisoft site? ';but'; I doubt if it is available ';free'; to internet cafe.
best of luck.I want to install best antivirus for internet cafe.plz advice free installation?
No you can't use AVG Legally for your internet cafe. It is only free for home use or personal use. You will have to buy a copy of it for business use. Avast is the same way. Both are great Anti Virus software but I like AVG the best. Anything is better then norton.
AVG. You need to buy a licensed copy. Very cheap no worries
I use the free = Avast = 4 Home Edition - Free antivirus software - free virus protection for home PC: - full-featured antivirus package designed for home usage.(FREE) = http://www.avast.com and really like it as it has always kept me safe from virus, worms, trojans, etc.,
Norton is bloat ware. I found this site pretty helpful http://www.basicspywaretips.com/getridof鈥?/a> Good free
list
I'd recommend the following products:
1. Avast Antivirus http://www.avast.com
2. AVG Antivirus http://www.girsoft.com
I don't think they're free for business establishments, but they are free for single users (home coumputers) check the licensing terms and be sure to abide by the same.
http://yanswers.blogspot.com/2006/10/ess鈥?/a>
Get rid of Norton and install an antivirus program from here:
http://askcomputerexpert.ws43.com/downlo鈥?/a>
Those are all free!
If you are using Windows on all computers in your Internet Cafe, use Windows Live OneCare. It is by far the best antivirus suite you can get for computers running Windows. It is more secure than any other antivirus and runs in the background, without ever affecting the performance of the computer. (Since it belongs to Microsoft itself, it integrates with the OS at a much deeper level than most other third party antiviruses do.)
You can obtain it from www.windowsonecare.com
avg free edition, is only available to home users and certain organisations, you can check the grisoft site? ';but'; I doubt if it is available ';free'; to internet cafe.
best of luck.I want to install best antivirus for internet cafe.plz advice free installation?
No you can't use AVG Legally for your internet cafe. It is only free for home use or personal use. You will have to buy a copy of it for business use. Avast is the same way. Both are great Anti Virus software but I like AVG the best. Anything is better then norton.
AVG. You need to buy a licensed copy. Very cheap no worries
I use the free = Avast = 4 Home Edition - Free antivirus software - free virus protection for home PC: - full-featured antivirus package designed for home usage.(FREE) = http://www.avast.com and really like it as it has always kept me safe from virus, worms, trojans, etc.,
Norton is bloat ware. I found this site pretty helpful http://www.basicspywaretips.com/getridof鈥?/a> Good free
list
I'd recommend the following products:
1. Avast Antivirus http://www.avast.com
2. AVG Antivirus http://www.girsoft.com
I don't think they're free for business establishments, but they are free for single users (home coumputers) check the licensing terms and be sure to abide by the same.
http://yanswers.blogspot.com/2006/10/ess鈥?/a>
Get rid of Norton and install an antivirus program from here:
http://askcomputerexpert.ws43.com/downlo鈥?/a>
Those are all free!
If you are using Windows on all computers in your Internet Cafe, use Windows Live OneCare. It is by far the best antivirus suite you can get for computers running Windows. It is more secure than any other antivirus and runs in the background, without ever affecting the performance of the computer. (Since it belongs to Microsoft itself, it integrates with the OS at a much deeper level than most other third party antiviruses do.)
You can obtain it from www.windowsonecare.com
Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
The situation: My best friend and her first love from junior high have been talking on the phone and through email for the past year. They live in different states and haven't seen each other since she moved sophomore year of high school. They had plans to meet when she was visiting family in Nov. She called him when she got into town, but he had changed his number and didn't get back with her until Feb. Weeks pass in between the emails she sends before he replies back. In Aug., she is being relocated for her job to the state he resides. He told her he has been really busy w/ work since he is a doctor. They have plans of continuing their childhood romance once she moves, but she is apprehensive because his actions appear to say something different than what he tells her. She has really fallen for him again and wants to have a relationship with this guy. All you men %26amp; women out there, help! Is his actions ';guy talk'; for not really being interested? What advice should I give her?Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
The way I see it, is he isn't really interested. That is was different just emailing each other, but when she goes for a visit, his number is changed, and no contact until she is well out of the area. And now she is moving there, and he is very busy..... One: I would find out if he is married, or has a live in girlfriend. Two: ask him straight out what the deal is. Also you say she wants to cont the ';childhood'; romance.... she is all grown up now. And she really doesn't know him as a person, it sounds like he has changed. But I think she should ask him if he wants to have some sort of releationship with her. Or if he was just carring on a email romance?? Tell your friend good luck, and I hope she doesn't get her heart broken.Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
Tell her to take it really slow, and watch her back. HE could be actually busy, or he could just be a jerk.
You're right. She should keep things very light until she knows how serious he is. He may be busy but he may be too busy to want to have a relationship too. The timeing might not be right for things to start again.
this could b a fake guy- those r very often... if he never shows up, then most likely fakedermalogica eyeshadow makeup
The way I see it, is he isn't really interested. That is was different just emailing each other, but when she goes for a visit, his number is changed, and no contact until she is well out of the area. And now she is moving there, and he is very busy..... One: I would find out if he is married, or has a live in girlfriend. Two: ask him straight out what the deal is. Also you say she wants to cont the ';childhood'; romance.... she is all grown up now. And she really doesn't know him as a person, it sounds like he has changed. But I think she should ask him if he wants to have some sort of releationship with her. Or if he was just carring on a email romance?? Tell your friend good luck, and I hope she doesn't get her heart broken.Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
Tell her to take it really slow, and watch her back. HE could be actually busy, or he could just be a jerk.
You're right. She should keep things very light until she knows how serious he is. He may be busy but he may be too busy to want to have a relationship too. The timeing might not be right for things to start again.
this could b a fake guy- those r very often... if he never shows up, then most likely fake
Problems with best friends and boyfriends...any advice?
yesterday if officially started ';going out'; with my BF {{in first period}} and by the time i got to lunch a dozen ppl came up to me and were all freaking out on me b/c...well he has a not so perfect past, but he said, and i believe him, that he HAS changed! at the end of the day my best friend comes up to me and starts yelling at me and made me feel worthless...i had to go to work after that and i fell (fast food joint) and twisted my ankel and still had to stay for 2 more hours till close and now i have no idea what to do about my new BF and my old BFF because i'm just trying to be the peace-keeper here...please help.....thanks~katieProblems with best friends and boyfriends...any advice?
I hope your ankle is okay. I know what it's like to do that, it sucks. Hope you iced it and took care of it.
No one has a perfect past, but it does depend on what kind of past activities he was in. Was he in gangs? Was he a bully? and so fourth and so on. Though people may change, it really depends on the person. Some skeletons eventually come out of the closet, and there is nothing you can do about it but protect yourself. Beware of how he acts. There is a huge difference between words and actions.
From your friend's actions, it sounds like she/they really do care about you, and doesn't want you getting hurt or being involved with something that could potentially hurt you.
One option could be for your friends to give your BF a chance. Ask them to talk to him one on one, and just see if maybe they change their mind.
It is hard to play peace-maker in this situation, seeing as your wants are different. You want to be with your BF, and you want your friends to accept your decision. However you do care about your friends and probably don't want them to leave because of a guy.
Another option may be to explain why you are dating your BF to your friends. Why you are dating him and what you see in him, and be able to put your feelings into words they understand.
Good Luck KATIE!Problems with best friends and boyfriends...any advice?
Well, that's a tough one. First of all, how bad is his past? Do you think that he's good enough of a person to trust? If he hasn't displayed any signs of his old behavior, then I would probably believe and trust him; however, if he reverts back to the way he used to act, I'd be careful. I have known many people to enter a relationship where their partner has had a rocky history, and their partner, even though they said they changed, really hadn't. So I'd just be careful and monitor the way he acts for a little while. And if your friend is really your friend, then she will respect the decision you make in the end. Unfortunately, despite your attempts, you may not be able to hold peace here. But in the end, just watch your boyfriend's behavior, and hope that your best friend will come to respect your decision with time. If you notice that your boyfriend's changed, other people may too.
I hope your ankle is okay. I know what it's like to do that, it sucks. Hope you iced it and took care of it.
No one has a perfect past, but it does depend on what kind of past activities he was in. Was he in gangs? Was he a bully? and so fourth and so on. Though people may change, it really depends on the person. Some skeletons eventually come out of the closet, and there is nothing you can do about it but protect yourself. Beware of how he acts. There is a huge difference between words and actions.
From your friend's actions, it sounds like she/they really do care about you, and doesn't want you getting hurt or being involved with something that could potentially hurt you.
One option could be for your friends to give your BF a chance. Ask them to talk to him one on one, and just see if maybe they change their mind.
It is hard to play peace-maker in this situation, seeing as your wants are different. You want to be with your BF, and you want your friends to accept your decision. However you do care about your friends and probably don't want them to leave because of a guy.
Another option may be to explain why you are dating your BF to your friends. Why you are dating him and what you see in him, and be able to put your feelings into words they understand.
Good Luck KATIE!Problems with best friends and boyfriends...any advice?
Well, that's a tough one. First of all, how bad is his past? Do you think that he's good enough of a person to trust? If he hasn't displayed any signs of his old behavior, then I would probably believe and trust him; however, if he reverts back to the way he used to act, I'd be careful. I have known many people to enter a relationship where their partner has had a rocky history, and their partner, even though they said they changed, really hadn't. So I'd just be careful and monitor the way he acts for a little while. And if your friend is really your friend, then she will respect the decision you make in the end. Unfortunately, despite your attempts, you may not be able to hold peace here. But in the end, just watch your boyfriend's behavior, and hope that your best friend will come to respect your decision with time. If you notice that your boyfriend's changed, other people may too.
Need some sincere relationship advice please. Will give best answer nod.?
Ok, my girlfriend told me last week that she needed a ';break';, but not a ';break-up';. Said that we both have things that we need to work on before we see each other again. With me, I need to get out of my mom's house and get my own place (I'm 28). But before anyone says anything, my father died 3 years ago, and I've had to help my mom with all the bills (mortgage, utilities, and hospital bills from my dad before he passed away). I am currently looking at a couple of places and plan on being out within 3 months. My girlfriend said that she needs to get back to her old ';fun'; self. Which I agree. The last year and a half she has been way too needy/possessive, and an emotional wreck who always took her problems out on me. I agree with us taking some time apart, but, I don't want to hurt our relationship by seeing other people. It was brought up (by her) that we might want to see others to make sure that we were each other's one. So, how long before I start to see someone else?Need some sincere relationship advice please. Will give best answer nod.?
that's a tough one!!! first of all, sorry about your dad! if she (or you) is looking for the right time, let me tell you it never gets here. good timing rarely makes an appearance in relationships. from the sounds of it, she has already made her decision, especially if she wants to see other people while you guys are ';taking a break';. if you are with someone and want to be with them in the future, you simply don't want to sleep with and/or date anyone else. i cannot comprehend wanting to date random people when you love someone! does not compute...
could you really put your whole heart into a relationship when you know she's been ';elsewhere';? i would not be able to. and if you can't put your whole heart into it, it is doomed to failure. if you were the one for her and she for you, you would both know that by now. also, needy and possesive are not attractive qualities in any mate. look at what you REALLY want from a mate and see if she is it. if not, trust me, you WILL NOT change her into someone you want to be with!!!
although i don't know the whole situation, i can say that the signs shown here lead directly to splitsville, as they should! why do you want to be with someone who wants to date other people...that is just weird! anyway, you sound like a good guy so find yourself a good girl who does not need you, but wants you!!!
hey, i'm single! ; )Need some sincere relationship advice please. Will give best answer nod.?
How many ways do you put this...
You wont know what you've got until its gone.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Out of sight, out of mind.
Blah blah... all this stuff is probably wants going on through her mind and she is probably frustrated with the domesticated woman she has become (believe me, I've been there), so she is trying to get back to her old self to feel ';fun'; again, ';sexy'; again, and probably most importantly, ';wanted';. She needs an ego boost, and the only people that could give it to her are people who check her out, people who want to be with her, and blah blah.
If she is trying to go on a break, you might as well break up. There is no difference at all. But the most important phrase you both have to remember, is ';if it was meant to be, it will be';. Could be timing is off. But whatever you two decide to do, either see other people, stop seeing each other, or whatever, it will all become clear when you no longer have each other.
good luck.
wat until u r positive that u r broken up cuz u don`t wanna have a new gf and still have her inlove with u................make sure that u kno u want a new gf b4 getting with another girl and breaking both their hearts..........and make sure u r truly in love with the new girl...........................so don`t go breaking ppls hearts cuz u r depressed by ur break up..............so wait a while b4 getting a new gf
Get situated in your new place first and take some time out of the social scene so that you can get some stability in your life. It doesn't sound like she is going to waste much time getting out there if she wants to have fun. So I guess it's really up to you.
Look if your going to see other people it is a break up. How can either of your find yourselfs while dating others. if this is the case why break? You guys need to band together or go your separate ways.
I have felt that way in the relationship I am in, wanting to take a break. Sometimes it because I miss being alone, and need my ';amber time';. And sometimes its because things don't look the way I want my life to be.
So if your question is when do you date? Well, when you know, you know. Sometimes people come into our lives that are unexpected. And sometimes they don't
You'll just have to leave it up to fate, and your gut insticts
first of all you should try to move out of your mothers house. you should maybe consider renting an apartment with a friend of yours so you dont spend to much money. this way you could still help you mom with her bills. about your girlfriend wanting to get back to her ';ffun'; self, when you get back together you should take time like each week of something to go out with your friends. i think that if she said she wants to see other people, then anytime would be okay for you to start seeing other people. i hope i could help.. :]
First of all, sorry to hear about your dad. It seems like you've been through a lot in the past few years and that your life is going through a lot of changes right now again. It's probably really stressful right now, but that's part of the whole transition to adulthood thing - yeah, you thought it only happened when you turned 18, right? It's a process that lasts a long time, for most people, because it takes awhile to physically and psychologically move away from your parents influence and grow into your own. For you, it's a little more obvious because you're still living with your mother and helping her out. I wouldn't consider it a bad thing, by the way. It's just different, by US standards.
You didn't say how long you've been with your girlfriend, but it seems like it's been a very long time since you mentioned that she's been needy the past year and a half. This tells me that you've probably been together a fairly significant amount of time, and that you've probably weathered many emotional milestones together. Therefore, I think that taking time off for you would mean you won't be emotionally available to date very soon. It will likely take some time to work out your feelings about this relationship, and rather than complicate things by involving someone else, take the time for yourself. You don't even have to do so, if you don't want to. I realize that she might date right away, and it might be tempting to do so just because she's doing so, but you have to be strong enough to do things at your own pace.
I do think that living on your own or with a roommate would be a good idea for you. Whether or not your relationship with your girlfriend takes a break or continues on, it's good to have some time where you lived independently and developed your identity as a man on his own. In some cultures, this is not so much of an issue, and men and women live with their parents until they marry, then live with their spouse (and/or family) after that. However, in US culture, men are expected to have a certain independent identity, and a good way to cultivate this is by doing exactly as you are doing.
Good luck to you. I know it will not be easy, but nothing character building ever is. It sounds like you've definitely got the strength and determination to do this, and the self awareness of your own needs to not push yourself to do things ';just because.';
giving each other some space for a while is absolutely necessary. sometimes we immerse ourselves so deep in to a relationship that we start loosing our own self. this a point probably you or your gf are going through.
now your qquestion is how long you should wait before seeing someone else? well to that i will say if you really like your gf and sincerely do not want to loose her, then why u think about seeing someone else? even if she says so, you must do what u want to do. not because she said she wants to see someone else, you will also jump into it. then it will be you also who will jeoperdize the trust and sincereity of any relationship.
give her a break, let her go and watch her. if she does not waste a day to get out and does not come back to you, she was never yours. if she does come back, she will never go back..
if on the other hand you think there is no problem in seeing someone else which i think in a way is a cheating, then go for it. may be you will see things clearly after hanging out with someone else, of what you want in ur life and what r u looking for in your partner..
besides, things dont happen when you plan to.. they just happen.. and you will know it...
I would wait a while before I started to see someone else. It also depends on how you feel about each other. If you are truly in love with her, then I would wait and then if she seem like she wants to keep having her fun, then I would too!!!!
that's a tough one!!! first of all, sorry about your dad! if she (or you) is looking for the right time, let me tell you it never gets here. good timing rarely makes an appearance in relationships. from the sounds of it, she has already made her decision, especially if she wants to see other people while you guys are ';taking a break';. if you are with someone and want to be with them in the future, you simply don't want to sleep with and/or date anyone else. i cannot comprehend wanting to date random people when you love someone! does not compute...
could you really put your whole heart into a relationship when you know she's been ';elsewhere';? i would not be able to. and if you can't put your whole heart into it, it is doomed to failure. if you were the one for her and she for you, you would both know that by now. also, needy and possesive are not attractive qualities in any mate. look at what you REALLY want from a mate and see if she is it. if not, trust me, you WILL NOT change her into someone you want to be with!!!
although i don't know the whole situation, i can say that the signs shown here lead directly to splitsville, as they should! why do you want to be with someone who wants to date other people...that is just weird! anyway, you sound like a good guy so find yourself a good girl who does not need you, but wants you!!!
hey, i'm single! ; )Need some sincere relationship advice please. Will give best answer nod.?
How many ways do you put this...
You wont know what you've got until its gone.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Out of sight, out of mind.
Blah blah... all this stuff is probably wants going on through her mind and she is probably frustrated with the domesticated woman she has become (believe me, I've been there), so she is trying to get back to her old self to feel ';fun'; again, ';sexy'; again, and probably most importantly, ';wanted';. She needs an ego boost, and the only people that could give it to her are people who check her out, people who want to be with her, and blah blah.
If she is trying to go on a break, you might as well break up. There is no difference at all. But the most important phrase you both have to remember, is ';if it was meant to be, it will be';. Could be timing is off. But whatever you two decide to do, either see other people, stop seeing each other, or whatever, it will all become clear when you no longer have each other.
good luck.
wat until u r positive that u r broken up cuz u don`t wanna have a new gf and still have her inlove with u................make sure that u kno u want a new gf b4 getting with another girl and breaking both their hearts..........and make sure u r truly in love with the new girl...........................so don`t go breaking ppls hearts cuz u r depressed by ur break up..............so wait a while b4 getting a new gf
Get situated in your new place first and take some time out of the social scene so that you can get some stability in your life. It doesn't sound like she is going to waste much time getting out there if she wants to have fun. So I guess it's really up to you.
Look if your going to see other people it is a break up. How can either of your find yourselfs while dating others. if this is the case why break? You guys need to band together or go your separate ways.
I have felt that way in the relationship I am in, wanting to take a break. Sometimes it because I miss being alone, and need my ';amber time';. And sometimes its because things don't look the way I want my life to be.
So if your question is when do you date? Well, when you know, you know. Sometimes people come into our lives that are unexpected. And sometimes they don't
You'll just have to leave it up to fate, and your gut insticts
first of all you should try to move out of your mothers house. you should maybe consider renting an apartment with a friend of yours so you dont spend to much money. this way you could still help you mom with her bills. about your girlfriend wanting to get back to her ';ffun'; self, when you get back together you should take time like each week of something to go out with your friends. i think that if she said she wants to see other people, then anytime would be okay for you to start seeing other people. i hope i could help.. :]
First of all, sorry to hear about your dad. It seems like you've been through a lot in the past few years and that your life is going through a lot of changes right now again. It's probably really stressful right now, but that's part of the whole transition to adulthood thing - yeah, you thought it only happened when you turned 18, right? It's a process that lasts a long time, for most people, because it takes awhile to physically and psychologically move away from your parents influence and grow into your own. For you, it's a little more obvious because you're still living with your mother and helping her out. I wouldn't consider it a bad thing, by the way. It's just different, by US standards.
You didn't say how long you've been with your girlfriend, but it seems like it's been a very long time since you mentioned that she's been needy the past year and a half. This tells me that you've probably been together a fairly significant amount of time, and that you've probably weathered many emotional milestones together. Therefore, I think that taking time off for you would mean you won't be emotionally available to date very soon. It will likely take some time to work out your feelings about this relationship, and rather than complicate things by involving someone else, take the time for yourself. You don't even have to do so, if you don't want to. I realize that she might date right away, and it might be tempting to do so just because she's doing so, but you have to be strong enough to do things at your own pace.
I do think that living on your own or with a roommate would be a good idea for you. Whether or not your relationship with your girlfriend takes a break or continues on, it's good to have some time where you lived independently and developed your identity as a man on his own. In some cultures, this is not so much of an issue, and men and women live with their parents until they marry, then live with their spouse (and/or family) after that. However, in US culture, men are expected to have a certain independent identity, and a good way to cultivate this is by doing exactly as you are doing.
Good luck to you. I know it will not be easy, but nothing character building ever is. It sounds like you've definitely got the strength and determination to do this, and the self awareness of your own needs to not push yourself to do things ';just because.';
giving each other some space for a while is absolutely necessary. sometimes we immerse ourselves so deep in to a relationship that we start loosing our own self. this a point probably you or your gf are going through.
now your qquestion is how long you should wait before seeing someone else? well to that i will say if you really like your gf and sincerely do not want to loose her, then why u think about seeing someone else? even if she says so, you must do what u want to do. not because she said she wants to see someone else, you will also jump into it. then it will be you also who will jeoperdize the trust and sincereity of any relationship.
give her a break, let her go and watch her. if she does not waste a day to get out and does not come back to you, she was never yours. if she does come back, she will never go back..
if on the other hand you think there is no problem in seeing someone else which i think in a way is a cheating, then go for it. may be you will see things clearly after hanging out with someone else, of what you want in ur life and what r u looking for in your partner..
besides, things dont happen when you plan to.. they just happen.. and you will know it...
I would wait a while before I started to see someone else. It also depends on how you feel about each other. If you are truly in love with her, then I would wait and then if she seem like she wants to keep having her fun, then I would too!!!!
ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE ....... my best friend is............?
My best friend is dating a girl who although is probably nice has changed him a lot. he is slacking at work, messing up his divorce which is costing him money and neglecting his friends especially me. he wont see any of us without her around, and although he talks to me on the phone 3 or 4 times a week he has not seen me alone once in the last 6 months and only seen me 4 times during then with her. His personality has changed everyone has noticed, hes very happy though just unreliable and not a goo dfriend anymore. So much so when i got bad test results and he wld normally have come over to see if i was ok he didnt bother and didnt really seem to care which was hurtful. i have finally told him i need to talk to him alone and he is coming over tonight to talk.... what is everyones viewpoint - hes lost all his other friends they have moved on as have i but a part of me thinks i shld give him a chance to change or understand whats going on i think he is oblivious. hes a nice person .ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE ....... my best friend is............?
Explain all you wrote in your question to him and have an honest, open conversation. Period!ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE ....... my best friend is............?
This seems to be more about you than your ';friend';. He has got himself a girl and you are feeling neglected She's ';probably'; a nice girl ';but'; etc. In your opinion he's slacking at work and not spending time being concerned about you. How is it possible for his divorce to be messed up because he has a girlfriend and why does it bother you when, evidently, it don't bother him. My advice to you is stop being self centred and be more supportive you really are quite thick. Why should he not bring the girl he probably loves round to meet his (so-called) friends You think he is letting things slip well I think he is probably putting things into perspective and sorting out the important things in his life, quite frankly you sound like a spurned girlfriend, I can picture the scene - It's me or her, I think you are on a loser.
by having him around you are still offering him the hand of friendship it will be up to him if he takes it ...it sad that he has drop his friends because of a new gf he should try and make time for you all nights out with mates nights with her and as a group ..but his mates have to make her welcome as well..maybe you haven't done that or maybe she has a low self esteem and she finds it hard to deal with his mates.... what ever the reason let him know how you feel so he can pick what he wants to do
May be he has to really ';f';-up to see his ways, you can point them out but he has to take heed. If he is truly as ';whipped'; as you say, there is no saving him, he is lost to that ever controlling ';hole';, stay clear, the fall out is not going to be nice.
I have the same problem with my brother as he married someone and now is totally engulfed in her. She doesn't want him seeing me. There is nothing you or I can do or say that will change anything. The best thing to do is just be there for him and maybe someday he will see what is happening. Confrontation is the worst possible thing you can do.
i think you should think of possible ways to LET him
open to you first before you attempt to tell him his faults...
if you get the first strike, chances are... you'll lose him....
his girlfriend sounds like some kind of a control freak she s the one that changed him, talk to him and tell him exactly wot u think and how u feel if he doesnt like wot u tell him then he obviously aint worth it and u ll be wasting your time on him.
Since he has a lot to deal with at this time(divorce,work friends,and new girl friend).Maybe this is over whelming to him,and since he ';thinks ';he is happy with the new girl friend(I said thinks because since this might be a rebound thing-he maynot be thinking like he normaly would have,and she MAYBE taking advantage of/controling him.If you can/if you feel the friend he was is worth it=still be a friend to him!If she is useing him/?,he will need you more then ever when his world crashes down on him!Good Luck!!
drugs? afraid of disapproval in love affair.?talk it out.
Get him to read this! You have explained very clearly the
way that you feel and why. See what he has to say. It is
very hard when you are going through a divorce. I know
I wanted my friends - it was a long time before I was ready
for another relationship. If he at any time finished with this
current girlfriend. What would he do? Turn to his friends
or go find another girl? It sound like his new partner has
moulded him into someone you do not know anymore. That
is so sad. He must see where you are coming from. You sound
like the kind of friend he should be grateful to have. Let him
read this as well!! If he is as nice as you say, he won,t fly
of the handle he will sit and listen to you. Hope it goes okay.
Unfortunately, I did a friend that way. I didn't mean to. I just got involved with the woman whom I would later marry. I did have him be my best man and he was more like a brother to me, but I didn't see him as often as I did before I got married. Of course, the girl(my wife)didn't interfere with my job, that I know of, and she really didn't make me loose my other friends(she did, however, often make me choose between her and my family), but even when she passed away I had two young children to raise on my own and didn't see my friend any more often, then. Now he's not around anymore. He was killed two, or three years ago by a train and I wish I had spent more time with him. Tell that to your friend. But, if he doesn't change, just be willing to be there for him anyway. Good luck.
can you say p!%sy whipped
Explain all you wrote in your question to him and have an honest, open conversation. Period!ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE ....... my best friend is............?
This seems to be more about you than your ';friend';. He has got himself a girl and you are feeling neglected She's ';probably'; a nice girl ';but'; etc. In your opinion he's slacking at work and not spending time being concerned about you. How is it possible for his divorce to be messed up because he has a girlfriend and why does it bother you when, evidently, it don't bother him. My advice to you is stop being self centred and be more supportive you really are quite thick. Why should he not bring the girl he probably loves round to meet his (so-called) friends You think he is letting things slip well I think he is probably putting things into perspective and sorting out the important things in his life, quite frankly you sound like a spurned girlfriend, I can picture the scene - It's me or her, I think you are on a loser.
by having him around you are still offering him the hand of friendship it will be up to him if he takes it ...it sad that he has drop his friends because of a new gf he should try and make time for you all nights out with mates nights with her and as a group ..but his mates have to make her welcome as well..maybe you haven't done that or maybe she has a low self esteem and she finds it hard to deal with his mates.... what ever the reason let him know how you feel so he can pick what he wants to do
May be he has to really ';f';-up to see his ways, you can point them out but he has to take heed. If he is truly as ';whipped'; as you say, there is no saving him, he is lost to that ever controlling ';hole';, stay clear, the fall out is not going to be nice.
I have the same problem with my brother as he married someone and now is totally engulfed in her. She doesn't want him seeing me. There is nothing you or I can do or say that will change anything. The best thing to do is just be there for him and maybe someday he will see what is happening. Confrontation is the worst possible thing you can do.
i think you should think of possible ways to LET him
open to you first before you attempt to tell him his faults...
if you get the first strike, chances are... you'll lose him....
his girlfriend sounds like some kind of a control freak she s the one that changed him, talk to him and tell him exactly wot u think and how u feel if he doesnt like wot u tell him then he obviously aint worth it and u ll be wasting your time on him.
Since he has a lot to deal with at this time(divorce,work friends,and new girl friend).Maybe this is over whelming to him,and since he ';thinks ';he is happy with the new girl friend(I said thinks because since this might be a rebound thing-he maynot be thinking like he normaly would have,and she MAYBE taking advantage of/controling him.If you can/if you feel the friend he was is worth it=still be a friend to him!If she is useing him/?,he will need you more then ever when his world crashes down on him!Good Luck!!
drugs? afraid of disapproval in love affair.?talk it out.
Get him to read this! You have explained very clearly the
way that you feel and why. See what he has to say. It is
very hard when you are going through a divorce. I know
I wanted my friends - it was a long time before I was ready
for another relationship. If he at any time finished with this
current girlfriend. What would he do? Turn to his friends
or go find another girl? It sound like his new partner has
moulded him into someone you do not know anymore. That
is so sad. He must see where you are coming from. You sound
like the kind of friend he should be grateful to have. Let him
read this as well!! If he is as nice as you say, he won,t fly
of the handle he will sit and listen to you. Hope it goes okay.
Unfortunately, I did a friend that way. I didn't mean to. I just got involved with the woman whom I would later marry. I did have him be my best man and he was more like a brother to me, but I didn't see him as often as I did before I got married. Of course, the girl(my wife)didn't interfere with my job, that I know of, and she really didn't make me loose my other friends(she did, however, often make me choose between her and my family), but even when she passed away I had two young children to raise on my own and didn't see my friend any more often, then. Now he's not around anymore. He was killed two, or three years ago by a train and I wish I had spent more time with him. Tell that to your friend. But, if he doesn't change, just be willing to be there for him anyway. Good luck.
can you say p!%sy whipped
My best friends cousin likes me....advice please?
im a guy, i just found out that my best friend(a girl) cousin(a girl) likes me. i am not sure if i like her or not, shes good looking but is just getting over her ex who just moved away...not sure what to do:/My best friends cousin likes me....advice please?
talk to your freind, see if its fair game
Will anyone who reads this please go to my question and answer it for me, i need help
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>My best friends cousin likes me....advice please?
Same-ish thing is going on with me, I really like my best friend's cousin but I don't know if he likes me back. Therefore, I can't answer this question without being partial or biased, because of course I would love to tell you to go for it because that would give me hope. :p
she's kind of rebounding so you needn't worry
time will decide for you
repute everything she offers just not in a casual convo
take it slow she's probably on the rebound
go for it....get some.
tap that
talk to your freind, see if its fair game
Will anyone who reads this please go to my question and answer it for me, i need help
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>My best friends cousin likes me....advice please?
Same-ish thing is going on with me, I really like my best friend's cousin but I don't know if he likes me back. Therefore, I can't answer this question without being partial or biased, because of course I would love to tell you to go for it because that would give me hope. :p
she's kind of rebounding so you needn't worry
time will decide for you
repute everything she offers just not in a casual convo
take it slow she's probably on the rebound
go for it....get some.
tap that
What is the most best site for learning english , and what is your advice to help me to speak it very well?
Never mind the comments what you receive. It should only goad you to master the language and should make you determined to get the hang of it.
The reason everyone is good in English is because they like you started doing so some time back and have sincerely put time and effort and a lot of hard work to get the hang of the language. To begin with once the initial hurdle of trying to get the correct spelling is mastered then you need to work out on your grammar. Try constructing sentences that are not only grammatically correct but pleasant to hear and read. The more practice you put into improving your language will give you a lot of confidence. Just remember that we all began like you. A couple of things that you need to work on is your pronunciation and your grammar. Start framing sentences and then writing small paragraphs and then extend to writing short stories and eventually a full length composition taking care to see that all the punctuations, grammar, spelling etc is in place. I would suggest that you have the book on grammar by -Wren and Martin and also if you are from a non English speaking place put more emphasis on your pronunciation. If possible join some spoken English classes and if you get a chance you could even master phonetics. You can refer to the pronunciation book by Daniel Jones.Listen to a lot of English news, plays etc. I am sure with a lot of hard work you would be able to master English as most of the people out there but remember there can be no real master as everyday is a learning process. Never Give up. All the Best. May God Bless You.
Try the following links for learning English:
http://www.learnenglish.org.uk/
http://english-zone.com/index.php
http://www.englishclub.com/
I have also added a few more links here
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=na鈥?/a>What is the most best site for learning english , and what is your advice to help me to speak it very well?
You should have learned it before commming over. Are you sure you are even legal to be here.What is the most best site for learning english , and what is your advice to help me to speak it very well?
Here are a few sites for learning english:
www.english-at-home.com/
http://www.edufind.com/
http://www.study.com/
i dont know what is the best this is just a few i have heard of. The english language is real hard there is alot of slang. The best advise is to ask a teacher to help define the most important terms and define them on index cards and study, study, study. Also ask the teacher for slang terms to know.
There are too many English websites to really say which is best. Some are better than others in certain areas.
My advice to you is twofold:
1) Remember that you want to get your message across first and worry about developing such and such an accent last. What communication boils down to is to get things done by you or for you, that is, get food, medicine, clothing and shelter, etc. Whether your accent is French, Spanish or German is of least importance.
2) Try developing a hard skin. Some Americans, as other people, don't have very good people skills. Some people will only hear your accent and not your message. They may even interrupt your message to make comments about it, and if you are Saudi and they say such banal things as, ';Oh, What part of India are you from?';, be patient. Don't forget your goal should be to communicate your needs to get things done, not to be an angry Saudi.
Hi! I am a teacher in China and I know that it is really hard to learn English. If you live in an English speaking country than a really good way to learn is exposure. Make friends if you can and speak with them often. Most of my students here know words but don't know how to actually speak english. I tell them every day - speak all the time, talk with each other in english if you can rather than chinese. Another really good way is to learn useful english rather than useless words and stuff thats really hard to remember. I am learning chinese at the moment and i am starting with the basic usefull words that i can remember and use when i need them.
English is a really hard language to learn because of all the rules that contridict each other. Just keep practicing everyday and you'll get there.
http://www.englishclub.com
find an english to spanish tutor. look around on te internet for ads, or ask your friends.
The reason everyone is good in English is because they like you started doing so some time back and have sincerely put time and effort and a lot of hard work to get the hang of the language. To begin with once the initial hurdle of trying to get the correct spelling is mastered then you need to work out on your grammar. Try constructing sentences that are not only grammatically correct but pleasant to hear and read. The more practice you put into improving your language will give you a lot of confidence. Just remember that we all began like you. A couple of things that you need to work on is your pronunciation and your grammar. Start framing sentences and then writing small paragraphs and then extend to writing short stories and eventually a full length composition taking care to see that all the punctuations, grammar, spelling etc is in place. I would suggest that you have the book on grammar by -Wren and Martin and also if you are from a non English speaking place put more emphasis on your pronunciation. If possible join some spoken English classes and if you get a chance you could even master phonetics. You can refer to the pronunciation book by Daniel Jones.Listen to a lot of English news, plays etc. I am sure with a lot of hard work you would be able to master English as most of the people out there but remember there can be no real master as everyday is a learning process. Never Give up. All the Best. May God Bless You.
Try the following links for learning English:
http://www.learnenglish.org.uk/
http://english-zone.com/index.php
http://www.englishclub.com/
I have also added a few more links here
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=na鈥?/a>What is the most best site for learning english , and what is your advice to help me to speak it very well?
You should have learned it before commming over. Are you sure you are even legal to be here.What is the most best site for learning english , and what is your advice to help me to speak it very well?
Here are a few sites for learning english:
www.english-at-home.com/
http://www.edufind.com/
http://www.study.com/
i dont know what is the best this is just a few i have heard of. The english language is real hard there is alot of slang. The best advise is to ask a teacher to help define the most important terms and define them on index cards and study, study, study. Also ask the teacher for slang terms to know.
There are too many English websites to really say which is best. Some are better than others in certain areas.
My advice to you is twofold:
1) Remember that you want to get your message across first and worry about developing such and such an accent last. What communication boils down to is to get things done by you or for you, that is, get food, medicine, clothing and shelter, etc. Whether your accent is French, Spanish or German is of least importance.
2) Try developing a hard skin. Some Americans, as other people, don't have very good people skills. Some people will only hear your accent and not your message. They may even interrupt your message to make comments about it, and if you are Saudi and they say such banal things as, ';Oh, What part of India are you from?';, be patient. Don't forget your goal should be to communicate your needs to get things done, not to be an angry Saudi.
Hi! I am a teacher in China and I know that it is really hard to learn English. If you live in an English speaking country than a really good way to learn is exposure. Make friends if you can and speak with them often. Most of my students here know words but don't know how to actually speak english. I tell them every day - speak all the time, talk with each other in english if you can rather than chinese. Another really good way is to learn useful english rather than useless words and stuff thats really hard to remember. I am learning chinese at the moment and i am starting with the basic usefull words that i can remember and use when i need them.
English is a really hard language to learn because of all the rules that contridict each other. Just keep practicing everyday and you'll get there.
http://www.englishclub.com
find an english to spanish tutor. look around on te internet for ads, or ask your friends.
Um...I need advice after something my best friend said?
i'd rather not post it on here, as he's on Yahoo, but I really do need advice. Anyone who can help, please email me at shadowmancer316@yahoo.comUm...I need advice after something my best friend said?
If it was something hurtful talk to him about it.Um...I need advice after something my best friend said?
how can i help if i dont know what ur best friend said
i guess thats why the age-old adage goes 'u cant have have a real platonic friendship between a guy and a girl'. anyway, i think its the end of ur 'friendship' - its goodbye, guy, time.
well i think you should email me so i can helo you answer this because if not i cant help you
well considering hes your best friend...and asking you that question. wow.
and you should talk to him about and make sure you know how he meant it. make sure you're on the same page.
thxs for the 2 points
i will do that sure but i want the points too :p
pink_karistakat@yahoo.com
well i would answer you if you would put down ur questiondermalogica maybelline
If it was something hurtful talk to him about it.Um...I need advice after something my best friend said?
how can i help if i dont know what ur best friend said
i guess thats why the age-old adage goes 'u cant have have a real platonic friendship between a guy and a girl'. anyway, i think its the end of ur 'friendship' - its goodbye, guy, time.
well i think you should email me so i can helo you answer this because if not i cant help you
well considering hes your best friend...and asking you that question. wow.
and you should talk to him about and make sure you know how he meant it. make sure you're on the same page.
thxs for the 2 points
i will do that sure but i want the points too :p
pink_karistakat@yahoo.com
well i would answer you if you would put down ur question
Best friend is going to Afghanistan tomorrow..advice please?
Hi there,
My best friend is in the Navy and he is going to Afghanistan for 6 months starting tomorrow morning. He doesn't tell me much about what is going on over there...he says he doesn't want me to worry but can someone please fill me in on how things are going on over there?
*also what is a good care package idea?*
thank you for the help! :)Best friend is going to Afghanistan tomorrow..advice please?
For 'care package' ideas, go to SOLDIERS ANGELS web site:
http://soldiersangels.org/index.php?page鈥?/a>
Scroll down about 1/2 way and you'll see the suggested items for 'care packages' that you can use in your own 'care package'.
Take a look around the (member of the Patriot Guard Riders...www.patriotguard.org ). It was given to me by one of their staff 2 years ago. I wear it proudly and when someone asks about it (gold angel with a soldier's shadow in the center of the angel), I am glad to tell them about the organization.
(USN, retired)Best friend is going to Afghanistan tomorrow..advice please?
since he's navy unless he's a SEAL or EOD you dont need to worry about him: he'll be a safe fobbit, meaning he wotn leave the base.
find out what he has available to him at his base before you go loading up a care package. some bases have pretty good PXs on them so he'll be able to buy anything he needs, and you can just send things he wants instead of shampoo, socks, etc.
He'll be fine. The Navy Guys see VERY little ';Action'; over there- because most of what they DO- is off shore Patrolling... SO NOT to worry... -He'll be Home in NO Time ! [ %26amp; Care Packages can include, Candy, favorite Books, Photos %26amp; letters, and a couple of local Hometown Newspapers- to show Him what's been ';goin' on'; by You ! ]. Wish Him ';Well';- from Us ! :)
Ask him to marry you, make love to him, and have his baby 9 months latter.
P.S. Tell him Thank you for his service to our great country and be safe.
Good care package?
Candy that won't melt easy.
Stamps and writing materials.
Write him lots, even if he doesn't write back lots.
Tell him we said thanks.
I'm a vet. :)
Ask him to be safe and main thing is,
ASK HIM TO RETURN AS SUCH HE IS LEAVING NOW,
Tell him to not kill innocents alot.
My best friend is in the Navy and he is going to Afghanistan for 6 months starting tomorrow morning. He doesn't tell me much about what is going on over there...he says he doesn't want me to worry but can someone please fill me in on how things are going on over there?
*also what is a good care package idea?*
thank you for the help! :)Best friend is going to Afghanistan tomorrow..advice please?
For 'care package' ideas, go to SOLDIERS ANGELS web site:
http://soldiersangels.org/index.php?page鈥?/a>
Scroll down about 1/2 way and you'll see the suggested items for 'care packages' that you can use in your own 'care package'.
Take a look around the (member of the Patriot Guard Riders...www.patriotguard.org ). It was given to me by one of their staff 2 years ago. I wear it proudly and when someone asks about it (gold angel with a soldier's shadow in the center of the angel), I am glad to tell them about the organization.
(USN, retired)Best friend is going to Afghanistan tomorrow..advice please?
since he's navy unless he's a SEAL or EOD you dont need to worry about him: he'll be a safe fobbit, meaning he wotn leave the base.
find out what he has available to him at his base before you go loading up a care package. some bases have pretty good PXs on them so he'll be able to buy anything he needs, and you can just send things he wants instead of shampoo, socks, etc.
He'll be fine. The Navy Guys see VERY little ';Action'; over there- because most of what they DO- is off shore Patrolling... SO NOT to worry... -He'll be Home in NO Time ! [ %26amp; Care Packages can include, Candy, favorite Books, Photos %26amp; letters, and a couple of local Hometown Newspapers- to show Him what's been ';goin' on'; by You ! ]. Wish Him ';Well';- from Us ! :)
Ask him to marry you, make love to him, and have his baby 9 months latter.
P.S. Tell him Thank you for his service to our great country and be safe.
Good care package?
Candy that won't melt easy.
Stamps and writing materials.
Write him lots, even if he doesn't write back lots.
Tell him we said thanks.
I'm a vet. :)
Ask him to be safe and main thing is,
ASK HIM TO RETURN AS SUCH HE IS LEAVING NOW,
Tell him to not kill innocents alot.
What kind of advice should i give my best friend since she just found out that she was pregnant??
Well, maybe she doesn't need advise. Maybe she just needs a friend to be there for her through her pregnancy.What kind of advice should i give my best friend since she just found out that she was pregnant??
None. I HATE how everyone immeidately shares their stories/anecdotes/whatever.
It takes time to adjust to the idea and not be freaked out so having unsolicited advice is just annoying.What kind of advice should i give my best friend since she just found out that she was pregnant??
maybe she just needs u to be there for her no matter what. having a friend around when things are not going well or what ever the case may be is always a great thing. She may need some one to just talk to about how she is feeling and what not. so i say just always be there when she needs you.
Savvygrl is right. Sometimes when a friend has a problem our immediate reaction is to come up with an answer to fix it. Really, what you friend may need is someone to listen to her - not tell her what she should do.
If your friend does need resources for help, here are some websites:
http://pregnancyandbaby.com/
http://pregnancytoday.com/
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/links/i鈥?/a>
To relax now is the time in the pregnancy were she dosn't want to stress out jsut be there to talk to when she needs you and mabe take her shopping that is always fun to look at baby stuff..... Also tell her that you are happy and excited for her
just support here.. don't do abortion... or tell her parents about it...
Just tell her you will be there for her. And I agree with Amanda
no advice just be a freind
Yes, I agree she might not need advice right now. Just let her know that you are there for her and that you are just as excited as she it.
If you want to show her how excited you are for her, you could get her a pregnancy gift. Peanut Little sells an amazing Pregnancy Care Package www.peanutlittle.com. I've given a few of them to close friends and they couldn't stop talking about how much they loved them.
I hope your friend has a wonderful pregnancy.
take a prenatal vitamins to ensure her baby gets the vitamins he needs.
None. I HATE how everyone immeidately shares their stories/anecdotes/whatever.
It takes time to adjust to the idea and not be freaked out so having unsolicited advice is just annoying.What kind of advice should i give my best friend since she just found out that she was pregnant??
maybe she just needs u to be there for her no matter what. having a friend around when things are not going well or what ever the case may be is always a great thing. She may need some one to just talk to about how she is feeling and what not. so i say just always be there when she needs you.
Savvygrl is right. Sometimes when a friend has a problem our immediate reaction is to come up with an answer to fix it. Really, what you friend may need is someone to listen to her - not tell her what she should do.
If your friend does need resources for help, here are some websites:
http://pregnancyandbaby.com/
http://pregnancytoday.com/
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/links/i鈥?/a>
To relax now is the time in the pregnancy were she dosn't want to stress out jsut be there to talk to when she needs you and mabe take her shopping that is always fun to look at baby stuff..... Also tell her that you are happy and excited for her
just support here.. don't do abortion... or tell her parents about it...
Just tell her you will be there for her. And I agree with Amanda
no advice just be a freind
Yes, I agree she might not need advice right now. Just let her know that you are there for her and that you are just as excited as she it.
If you want to show her how excited you are for her, you could get her a pregnancy gift. Peanut Little sells an amazing Pregnancy Care Package www.peanutlittle.com. I've given a few of them to close friends and they couldn't stop talking about how much they loved them.
I hope your friend has a wonderful pregnancy.
take a prenatal vitamins to ensure her baby gets the vitamins he needs.
Need Advice On Behalf Of My Best Friend.?IM DOIN THIS WITH THE APPROVAL OF MY BEST FRIENDrevised?
SHE HAD A GREAT GUY WHO SHE WAS ENGAGED 2. HE WAS EVERYTHING SHE WANTED, HE TREATED HER RIGHT %26amp; MADE HER HAPPY.SHE WAS VERY INSECURE %26amp; CONSTANTLY QUESTIONED HIS LOVE %26amp; HAD FIGHTS IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS.HE HAS JUST BROKEN OFF THE ENGAGMENT SAYIN HE NEEDS 2 FIND HIMSELF, HE 'LOVES' HER BUT IS NOT 'IN LOVE' WITH HER ANYMORE %26amp; SHE NEEDS 2 GET HELP (SHE IS)
SHE IS REALLY CONFUSED AS HE SAID 2 KEEP THE RING BUT KEEP IT IN THE BOX 2 LOOK AT IN HOPE 4 THE FUTURE.HE TOLD HER HE WILL CALL HER JUST AS FRIENDS AS HE STILL WANTS HER IN HIS LIFE. SHE ASKED IF HE TRULY BELIEVED IF THEY WOULD GET BACK 2GETHER-HE SAID THERES ALWAYS HOPE.SINCE THEN SHE HAS RUNG HIS SISTER %26amp; HE GOT UPSET ABOUT IT. MY FRIEND GOT THE COURAGE UP2 SAY I WILL ONLY BE FRIENDS IF SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN BETWEEN US AGAIN IF NOT I CANT B FRIENDS %26amp; HIS REPLY WAS 'CAN U JUST B FRIENDS?' HE SAID HE WILL ONLY CALL HER AS A FRIEND BUT NOW HE WONT GIVE HER A TIME HE WILL BE CALLING!HES NOT THE GUY SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH. IS IT OVER?Need Advice On Behalf Of My Best Friend.?IM DOIN THIS WITH THE APPROVAL OF MY BEST FRIENDrevised?
I think unfortunately it's over. Guys use this excuse a lot ';being friends'; but it's just to ease the blow. He obviously really cares about her and doesn't want to hurt her, so he's trying to make it easier on her but he is probably moving on and she needs to as well.Need Advice On Behalf Of My Best Friend.?IM DOIN THIS WITH THE APPROVAL OF MY BEST FRIENDrevised?
She needs to be get over insecurities or she will be miserable the rest of her life. Maybe counseling would help her. She needs to worry about herself and get over the guy.
I'd say so. Picking a fight is never cool, doing so in front of friends is pretty bad.
I'd tell your friend she needs to get over her insecurities, because I'll bet that's what drove him away from her. If there's a reason she's insecure, she needs to come to terms with that before trying to get involved with another relationship.
Yes, it sounds like it is over....
Yes, Dear, it's done. Even if they go back and try again, the damage is done.
She needs to eat ice cream and potatoe
chips and cry to anyone who will listen-then
pick herself up and go on.
I think it is over. He needs to move on with his life. She is the one that mass up not him. I think she still want he back. Not as a friend more then that.
SHE IS REALLY CONFUSED AS HE SAID 2 KEEP THE RING BUT KEEP IT IN THE BOX 2 LOOK AT IN HOPE 4 THE FUTURE.HE TOLD HER HE WILL CALL HER JUST AS FRIENDS AS HE STILL WANTS HER IN HIS LIFE. SHE ASKED IF HE TRULY BELIEVED IF THEY WOULD GET BACK 2GETHER-HE SAID THERES ALWAYS HOPE.SINCE THEN SHE HAS RUNG HIS SISTER %26amp; HE GOT UPSET ABOUT IT. MY FRIEND GOT THE COURAGE UP2 SAY I WILL ONLY BE FRIENDS IF SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN BETWEEN US AGAIN IF NOT I CANT B FRIENDS %26amp; HIS REPLY WAS 'CAN U JUST B FRIENDS?' HE SAID HE WILL ONLY CALL HER AS A FRIEND BUT NOW HE WONT GIVE HER A TIME HE WILL BE CALLING!HES NOT THE GUY SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH. IS IT OVER?Need Advice On Behalf Of My Best Friend.?IM DOIN THIS WITH THE APPROVAL OF MY BEST FRIENDrevised?
I think unfortunately it's over. Guys use this excuse a lot ';being friends'; but it's just to ease the blow. He obviously really cares about her and doesn't want to hurt her, so he's trying to make it easier on her but he is probably moving on and she needs to as well.Need Advice On Behalf Of My Best Friend.?IM DOIN THIS WITH THE APPROVAL OF MY BEST FRIENDrevised?
She needs to be get over insecurities or she will be miserable the rest of her life. Maybe counseling would help her. She needs to worry about herself and get over the guy.
I'd say so. Picking a fight is never cool, doing so in front of friends is pretty bad.
I'd tell your friend she needs to get over her insecurities, because I'll bet that's what drove him away from her. If there's a reason she's insecure, she needs to come to terms with that before trying to get involved with another relationship.
Yes, it sounds like it is over....
Yes, Dear, it's done. Even if they go back and try again, the damage is done.
She needs to eat ice cream and potatoe
chips and cry to anyone who will listen-then
pick herself up and go on.
I think it is over. He needs to move on with his life. She is the one that mass up not him. I think she still want he back. Not as a friend more then that.
Anyone have any advice about me and my best friend getting our belly buttons pierced? Thanks alot! ox.?
clean it twice a day. don't play with it with dirty fingers it'll get infected. when cleaning move it up and down (if a barbell) if a ring then move it in a circle. just keep it clean.Anyone have any advice about me and my best friend getting our belly buttons pierced? Thanks alot! ox.?
oh sweetie...
visit
http://beautyzone.hpage.com/body_art_782鈥?/a>
there is all the info you need to know before getting piercing done.... your gonna love this site!!!
and do post your comment on their webpage... they ll get back to you for your furthur need...
thankyou!!!Anyone have any advice about me and my best friend getting our belly buttons pierced? Thanks alot! ox.?
I got mine pierced with my best friend too. What do you need advice on?
i did that with my bff too. its a fun thing to do together,
oh sweetie...
visit
http://beautyzone.hpage.com/body_art_782鈥?/a>
there is all the info you need to know before getting piercing done.... your gonna love this site!!!
and do post your comment on their webpage... they ll get back to you for your furthur need...
thankyou!!!Anyone have any advice about me and my best friend getting our belly buttons pierced? Thanks alot! ox.?
I got mine pierced with my best friend too. What do you need advice on?
i did that with my bff too. its a fun thing to do together,
Advice,on powered attic roof fan,which type is best for a 1200 square foot of attic area? fjw75?
imguessing you are in the states ...that is some big attic ..you would need an industrial size unit to be effective
My best friend is moving, any advice?
My best friend of all time is moving, and it is in a different state. I'm going into middle school after this summer, and she won't be there!!!!!!!! I don't know what to do besides keep in touch by emailing and calling eachother!!!!!!!My best friend is moving, any advice?
I had it happen to me several times, including while around your age. In all cases we lost touch. We were eventually distracted by our own local life affairs. But in some cases we started writing again after the friend had married and had kids.
It's great if you can keep in touch and visit once in a while.
But maybe expect some growing apart and, more (non-contact; sadness).
Start looking for another best friend where you live.
Sometimes people run into each other later in life at college or even at jobs.My best friend is moving, any advice?
I had that problem too just this year. But i still see him all the time. Its hard but you'll get through it!
Plan sometime where she can come over. Or where you can come over there.
thats like all you can do...why are you asking a question when you have the answer?
Yes, keep in touch by e-mailing and calling each other. I am sure your friend will miss you as much. Do what it takes to keep being Very Best Friends, they are not easy to come by these days! Best Wishes and God Bless!
Aww man this sucks. Definitely keep in touch with your friend, but don't be afraid to get out and make new friends. You'd be surprised how interesting people can be (sometimes...)
you already have the answers.. call and email each other..
i agree with the first answer.
that is a really horrible situation. maybe for summer breaks you can travel and see her. that would alwaysa be good, my friend moved to a different state and every summer we see eachother. good luck
My best friend moved to new zealand this month and I live in Canada..all I do is try my best to keep in touch with her, email, phone, and thats all we really can do. Hmm.. plan to visit maybe? Or.. move on ..=[
my best frind moved to maine. and i moved away from my second best friend. so its happened to me twice. it was sad but we kept in touch by email and calling. and she came down this spring to visit it was great and i hang out with my friend that i moved from becasue we are stil pretty close. if your not too far away attempt making plans. good luck%26lt;3
FRIENDS WILL COME AND GO YOUR HOLE LIFE, EVEN BEST FRIENDS. YOU GET USED TO IT.
You could go on with your life ?
That is about all you can do, except for visiting. Other than that, don't be afraid to branch out and make new friends. You will be surprised how quickly you can make new friends, especially in a new school environment (middle school.)
It is good to keep in touch with her. But, since you are going to middle school, it is a great oppurtunity to meet new people. You should try to be really outgoing, it really helps you make new friends.
On vacations you can ask your parents if you can visit her or him , and ask your friend too, is it is OK to visit him/her to his new living place, or your friend can visit you too. Finally ask your parents if you can move too, to the same place as your friend did.
well maybe u can go 2 her state and visit her on the weekends....or she can go over your house......i wish u luckdermalogica maybelline
I had it happen to me several times, including while around your age. In all cases we lost touch. We were eventually distracted by our own local life affairs. But in some cases we started writing again after the friend had married and had kids.
It's great if you can keep in touch and visit once in a while.
But maybe expect some growing apart and, more (non-contact; sadness).
Start looking for another best friend where you live.
Sometimes people run into each other later in life at college or even at jobs.My best friend is moving, any advice?
I had that problem too just this year. But i still see him all the time. Its hard but you'll get through it!
Plan sometime where she can come over. Or where you can come over there.
thats like all you can do...why are you asking a question when you have the answer?
Yes, keep in touch by e-mailing and calling each other. I am sure your friend will miss you as much. Do what it takes to keep being Very Best Friends, they are not easy to come by these days! Best Wishes and God Bless!
Aww man this sucks. Definitely keep in touch with your friend, but don't be afraid to get out and make new friends. You'd be surprised how interesting people can be (sometimes...)
you already have the answers.. call and email each other..
i agree with the first answer.
that is a really horrible situation. maybe for summer breaks you can travel and see her. that would alwaysa be good, my friend moved to a different state and every summer we see eachother. good luck
My best friend moved to new zealand this month and I live in Canada..all I do is try my best to keep in touch with her, email, phone, and thats all we really can do. Hmm.. plan to visit maybe? Or.. move on ..=[
my best frind moved to maine. and i moved away from my second best friend. so its happened to me twice. it was sad but we kept in touch by email and calling. and she came down this spring to visit it was great and i hang out with my friend that i moved from becasue we are stil pretty close. if your not too far away attempt making plans. good luck%26lt;3
FRIENDS WILL COME AND GO YOUR HOLE LIFE, EVEN BEST FRIENDS. YOU GET USED TO IT.
You could go on with your life ?
That is about all you can do, except for visiting. Other than that, don't be afraid to branch out and make new friends. You will be surprised how quickly you can make new friends, especially in a new school environment (middle school.)
It is good to keep in touch with her. But, since you are going to middle school, it is a great oppurtunity to meet new people. You should try to be really outgoing, it really helps you make new friends.
On vacations you can ask your parents if you can visit her or him , and ask your friend too, is it is OK to visit him/her to his new living place, or your friend can visit you too. Finally ask your parents if you can move too, to the same place as your friend did.
well maybe u can go 2 her state and visit her on the weekends....or she can go over your house......i wish u luck
My best friends cousin likes me...advice please?
im a guy, i just found out that my best friend(a girl) cousin(a girl) likes me. i am not sure if i like her or not, shes good looking but is just getting over her ex who just moved away...not sure what to do:/My best friends cousin likes me...advice please?
This is risky because you might hurt your friend's feelings, try asking your friend first, then taking the approach.
This is risky because you might hurt your friend's feelings, try asking your friend first, then taking the approach.
I need advice. should I tell my best friend that her boyfriend is a cheater?
I've been best friends with my girl for over four years now. She met her current boyfriend when she was 17 and they've been dating on and off for five years. She just found out that he's married with three children over the winter. Of course, he says they're separated and getting divorced. The problem is that he still lives at home.. he says that he's doing his best to get the kids set up before he moves out. This has been a major source of problems between my friend and I since she found out he was married. She wants to stay with him because he's getting a divorce. Recently, I agreed to hang out with this boyfriend because he's so important to my friend. After we all hung out, he started messaging me. It turns out that he wants to have sex with me.. completely behind my friends back. He said this won't end up getting back to her. I want to tell my friend, but she hasn't seemed to care when I've been upset about this in the past. Advice please???I need advice. should I tell my best friend that her boyfriend is a cheater?
this sounds like a ridiculous situation that the two of you have gotten yourselves into. Don't ever mess with married men, cause you end up having to deal with stuff like this. The man sounds like a creep, and not worth your time, either of you. Tell her, and then encourage her to get rid of him, but not before you let his wife know what he's been doing for the past 5 years. she deserves to know what a loser she married so she can get her life together and move on without him.I need advice. should I tell my best friend that her boyfriend is a cheater?
Show her the messages and let her see the proof. Hopefully she comes to her senses.
show her the text message as proof! you need to sit her down and have a serious conversation with her about this! i'm afraid that's about all you can do though. if she doesn't listen, she's just going to have to find out the hard way and there's really nothing else you can do for her. some women are rediculously blind like that. but hey, as her best friend all you can do is try.
That's tough, because she might think you were flirting with him or something. You should show her though, because she is your friend and as a good friend you need to tell her when she's about to make mistakes. He sounds like a loser, and maybe she won't listen to you and maybe she'll get mad at you... but keep your cool no matter what because she'll probably find out for herself in time, and then she'll realize you were right. Good luck.
No doubt if your true friends tell her! i wouldnt dream of not telling my friend
tell her!
Maybe you should show her the messages. They say love is blind, and obviously it is in her case! He will probably never leave his wife either!
if you were a true friend yes u would tell her!!
She knows he's a stinker but chooses to ignore it. If you want to continue to be her friend , ignore it too. If you say too much she will quit being your friend. It may happen anyway.
Well, I don't know. Sometimes they turn on you because they don't want to believe it. What a mess. Forward his text to her. I think you need to be less sensitive and caring or get a new friend.
Shoot, forward the text to his wife. I think his wife needs to know.
you gotta sit her down and tell her straight out. or she will be totally in for a hard relationship. even if se doesnt believe u at first u at least hav to tell her so he doesnt feel like u were hiding it from her. make her see who this jerk really is. because she deserves not to be hurt.
If shes the kind of friend that wouldnt belive u over a boy then dont but if shes the kind that would belive u over any boy then u should tell her
tell her. you'd want her t otell u if this was happening to u, right? if u wait it could get worse and ur friend will get hurt.
Hunny woah thats a heck of a story. First off your best friend needs to figure out if she wants to stay with him or not. Because if he keeps dragging out his divorce and is willing to cheat on her then thats not good. And yes have her give him some time to figure out his life but not too much.
About the whole thing with him wanting to have sex with you seriously dont do it. Thats in the book of friends to never do anything with your bestfriends boyfriend even if they stay together or are broken up. Its just not right. Dont message him back and if you do say that your not interested and arnt like that [if you are thats your choice] and you feel uncomfortable with the situation with it and think its better if you stop contacting me for a while. Do the right thing. Think before you act.....
Hope this helps out =]
show her the messages...
n yes i wud def tell her....shes ur best fren.....n also try to tell her that she can do wayyyyyyy better than this loser of a bf.....
I say tell her she might be hurt or even mad but she will see in the end but you just be the better friend. I lost my best friend a few months ago because I was dating her lieing cousin and I didnt want to listen so it will always come out but be the good friend and be honest
Your situations tricky because you don鈥檛 want to hurt her or lose her as a friend. I would plan something special like try to get her to spend some time with you and then try to explain to her that you not hating on their relationship try to make it seem that hey he is a good guy but he not what your looking for I would show her the messages try to get him to say. That he wants this to remain between you and him then text him and ask him what if your friend found out. Then set him up and call him in put his *** on speaker phone and tell your friend to be quite. Let him bring up the sexual part. Don鈥檛 make it seem like she is right there because a man sense when they are being set up. So have a normal conversation.
tell her bout it!!!!! how can u hav sex wid sum1 who s tryin 2 cheat on ur best frnd?? blieve me,dun do anythin wrong,u vl regret it,plz tel ur frnd bout it....she needs 2 noe...u hav 2 stop her from spoilin her life...dat guy s very insensitive,n in a relationship dere s nuttin more important dan trust....n dat guy s not trustworthy....plzzzz help ur frnd out of dis!!
Show her the messages if you still have them. And you should let her know anyway, cause if she finds out any other way, she might think you y'all were doing things behind her back.
i personally dont see her as your best friend!sorry.
a best friend is there always and trust without questioning your friendship because a guy?????
to me that's not a mature friendship
she puts her...boyfriend before you??
she dont realize that you want the best for her????
this is a toxic friendship!!!!
get out of that situation
and find a bff that will appreciate you! and believe you
real friends listen to their friends and especially when it's for their own good. but sadly, most girls who are in love often forget everything once they're in the situation.. and some end up regretting after and wished they could have just listened to true friends like you... it's hard coz other people who are with someone tend to trust this certain someone over or instead of her friends.. i just hope your friend will listen to you... coz it's very much for her own good and welfare...
you should save that message of her bf to you and let her read it .. she won't get the chance to argue or deny it since the number is still there... you're a great friend, so i may say.. she's lucky to have you.. tell her about it and if she doesn't listen like what most people do, then she's not worth it... that's just what married men do or say to get in to other women's pants you know.. - that they'll be leaving their wives for you, promise you this and that... and all that stuff. your friend needs to know this and as to how she'll take it, it doesn't matter.. what 's important is that you did your part...if she prefers to be with her bf still or if she won't believe you and still pretend that things are ok, then it;s beyond your control already.what she wants to do with her life is already her concern, not yours. let her learn from her mistakes on her own instead if she doesn't hear what you 're trying to send out to her.(which is the truth)... as ive said, you;ve already done your part as her caring and concerned friend... if she;ll think that you're just making it up so she can leave the guy, then she's one of those hard-headed women who will just end hoping or expecting for nothing more than just being another man's woman... coz other women would think that you're jealous or something... so i hope this is not the case for you.. i hope she will listen... do tell her... good luck and i hope your friend can find someone better for her and may she start a life with a less complicated guy...
Tell her what he has been doing. Save the text messages and show them to her if she doesn't believe you. As for the part about him being married and SAYING that he is going to get divorced, tell her that if he wasn't truthful enough to tell her that he was married that he isn't going to be truthful enough to get a divorce.
This guy is complete and total scum and you definitely need to tell your friend. Even if she gets mad at you it's better than having her realize later and find out you knew all along. If he's text messaging you, you should show her the messages. He hadn't told her he was initially married, he's probably lying about the divorce, and now he's propositioning you for sex, there's nothing good about this guy. She needs a reality check and you need to be the one to tell her.
My advice is that always the best way is the truth. Is worse not telling that, think about the two possibilities. I thought about it and I still choose the truth.
she wont believe you. If you want to take a cance on her getting mad at you then maybe you can show her the messages he sends you. Or make her be with you when he is going to be talking to you on the computer. Ne careful though Love does strange things to people and she may get mad at the wrong person. But if you love your friend enough i guess it would be worth it to spare her feelings in the long run by letting her know now and chancing her getting upset with you. I would take that chance for my best friend besides after a while she will see you did it not to hurt her but to help her.
Definitely tell her. Just what you wrote about him he's just a con artist.
Sounds delicate, but honestly, the best thing you can do for her is be honest to her. Who knows if hes not just wanting to cheat on her with you...? If she disregards your advice, its her problem at that point- you don't have to feel guilty, and she can't blame you for keeping it from her.
First off, just ignore the texts and phone call from this guy. If he cared enough about his current girlfriend (your best friend) he would have told her about this when they got into their relationship.
Second, I think you should tell your friend about this. What if she found out and blamed you for not talking to her about this. You and her could become worst enemies. But just don't bring it out like ';Just to let you know, your boyfriend is cheating on you. He wants to have sex with me'; That would kill her, making her think that you want to be with him. Find the right time, and when you tell her, let her know that you are 100% there for her. After all, you are her best friend.
Best of luck!
she is your best friend and if your a true friend you'll tell her what kind of lying cheating dog her bf is, remeber if hes trying to do it with you then your not the only one im sure hes sleeping with other people too.
You've gotta tell her. She'll be angry, hurt and upset but she's gotta know. You have to be firm and tell her what happened and how appalled you were (right?) This is a big bump in the road, so be prepared for anything. If she doesn't listen, tell her there's nothing more you can do for her. It's up to her from there. Just be there to catch her when she falls. And I'd suggest you stay away from this jerk who obviously doesn't appreciate a woman. Don't fall for any of his bull.
The same thing happened to my best friend. After two long agonizing years, she finally got it that he wasn't worth all the pain and heartache. Now she's doing wonderfully! Trust me, this wasn't a piece of cake, but I cared about her that much. I suffered the battle of trying to make her come to her senses.....we fought a lot, but for the most part I simply gave her time. The important thing is that I never gave up on her
this sounds like a ridiculous situation that the two of you have gotten yourselves into. Don't ever mess with married men, cause you end up having to deal with stuff like this. The man sounds like a creep, and not worth your time, either of you. Tell her, and then encourage her to get rid of him, but not before you let his wife know what he's been doing for the past 5 years. she deserves to know what a loser she married so she can get her life together and move on without him.I need advice. should I tell my best friend that her boyfriend is a cheater?
Show her the messages and let her see the proof. Hopefully she comes to her senses.
show her the text message as proof! you need to sit her down and have a serious conversation with her about this! i'm afraid that's about all you can do though. if she doesn't listen, she's just going to have to find out the hard way and there's really nothing else you can do for her. some women are rediculously blind like that. but hey, as her best friend all you can do is try.
That's tough, because she might think you were flirting with him or something. You should show her though, because she is your friend and as a good friend you need to tell her when she's about to make mistakes. He sounds like a loser, and maybe she won't listen to you and maybe she'll get mad at you... but keep your cool no matter what because she'll probably find out for herself in time, and then she'll realize you were right. Good luck.
No doubt if your true friends tell her! i wouldnt dream of not telling my friend
tell her!
Maybe you should show her the messages. They say love is blind, and obviously it is in her case! He will probably never leave his wife either!
if you were a true friend yes u would tell her!!
She knows he's a stinker but chooses to ignore it. If you want to continue to be her friend , ignore it too. If you say too much she will quit being your friend. It may happen anyway.
Well, I don't know. Sometimes they turn on you because they don't want to believe it. What a mess. Forward his text to her. I think you need to be less sensitive and caring or get a new friend.
Shoot, forward the text to his wife. I think his wife needs to know.
you gotta sit her down and tell her straight out. or she will be totally in for a hard relationship. even if se doesnt believe u at first u at least hav to tell her so he doesnt feel like u were hiding it from her. make her see who this jerk really is. because she deserves not to be hurt.
If shes the kind of friend that wouldnt belive u over a boy then dont but if shes the kind that would belive u over any boy then u should tell her
tell her. you'd want her t otell u if this was happening to u, right? if u wait it could get worse and ur friend will get hurt.
Hunny woah thats a heck of a story. First off your best friend needs to figure out if she wants to stay with him or not. Because if he keeps dragging out his divorce and is willing to cheat on her then thats not good. And yes have her give him some time to figure out his life but not too much.
About the whole thing with him wanting to have sex with you seriously dont do it. Thats in the book of friends to never do anything with your bestfriends boyfriend even if they stay together or are broken up. Its just not right. Dont message him back and if you do say that your not interested and arnt like that [if you are thats your choice] and you feel uncomfortable with the situation with it and think its better if you stop contacting me for a while. Do the right thing. Think before you act.....
Hope this helps out =]
show her the messages...
n yes i wud def tell her....shes ur best fren.....n also try to tell her that she can do wayyyyyyy better than this loser of a bf.....
I say tell her she might be hurt or even mad but she will see in the end but you just be the better friend. I lost my best friend a few months ago because I was dating her lieing cousin and I didnt want to listen so it will always come out but be the good friend and be honest
Your situations tricky because you don鈥檛 want to hurt her or lose her as a friend. I would plan something special like try to get her to spend some time with you and then try to explain to her that you not hating on their relationship try to make it seem that hey he is a good guy but he not what your looking for I would show her the messages try to get him to say. That he wants this to remain between you and him then text him and ask him what if your friend found out. Then set him up and call him in put his *** on speaker phone and tell your friend to be quite. Let him bring up the sexual part. Don鈥檛 make it seem like she is right there because a man sense when they are being set up. So have a normal conversation.
tell her bout it!!!!! how can u hav sex wid sum1 who s tryin 2 cheat on ur best frnd?? blieve me,dun do anythin wrong,u vl regret it,plz tel ur frnd bout it....she needs 2 noe...u hav 2 stop her from spoilin her life...dat guy s very insensitive,n in a relationship dere s nuttin more important dan trust....n dat guy s not trustworthy....plzzzz help ur frnd out of dis!!
Show her the messages if you still have them. And you should let her know anyway, cause if she finds out any other way, she might think you y'all were doing things behind her back.
i personally dont see her as your best friend!sorry.
a best friend is there always and trust without questioning your friendship because a guy?????
to me that's not a mature friendship
she puts her...boyfriend before you??
she dont realize that you want the best for her????
this is a toxic friendship!!!!
get out of that situation
and find a bff that will appreciate you! and believe you
real friends listen to their friends and especially when it's for their own good. but sadly, most girls who are in love often forget everything once they're in the situation.. and some end up regretting after and wished they could have just listened to true friends like you... it's hard coz other people who are with someone tend to trust this certain someone over or instead of her friends.. i just hope your friend will listen to you... coz it's very much for her own good and welfare...
you should save that message of her bf to you and let her read it .. she won't get the chance to argue or deny it since the number is still there... you're a great friend, so i may say.. she's lucky to have you.. tell her about it and if she doesn't listen like what most people do, then she's not worth it... that's just what married men do or say to get in to other women's pants you know.. - that they'll be leaving their wives for you, promise you this and that... and all that stuff. your friend needs to know this and as to how she'll take it, it doesn't matter.. what 's important is that you did your part...if she prefers to be with her bf still or if she won't believe you and still pretend that things are ok, then it;s beyond your control already.what she wants to do with her life is already her concern, not yours. let her learn from her mistakes on her own instead if she doesn't hear what you 're trying to send out to her.(which is the truth)... as ive said, you;ve already done your part as her caring and concerned friend... if she;ll think that you're just making it up so she can leave the guy, then she's one of those hard-headed women who will just end hoping or expecting for nothing more than just being another man's woman... coz other women would think that you're jealous or something... so i hope this is not the case for you.. i hope she will listen... do tell her... good luck and i hope your friend can find someone better for her and may she start a life with a less complicated guy...
Tell her what he has been doing. Save the text messages and show them to her if she doesn't believe you. As for the part about him being married and SAYING that he is going to get divorced, tell her that if he wasn't truthful enough to tell her that he was married that he isn't going to be truthful enough to get a divorce.
This guy is complete and total scum and you definitely need to tell your friend. Even if she gets mad at you it's better than having her realize later and find out you knew all along. If he's text messaging you, you should show her the messages. He hadn't told her he was initially married, he's probably lying about the divorce, and now he's propositioning you for sex, there's nothing good about this guy. She needs a reality check and you need to be the one to tell her.
My advice is that always the best way is the truth. Is worse not telling that, think about the two possibilities. I thought about it and I still choose the truth.
she wont believe you. If you want to take a cance on her getting mad at you then maybe you can show her the messages he sends you. Or make her be with you when he is going to be talking to you on the computer. Ne careful though Love does strange things to people and she may get mad at the wrong person. But if you love your friend enough i guess it would be worth it to spare her feelings in the long run by letting her know now and chancing her getting upset with you. I would take that chance for my best friend besides after a while she will see you did it not to hurt her but to help her.
Definitely tell her. Just what you wrote about him he's just a con artist.
Sounds delicate, but honestly, the best thing you can do for her is be honest to her. Who knows if hes not just wanting to cheat on her with you...? If she disregards your advice, its her problem at that point- you don't have to feel guilty, and she can't blame you for keeping it from her.
First off, just ignore the texts and phone call from this guy. If he cared enough about his current girlfriend (your best friend) he would have told her about this when they got into their relationship.
Second, I think you should tell your friend about this. What if she found out and blamed you for not talking to her about this. You and her could become worst enemies. But just don't bring it out like ';Just to let you know, your boyfriend is cheating on you. He wants to have sex with me'; That would kill her, making her think that you want to be with him. Find the right time, and when you tell her, let her know that you are 100% there for her. After all, you are her best friend.
Best of luck!
she is your best friend and if your a true friend you'll tell her what kind of lying cheating dog her bf is, remeber if hes trying to do it with you then your not the only one im sure hes sleeping with other people too.
You've gotta tell her. She'll be angry, hurt and upset but she's gotta know. You have to be firm and tell her what happened and how appalled you were (right?) This is a big bump in the road, so be prepared for anything. If she doesn't listen, tell her there's nothing more you can do for her. It's up to her from there. Just be there to catch her when she falls. And I'd suggest you stay away from this jerk who obviously doesn't appreciate a woman. Don't fall for any of his bull.
The same thing happened to my best friend. After two long agonizing years, she finally got it that he wasn't worth all the pain and heartache. Now she's doing wonderfully! Trust me, this wasn't a piece of cake, but I cared about her that much. I suffered the battle of trying to make her come to her senses.....we fought a lot, but for the most part I simply gave her time. The important thing is that I never gave up on her
My best friend went- on my advice- on a blind date that went completely wrong!?
The guy never called her back but everytime he finds her on msn he messages saying he lost her number. Shes quite upset and I feel quilty. Why does he keep doing that when he can very easily block or delete her rather than play childish mind games?!!My best friend went- on my advice- on a blind date that went completely wrong!?
Forget him. Move on
Good luckMy best friend went- on my advice- on a blind date that went completely wrong!?
Ignore him he sounds like a total nob anyway lol
We live and learn, so i hope she has better luck in the future :)
she can block him on msn, the best thing she can do. She's got to get rid of him.
he is a man he enjoys it tell her 2 block him
Just ignore him he is an ignorant spoilt child and needs to grow up and be muture so just ignore him he is not worth it there are plenty more fish in the sea
Forget him. Move on
Good luckMy best friend went- on my advice- on a blind date that went completely wrong!?
Ignore him he sounds like a total nob anyway lol
We live and learn, so i hope she has better luck in the future :)
she can block him on msn, the best thing she can do. She's got to get rid of him.
he is a man he enjoys it tell her 2 block him
Just ignore him he is an ignorant spoilt child and needs to grow up and be muture so just ignore him he is not worth it there are plenty more fish in the sea
I need advice! 10 pts for best answer!?
i really like this guy. we used to have history class together and we would always flirt and stuff. well, he messaged me on myspace the other day out of the blue and we started talking and i told him how i feel. he said he was glad i told him, but he never said how he felt, really. i would've thought he didn't like me, but he kept talking to me and messaging me and stuff. i'm just so confused, and i don't know what to do next. someone give me some advice!I need advice! 10 pts for best answer!?
he's either tugging at your heart right now, or wants to know you better and see if it can work out. either way, stick with him, give yourself a limit though, if he doesn't bring it up within lets say 3 months, then he's not into you, maybe bring it up near or on the last day of your limit, depending on his answer either move on or give it more time. right now your available so find someone else right now.
answer mine plz.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I need advice! 10 pts for best answer!?
You need to relax breath focus and let all negative feeling go away because negative attitudes brings negative thinking. You need to be confidence in yourself and how you feel about how well it went. I can just say that everyone op ions is not always the right one it is good to ask someone but you are the one who will make the final decision if you cant make a decision on your feelings how do you want someone to tell you what you already know,
Well next you need to text him back and do the same thing you did from the begin nig just hold a conversation don't worry about if he likes me if he keeps messaging you then yes I would say that he is interested good luck depend on your feelings.
CMON girl you like the guy heh? one thing you ought to know as a girl is that we men are like machines the way you are going to handle it is the way its going to perform. the guy likes you that's absolutely. show and tell him how you feel, but never exaggerate, second thing never be excited i.e you show him that you love him soooooo much, he will think hat you are a whore. do everything carefully and sometimes show him that you don't care so that he may feel the jeolous
if he said he is glad, then he is probably into you. he is just trying to take his time to think about it. most guys who want to be serious would just try to be friends first with the girls that they like. then, they will go deeper into the relationship if he is sure that he can get along with you. just be yourself when you are with him. don't force him. if he really likes you, then he will start telling you how he feels after a while. i think he is just trying to get to know you better. good luck. :)
give it time
if he likes you he will ask you out
if he doesn't he wont
if he is unsure he will flirt with you more
say to him :
corr, I feel embarrassed now, cos I don't know how you feel about me?
that puts him on the spot and he will answer
Hun,obviously he's happy that you told him.maybe he wants time to think about it.I think he'll ask you out,he just needs time to think about what he wants to say to you.Give him time%26amp;Be patient.Good things happen to those who wait :] good luckkk w// hiim (:
Say or message him : Look I told you how I felt about you and I need to know if you feel the same way?If you don't I will understand but if you do maybe we can go out sometime.
You can tell him that :)
ask him to meet somewhere and hang out and then bring up the subject in person..
kiss the boy
Who knows maybe he is shy.
Try not to message him to see if he still messages/talks to you. If he doesnt then maybe he isnt interested. If he does then maybe he is.
Good Luck
try asking him if he wants to hangout
so that yu cn know him better
nd also see if he is giving some hints if
he likes you
Well you cant give up on the first try so why don't you try asking him how he feels about you and tell him to be honest if he has any respect for you at all.
it sounds like he the kinda guy that doesnt share hes feeling
he probaly likes you he just doesnt share hes ffellings
I think he's just to shy to admit that he likes you too. You should ask him if he likes you too.
it sounds like he doesnt like you or else he would have asked you out...really strange situation a guy that just wants to be friends
Be patient. He will open up one day.
Ask him how he feels about you. Yes it sure does look like he likes you :)
kiss the boy the next time you see him!
ask him how he feel about u guys
he's either tugging at your heart right now, or wants to know you better and see if it can work out. either way, stick with him, give yourself a limit though, if he doesn't bring it up within lets say 3 months, then he's not into you, maybe bring it up near or on the last day of your limit, depending on his answer either move on or give it more time. right now your available so find someone else right now.
answer mine plz.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I need advice! 10 pts for best answer!?
You need to relax breath focus and let all negative feeling go away because negative attitudes brings negative thinking. You need to be confidence in yourself and how you feel about how well it went. I can just say that everyone op ions is not always the right one it is good to ask someone but you are the one who will make the final decision if you cant make a decision on your feelings how do you want someone to tell you what you already know,
Well next you need to text him back and do the same thing you did from the begin nig just hold a conversation don't worry about if he likes me if he keeps messaging you then yes I would say that he is interested good luck depend on your feelings.
CMON girl you like the guy heh? one thing you ought to know as a girl is that we men are like machines the way you are going to handle it is the way its going to perform. the guy likes you that's absolutely. show and tell him how you feel, but never exaggerate, second thing never be excited i.e you show him that you love him soooooo much, he will think hat you are a whore. do everything carefully and sometimes show him that you don't care so that he may feel the jeolous
if he said he is glad, then he is probably into you. he is just trying to take his time to think about it. most guys who want to be serious would just try to be friends first with the girls that they like. then, they will go deeper into the relationship if he is sure that he can get along with you. just be yourself when you are with him. don't force him. if he really likes you, then he will start telling you how he feels after a while. i think he is just trying to get to know you better. good luck. :)
give it time
if he likes you he will ask you out
if he doesn't he wont
if he is unsure he will flirt with you more
say to him :
corr, I feel embarrassed now, cos I don't know how you feel about me?
that puts him on the spot and he will answer
Hun,obviously he's happy that you told him.maybe he wants time to think about it.I think he'll ask you out,he just needs time to think about what he wants to say to you.Give him time%26amp;Be patient.Good things happen to those who wait :] good luckkk w// hiim (:
Say or message him : Look I told you how I felt about you and I need to know if you feel the same way?If you don't I will understand but if you do maybe we can go out sometime.
You can tell him that :)
ask him to meet somewhere and hang out and then bring up the subject in person..
kiss the boy
Who knows maybe he is shy.
Try not to message him to see if he still messages/talks to you. If he doesnt then maybe he isnt interested. If he does then maybe he is.
Good Luck
try asking him if he wants to hangout
so that yu cn know him better
nd also see if he is giving some hints if
he likes you
Well you cant give up on the first try so why don't you try asking him how he feels about you and tell him to be honest if he has any respect for you at all.
it sounds like he the kinda guy that doesnt share hes feeling
he probaly likes you he just doesnt share hes ffellings
I think he's just to shy to admit that he likes you too. You should ask him if he likes you too.
it sounds like he doesnt like you or else he would have asked you out...really strange situation a guy that just wants to be friends
Be patient. He will open up one day.
Ask him how he feels about you. Yes it sure does look like he likes you :)
kiss the boy the next time you see him!
ask him how he feel about u guys
Has anyone any advice on baby,s finger foods?what are the best?
My son is nearly 8 months old and very recently went onto lumpy baby food,so i thought i'd better work out when and what to start on finger foods!Has anyone any advice on baby,s finger foods?what are the best?
Make sure anything you give him is soft, easy to swallow, and breaks down into small pieces that can't possibly choke him. Good choices for you baby's first finger foods can include: baby crackers, pieces of bread, plain wafer type cookies, dry cereals like cheerios,cut and well cooked vegetable pieces, like green beans, potatoes, or peas, pieces of soft ripe fruits (bananas, etc.), small pieces of cheese, cooked pasta, small pieces of well cooked meats. Even if you think your baby is ready for finger foods, be sure to always supervise your child when he is eating them in case he does choke.Foods to avoid include those that are hard or slippery, and those that don't easily break down into small pieces, which are a choking hazard.Has anyone any advice on baby,s finger foods?what are the best?
the organix range is really good
its all organic so you know its good you can buy from asda or tesco if in uk probably more but that's were i shop.
The carrot stick crisps are great there like huge wotsits
and my daughter loves them. you can get apple rice cakes
and biscuits galore.
have fun
blondie
-The tri color pastas cut into pieces with some butter and little sauce (cooked well done)
-seedless grapes, cut into 6 pieces
-pieces of bananas
-cheerios (they melt in their mouth)
-small chunks of cheese (cheddar or american or mozzerealla)
-shredded peices of meat (whatever you are having for dinner)
-cubed baked sweet potato or white potato
My daughter at 6 months was having alot more than that but I know most moms are not as brave to give their babies what I did. But I gave her fries, big chunks of chewy bread, chicken leg bone with a little meat stuck to it, Dora yogurt, a slice of cantalope with the rind, and much much more, just use your judgment and don't limit their diet.
Try the fruit and veggie puffs. They will melt in his mouth. Here is the website
http://www.gerber.com/prodcat?catid=524
You can give him little bits of what you eat, within reason! A stick of cooked carrot (not too cooked, it'll fall apart!), a finger of bread, a little soft fruit - banana is always a favourite, ripe but not overly so otherwise it just gets squishy.
Watch your lil 'un to see what he likes and can cope with. Obviously never leave him unattended while he is eating, just in case. It will probably take him a while to master the art well enough for him to eat any quantity of anything, but he'll enjoy exploring the texture, squashing it between his fingers, dropping it over the side of the highchair... Just start with soft thing that don't need to be chewed much, just slobbered on(!), and give what you think he can cope with - watch and learn. Never mind the mess!!!
Biscuits and crackers (with plenty of juice)
Carrots and other vegetables (don't make them too soft or they fall apart).
Chicken/other meats if he's got some teeth
I wouldn't start finger foods for a little while but when you do, try little pieces of bananas, cereal puffs (cheerios) or the Gerber snack star-shaped cereals (they dissolve in the baby's mouth), anything really mushy that the baby can pick up and doesn't have to chew. The saliva should be able to break it down for them. Good luck!
Cow %26amp; Gate baby biscuits are great for first finger foods as there easy for your baby to eat, slices of cheese are good too
My son loves the gerber graduates puffs and graham crackers
sticks of cheese are good for gums and a good sorce of calcium , if he pulls his face try rusk bicuits and carrot sticks but you will have to stay near him just incase he choks
My son loves the Veggie or fruit puffs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your baby is at a good age to start finger food now, our baby started at 7 months without teeth and had no problems at all, just place some buttered bread or toast cut into small squares and let him play with them. Also cheese cubes, baby crisps (from boots or asda) baby biscuits (designed to dissolve quicker) these are great to start with then once your confident you can give them everything you have chopped into small bits.
my kids loved the gerbers dried fruit it is filled with vitiams and it disolves really well to great thing to start with to avoid choking the banna and strawberry's is the best I love myself there addictive. and even Gerber cookie wheels tell they get use to the whole eating lumpy stuff I started with this because it is less of a choking hazard to. hope my advice helps out.
toast, banana, biscuits
try the gerber line of finger foods, sandwich cookies, cheerios, and crackers to name a few
My 8 month old eats diced cooked veggies(carrots, zucchini, sweet potato), cut up banana, and the Gerber Sweet Potato puffs. We will also peel a peach or nectarine and let him hold that and munch away on it.
try those fruit puffs, my son loved those. they are great finger foods. here some other ideas, Cherrios, mash potatoes, soft cooked carrots- chopped them up so he wont choke. give him some of your food that you eat at times and make sure is chopped and soft enough for him to eat. We have this food grinder and give him what we eat and he loved eating our foods with us.
Every baby is different. At 8 months old, my daughter had been eating Gerber fruit/veggie puffs and wagon wheels for about a month. They dissolve quicker than Cheerios. After doing that for roughly a month we began giving her tiny pieces of ripened fruit like banannas, peaches and apricots.
Try that and see how he reacts. At about 10 months, he shoud be able to handle little bites of food with ease.
Rule of thumb: If you can mash it against the roof of your mouth with your tounge, your baby can handle it starting at about 9 months old.
My daughter loved the fruit puffs from Gerber. Just hit the baby idle, you will find a nice selection of graduate foods. The biter biscuits were good, but very messy. We use cheerios. Also any soft food. Start slowly. As your baby masters this, introduce other fruits and veggies.
go to the infant food aile i know Target carries the gerber graduates or cherros are a fav for all babies i think
Make sure anything you give him is soft, easy to swallow, and breaks down into small pieces that can't possibly choke him. Good choices for you baby's first finger foods can include: baby crackers, pieces of bread, plain wafer type cookies, dry cereals like cheerios,cut and well cooked vegetable pieces, like green beans, potatoes, or peas, pieces of soft ripe fruits (bananas, etc.), small pieces of cheese, cooked pasta, small pieces of well cooked meats. Even if you think your baby is ready for finger foods, be sure to always supervise your child when he is eating them in case he does choke.Foods to avoid include those that are hard or slippery, and those that don't easily break down into small pieces, which are a choking hazard.Has anyone any advice on baby,s finger foods?what are the best?
the organix range is really good
its all organic so you know its good you can buy from asda or tesco if in uk probably more but that's were i shop.
The carrot stick crisps are great there like huge wotsits
and my daughter loves them. you can get apple rice cakes
and biscuits galore.
have fun
blondie
-The tri color pastas cut into pieces with some butter and little sauce (cooked well done)
-seedless grapes, cut into 6 pieces
-pieces of bananas
-cheerios (they melt in their mouth)
-small chunks of cheese (cheddar or american or mozzerealla)
-shredded peices of meat (whatever you are having for dinner)
-cubed baked sweet potato or white potato
My daughter at 6 months was having alot more than that but I know most moms are not as brave to give their babies what I did. But I gave her fries, big chunks of chewy bread, chicken leg bone with a little meat stuck to it, Dora yogurt, a slice of cantalope with the rind, and much much more, just use your judgment and don't limit their diet.
Try the fruit and veggie puffs. They will melt in his mouth. Here is the website
http://www.gerber.com/prodcat?catid=524
You can give him little bits of what you eat, within reason! A stick of cooked carrot (not too cooked, it'll fall apart!), a finger of bread, a little soft fruit - banana is always a favourite, ripe but not overly so otherwise it just gets squishy.
Watch your lil 'un to see what he likes and can cope with. Obviously never leave him unattended while he is eating, just in case. It will probably take him a while to master the art well enough for him to eat any quantity of anything, but he'll enjoy exploring the texture, squashing it between his fingers, dropping it over the side of the highchair... Just start with soft thing that don't need to be chewed much, just slobbered on(!), and give what you think he can cope with - watch and learn. Never mind the mess!!!
Biscuits and crackers (with plenty of juice)
Carrots and other vegetables (don't make them too soft or they fall apart).
Chicken/other meats if he's got some teeth
I wouldn't start finger foods for a little while but when you do, try little pieces of bananas, cereal puffs (cheerios) or the Gerber snack star-shaped cereals (they dissolve in the baby's mouth), anything really mushy that the baby can pick up and doesn't have to chew. The saliva should be able to break it down for them. Good luck!
Cow %26amp; Gate baby biscuits are great for first finger foods as there easy for your baby to eat, slices of cheese are good too
My son loves the gerber graduates puffs and graham crackers
sticks of cheese are good for gums and a good sorce of calcium , if he pulls his face try rusk bicuits and carrot sticks but you will have to stay near him just incase he choks
My son loves the Veggie or fruit puffs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your baby is at a good age to start finger food now, our baby started at 7 months without teeth and had no problems at all, just place some buttered bread or toast cut into small squares and let him play with them. Also cheese cubes, baby crisps (from boots or asda) baby biscuits (designed to dissolve quicker) these are great to start with then once your confident you can give them everything you have chopped into small bits.
my kids loved the gerbers dried fruit it is filled with vitiams and it disolves really well to great thing to start with to avoid choking the banna and strawberry's is the best I love myself there addictive. and even Gerber cookie wheels tell they get use to the whole eating lumpy stuff I started with this because it is less of a choking hazard to. hope my advice helps out.
toast, banana, biscuits
try the gerber line of finger foods, sandwich cookies, cheerios, and crackers to name a few
My 8 month old eats diced cooked veggies(carrots, zucchini, sweet potato), cut up banana, and the Gerber Sweet Potato puffs. We will also peel a peach or nectarine and let him hold that and munch away on it.
try those fruit puffs, my son loved those. they are great finger foods. here some other ideas, Cherrios, mash potatoes, soft cooked carrots- chopped them up so he wont choke. give him some of your food that you eat at times and make sure is chopped and soft enough for him to eat. We have this food grinder and give him what we eat and he loved eating our foods with us.
Every baby is different. At 8 months old, my daughter had been eating Gerber fruit/veggie puffs and wagon wheels for about a month. They dissolve quicker than Cheerios. After doing that for roughly a month we began giving her tiny pieces of ripened fruit like banannas, peaches and apricots.
Try that and see how he reacts. At about 10 months, he shoud be able to handle little bites of food with ease.
Rule of thumb: If you can mash it against the roof of your mouth with your tounge, your baby can handle it starting at about 9 months old.
My daughter loved the fruit puffs from Gerber. Just hit the baby idle, you will find a nice selection of graduate foods. The biter biscuits were good, but very messy. We use cheerios. Also any soft food. Start slowly. As your baby masters this, introduce other fruits and veggies.
go to the infant food aile i know Target carries the gerber graduates or cherros are a fav for all babies i think
I need advice. How can I best approach this situation? EVERYONE PLZ HELP!!! (Yes, I asked this already)?
My good friend is 25 n a single mom.Shes had a rough go at dating.She attracts jerks.Awhile ago she met a guy online.After chatting online n then the phone for a few months they met in person n decided to date immediately.They rushed into everything u can rush into including sex n have now been dating for almost 2 months.They only manage to see each other about 3 days a week because he lives almost 2 hrs away.On top of that hes finalizing a divorce that becomes official next month (he dated 1 other girl before my friend while getting divorced) n hes fighting for custody of his 2 kids.He has asked here n there for her to move to his town.He doesnt pressure her but he does ask now n then.My friend really likes him but Im not sure she loves him. She will get goofy sometimes n say she wants to have kids with him n she does consider moving there in a little bit but things she does show me she is not ready. for example, she applied for a job here in our city last week.I need advice. How can I best approach this situation? EVERYONE PLZ HELP!!! (Yes, I asked this already)?
It sounds to me like you are worried about losing your friend. This is ultimately her choice to make. It sounds like the boyfriend is on the rebound so yes I would take it very slowly. If they are still together in a year and happy then consider moving to be closer to him. Maybe even both meet half way and each commute to their own jobs that they have now. Small towns aren't all that bad. I live in a city of 5000 and love it. Just keep telling her to keep her head on her shoulders and don't rush it.I need advice. How can I best approach this situation? EVERYONE PLZ HELP!!! (Yes, I asked this already)?
Hey why are you so worried, I think your friend should make her own decessions after all she is 25 and above all a single mom, you seem to know much more about your friend, than even her boyfriend, this is not good, start thinking about you and stop worrying about others.
ok well this is hard ummmm maybe try to show her that he should understand if he really loved her he should understand she wants to go back to school
you are right she needs to focus on her 5 year old child and continue to working on her success as far as the guy he's just getting out of a marriage, just stop seeing another girl please he is not the one for your girl cuz you have to think about why it didn't work with those other women what makes her think it's gonna work with her and if she moves down with his boring a$$ then she really regret it and in the process mess up her sons head that's one thing you should never do put childern in a prodicument they will not understand if things go wrong she should keep flurting untill she finds someone else good for her,her child and local and can offer her the love her and her child deserve.
Yes, relationships are give and take. As a friend, all you can do is offer your opinion. She is a big girl, tell her how you feel and let her make her own decision. You have to let people make their mistakes and pray that they learn from them.
You should never have to ';give up'; anything to be with someone..you either do it gladly or not at all. It really sounds like these two are ';playing'; each other...since there are children involved, she needs to be mature about any decision she makes...(i.e. would it be good for her child?)...and put her childs welfare first and foremost. They both sound extremely immature, and I suggest they both ';stay put'; until they grow-up some...if something is meant to be..I PROMISE you..it will...I would be in NO hurry to shake up my life and that of my child for someone I'm not sure about....
Maybe you should tell her you love her. It's painfully obvious to us. Otherwise you wouldn't be nit picking about this guy she's found. he seems to be a good guy if the worst thing you can say about him is that he talks about his ex too much.dermalogica maybelline
It sounds to me like you are worried about losing your friend. This is ultimately her choice to make. It sounds like the boyfriend is on the rebound so yes I would take it very slowly. If they are still together in a year and happy then consider moving to be closer to him. Maybe even both meet half way and each commute to their own jobs that they have now. Small towns aren't all that bad. I live in a city of 5000 and love it. Just keep telling her to keep her head on her shoulders and don't rush it.I need advice. How can I best approach this situation? EVERYONE PLZ HELP!!! (Yes, I asked this already)?
Hey why are you so worried, I think your friend should make her own decessions after all she is 25 and above all a single mom, you seem to know much more about your friend, than even her boyfriend, this is not good, start thinking about you and stop worrying about others.
ok well this is hard ummmm maybe try to show her that he should understand if he really loved her he should understand she wants to go back to school
you are right she needs to focus on her 5 year old child and continue to working on her success as far as the guy he's just getting out of a marriage, just stop seeing another girl please he is not the one for your girl cuz you have to think about why it didn't work with those other women what makes her think it's gonna work with her and if she moves down with his boring a$$ then she really regret it and in the process mess up her sons head that's one thing you should never do put childern in a prodicument they will not understand if things go wrong she should keep flurting untill she finds someone else good for her,her child and local and can offer her the love her and her child deserve.
Yes, relationships are give and take. As a friend, all you can do is offer your opinion. She is a big girl, tell her how you feel and let her make her own decision. You have to let people make their mistakes and pray that they learn from them.
You should never have to ';give up'; anything to be with someone..you either do it gladly or not at all. It really sounds like these two are ';playing'; each other...since there are children involved, she needs to be mature about any decision she makes...(i.e. would it be good for her child?)...and put her childs welfare first and foremost. They both sound extremely immature, and I suggest they both ';stay put'; until they grow-up some...if something is meant to be..I PROMISE you..it will...I would be in NO hurry to shake up my life and that of my child for someone I'm not sure about....
Maybe you should tell her you love her. It's painfully obvious to us. Otherwise you wouldn't be nit picking about this guy she's found. he seems to be a good guy if the worst thing you can say about him is that he talks about his ex too much.
Tomorrow I tell my best friend I love her Advice?!?
Tomorrow I am telling my best friend I love her, she has been having past relationship problems and I am telling her tomorrow night.
I just can't figure out what to do.
Any help? Seriously I hate keeping secrets from her and tomorrow night I am spilling my heart.
I understand by me doing this I could destroy everything..but it is worth the risk to me.Tomorrow I tell my best friend I love her Advice?!?
I'd just tell her how you feel, assuming she's not in a relationship right now, might confuse her more. I'm not so sure that would be a good thing if she's still in a relationship as she might still want to try and save her relationship with whoever she's with. But if she's not with anyone then go for it. And just be honest with her, explain to her that you've been friends for a long time now, and over those years you have grown to love her as more then just a friend, that she's the first person and last person you think of when you go to sleep at night and when you wake up in the morning. How she makes you feel like you can do anything with her by your side, how everything seems to be perfect when she's around. That it hurts you inside to see her unhappy when she's hurt by these past relationships %26amp; whatever else your heart wishes to tell her. But you've got to mean it from deep within, put all your fears and doubts aside, tear down whatever walls you've built around yourself, most importantly look her in the eyes when you do so and if possible try and hold her hand. And yes she might not know how to react once you tell her, so just tell her I know this may seem awkward, or confusing to you, but I had to tell you because I couldn't live the rest of my life without you ever knowing. And that if she should decide to never talk to you again, you'll understand, but that you'll always be there for her no matter what. She may get up and walk away not really knowing what to do or say, possibly not talk to you for a few days, possibly never talk to you again; ideal situation she'd tell you the same. But its a risk you're going to have to take. Good luck.Tomorrow I tell my best friend I love her Advice?!?
yes! you must do it once and for all.. i mean.. if not, when? seize the opportunity.. i know it's a big risk but letting it all out will make yourself at ease.. besides, i have been through that, that's why i know the excruciating feeling of hiding it to someone then finally let it out, and knowing i am a girl.. anyways.. you can invite her to a private moment to have a talk with.. anything you want.. it's up to you.. just be prepared of her reactions.. whether good or bad.. good is good, definitely.. i have known someone who was his best friend but their relationship blossomed into a good one.. good luck..
Whatever you want to do, just take the risk, i told a girl i loved her once, we wer best friends for like 8 years, then after i told her, she said she had a boyfriend, they we stoped talking, so i dont know what to say, go with your gut, atleast if you tell her, you wont be caught up on it and you can move on, if she sais no, but if she says yes, then good job
better tell than never..there is no harm in trying..go on!
Make sure that you take her somewhere that ';she'; is comfortable. Not just her ';favorite place';, but where she is comfortable. Do not mention anything about ';friends';...';best friends';....or anything of the sort. Explain to her that you do not like to keep secrets from her, and that there is something that you MUST tell her, or you will be betraying yourself. Then, in a strong, blunt, ';head held high'; voice...tell her you love her...but not so loud that anyone hears. You DO NOT want to embarrass her. If she says that she doesn't know what to say...don't pressure her.....she will let you know her answer by actions. If she responds with she doesn't want to destroy the friendship...then it's time to move on. You have a life too....and it's great to have friends...but you DO age. Hopefully, she will respond with the word...DITTO!
Try to calm down and be yourself. She's your best friend. She'll love you for the way you are. =)
Good luck ! U needed it. U should tell it to her. Make sure u did it in a nice way. Take her out to romance her. All female love to be romance ;)... if budget permits, if not, take her to simple picnic or outings that won't cost an arm or leg.
Since u r her best fren for so long, u should know what she love. Give her a good time.
Good luck to u .. hope she will love you like u love her.
I just can't figure out what to do.
Any help? Seriously I hate keeping secrets from her and tomorrow night I am spilling my heart.
I understand by me doing this I could destroy everything..but it is worth the risk to me.Tomorrow I tell my best friend I love her Advice?!?
I'd just tell her how you feel, assuming she's not in a relationship right now, might confuse her more. I'm not so sure that would be a good thing if she's still in a relationship as she might still want to try and save her relationship with whoever she's with. But if she's not with anyone then go for it. And just be honest with her, explain to her that you've been friends for a long time now, and over those years you have grown to love her as more then just a friend, that she's the first person and last person you think of when you go to sleep at night and when you wake up in the morning. How she makes you feel like you can do anything with her by your side, how everything seems to be perfect when she's around. That it hurts you inside to see her unhappy when she's hurt by these past relationships %26amp; whatever else your heart wishes to tell her. But you've got to mean it from deep within, put all your fears and doubts aside, tear down whatever walls you've built around yourself, most importantly look her in the eyes when you do so and if possible try and hold her hand. And yes she might not know how to react once you tell her, so just tell her I know this may seem awkward, or confusing to you, but I had to tell you because I couldn't live the rest of my life without you ever knowing. And that if she should decide to never talk to you again, you'll understand, but that you'll always be there for her no matter what. She may get up and walk away not really knowing what to do or say, possibly not talk to you for a few days, possibly never talk to you again; ideal situation she'd tell you the same. But its a risk you're going to have to take. Good luck.Tomorrow I tell my best friend I love her Advice?!?
yes! you must do it once and for all.. i mean.. if not, when? seize the opportunity.. i know it's a big risk but letting it all out will make yourself at ease.. besides, i have been through that, that's why i know the excruciating feeling of hiding it to someone then finally let it out, and knowing i am a girl.. anyways.. you can invite her to a private moment to have a talk with.. anything you want.. it's up to you.. just be prepared of her reactions.. whether good or bad.. good is good, definitely.. i have known someone who was his best friend but their relationship blossomed into a good one.. good luck..
Whatever you want to do, just take the risk, i told a girl i loved her once, we wer best friends for like 8 years, then after i told her, she said she had a boyfriend, they we stoped talking, so i dont know what to say, go with your gut, atleast if you tell her, you wont be caught up on it and you can move on, if she sais no, but if she says yes, then good job
better tell than never..there is no harm in trying..go on!
Make sure that you take her somewhere that ';she'; is comfortable. Not just her ';favorite place';, but where she is comfortable. Do not mention anything about ';friends';...';best friends';....or anything of the sort. Explain to her that you do not like to keep secrets from her, and that there is something that you MUST tell her, or you will be betraying yourself. Then, in a strong, blunt, ';head held high'; voice...tell her you love her...but not so loud that anyone hears. You DO NOT want to embarrass her. If she says that she doesn't know what to say...don't pressure her.....she will let you know her answer by actions. If she responds with she doesn't want to destroy the friendship...then it's time to move on. You have a life too....and it's great to have friends...but you DO age. Hopefully, she will respond with the word...DITTO!
Try to calm down and be yourself. She's your best friend. She'll love you for the way you are. =)
Good luck ! U needed it. U should tell it to her. Make sure u did it in a nice way. Take her out to romance her. All female love to be romance ;)... if budget permits, if not, take her to simple picnic or outings that won't cost an arm or leg.
Since u r her best fren for so long, u should know what she love. Give her a good time.
Good luck to u .. hope she will love you like u love her.
Okk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
ok well my friends are starting to say i have an eating disorder and its sooo annoying. i dont!! they dont get itt i tried explaining myself but they dont listen to me. im just on a restrictive diet to lost weight by summer. they arent with me the whole day to see when i eat and dont just because i dont eat when im around them doesnt mean i have an eating disorder i just follow my own schedule and i dont like to get off of it im a very organzied person. but there saying theyre going to tell my parents but they have no right too because i dont have one. and i told them everything i just told you guys what do i doo! ps my parents dont know because i believe its none of their buisness..its no ones buisness on what i eat anddont.Okk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
Well sweetheart, as long as you know that you are eating and getting food in your system that's all that matters. If they don't listen to you and they tell your parents then are they really your friends?! I guess yes, in away they are because they are worried about you but on the other hand they should be listening to what you have to say right? But since we don't know anything about you if you do.. have an eating disorder then you need to get help because it can kill you... just a suggestion but since you say you dont and you have a schedule then follow it don't worry about what everyone says about you just tell them if they are talking about you that they are talking about a good subject and they are giving someone else a break... there is no reason for someone to talk about you just because you arent eating at school.... good luck and i wish you the best of luckOkk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
Yeah people used to say I was anorexic. Just eat chocolate around them or something and that will shut them up.
Your friends just care about you. They are concerned. It's a good thing because if they didn't care then there wouldn't be much of a friendship. I really think you should sit down with your parents and explain to them what kind of diet you are on. If you talk to them yourself, then your friend's threats to tell them will no longer bother you. You may not feel it's your parents business but your parents love you and they wouldn't want anything to happen to you.
Stage one of an eating disorder: Denial.
Well yeah maybe its not their business, but you have to realise that they just care about you. My friend stopped eating and me and my friends asid she might have an eating disorder and she disagreed and it turned out she had anerexia and she had to be hospitilized for a very long time and messed her body up and is going to have many problems when she gets older so just watch what your doing because you dont want to stop eating too much and take it easy on your friends they just care about you.
Hope I helped :)
depends on your diet, if its healthy, you have nothing to worry about. It is your bussiness, they just ';care'; and yes its annoying. If they tell you parents, explain to them your diet.
Can not say if your diet is a issue or not. You do not say what type of plan you are following. Are you watching calories or carbs or other? FYI - it is best to eat more small meals than like one meal a day.
I'm sorry, but I do think something is not quite right if you don't think it's your fiend's or your parent's business what you eat and when. Eating is a part of life and should be done in moderation. If you do not want to go into more here - email me and we can discuss gaylerbrody@yahoo.com
Take care
well as a recovering anorexic the way you are portraying things (defensive and combative) makes it seem like we are only getting what you think is going on, not what's really happening. the best to do is to look up mirrormirror.com i believe it is, take the test for how prone you are to develop anorexic behaviors and if you are severly at risk then yes ask for help making a safe diet, sticking to that diet only (not getting tougher on yourself) and try new outlets, new journals, blogs, things that relax you. i also have ocd (perfectionist/ over organized) so you do run a higher risk than a normal non-ocd person. remember when dieting try to have no LESS than 1500 cal per day to avoid bodily damage and extreme fatigue (problems from fatigue too) good luck, and you have at least a good 2or 3 months before going to the beach all the time so losing about 10-15 lbs healthily by time is completly accomplishable. good luck
is there any way that you could get your friends to somehow be with you at one of your scheduled eating times? i understand that you are getting annoyed and you dont have an eating disorder but maybe your friends just care about you. you need to sit them down and really talk to them about it and make them listen to you. find just one of your friends who beleives you and use them t oslowlyget the others to trust you
Hello,
First off, you need to realize that your friends are not trying to get into your business or ';butt'; in. They are probably just concerned for your well-being and care for you. You should be grateful that care that much about you to try to intervene when they think something is wrong. Even if there is nothing wrong, at least you now know that they will be there for you when you need them to be.
Secondly, restrictive diets are bogus to begin with. It is a proven fact that if you eat 6-7 small meals a day, you will actually loose more weight that if you only eat once a day. Reason being, is it helps speed up your metabolism and you can burn more energy because you have more to burn. think of a gas tank, your on Full instead of empty, your tank last longer on the firs 1/4 tank you use than the last quarter tank you use.
Thirdly, im not a doctor or a shrink, but it seems that them saying they will tell your parents really upset you. To me, that sounds like you don't want them to know what you are doing, and are scared they will find out. Well, if there is no problem, why would you be scared? I think you need to sit down with a nutritionist and or doctor and find a diet that will help you loose the weight you need for summer, safely and effectively. Loosing weight fast by not eating also is not pernament. The weight will always come back, and thus you begin to yo-yo diet, which is EXTREMEMLY DANGEROUS to your health.
I think that it's your business and your friends shouldn't worry about it because you know that you don't have an eating disorder. But, if it starts to get a little out of control...then maybe you should tell your parents.
as long as u arent throwin up everything u eat or starving yo self i dont see y u would a an eatin disorder. u kno what u are doin so dont worry if they tell yo parents
I can understand your frustration about your friends not believing you. And of course everyone wants to look nice in their bathing suits for the summer. But you are a very lucky person to have friends who are really concerned about you! They are worrying because they don't see you eat, and that's a legitimate worry. Eating disorders can cause severe illness, and even death. And yes, it IS your parents' business what you eat and don't eat. It is part of their job to keep you safe, and to insure that you grow up healthy. If you really and truly do NOT have an eating disorder, then why not change your schedule a little bit so that your friends can actually see that you ARE eating? If there is any chance you might actually have an eating disorder, then your friends are doing the right thing by telling your parents.
When I was in school, people said the same about me. I was just shy about eating in front of people. Don't worry if they tell your parents. Who do you think they will believe? What exactly is it that your parents don't know about?
well you are right it is no one's business if you are 18 or older. I would let them know if you are my friends you all should know me better than that. And I would schedule to have dinner or lunch with them and eat the foods you have designated to eat with your diet. If this doesn't work give them some space... they will definetly get the point!!
just ignore them
if they tell your parents then explain to your mother and father what you just explained to us.
if they dont believe you then who cares?
once you've lost the amount of weight you want... start eating at regular times.
Hi! Well, firstly, you're hearing it from everyone but I'll say it again, you're lucky to have friends that care about you, and that some day might save you from something as serious as this.
You know yourself if something is not going so right - though you won't consider that you have an eating disorder - but since you truly and honestly say it isn't, try and explain this to your friends. Maybe they are just seeing you eat too little when you're not, or maybe then know you are too thin to watch your weight? (if you are) I'm sure if you explain (patiently, because if you start hysterically denying it, you'll just make em worry even more!), and as caring friends they seem to be, they will help ya!
You shouldn't be afraid of them telling your parents since, even if they do, you haven't got an eating disorder, so what are you scared of? Try and explain the situation, if you can, to your parents! I really hope I've helped. Good luck! xx
People still say that I do! I just tell them I have a very high metabolism! AND IT'S TRUE! Just make sure to stay true to yourself! And if they are really your friends they wouldn't judge you. I hope this helps. I try to ignore them but they don't know it really bothers me and make me feel bad. I try to eat more to gain weight but I stay the same 103lbs.
Sounds to me like you just have friends that care. It may not be anyone's business but, if you don't have a problem then just let them take their concerns to your parents. Your parents know you. They can be a great way to get your friends off your back.
If you're a minor (and I'm thinking you are) then EVERYTHING you do IS your parents' business. As for what your friends are saying, you need not worry about what they say. As long as you aren't doing anything that could be harmful to you, what you do is none of their business. Tell them to mind their own business.
Well sweetheart, as long as you know that you are eating and getting food in your system that's all that matters. If they don't listen to you and they tell your parents then are they really your friends?! I guess yes, in away they are because they are worried about you but on the other hand they should be listening to what you have to say right? But since we don't know anything about you if you do.. have an eating disorder then you need to get help because it can kill you... just a suggestion but since you say you dont and you have a schedule then follow it don't worry about what everyone says about you just tell them if they are talking about you that they are talking about a good subject and they are giving someone else a break... there is no reason for someone to talk about you just because you arent eating at school.... good luck and i wish you the best of luckOkk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
Yeah people used to say I was anorexic. Just eat chocolate around them or something and that will shut them up.
Your friends just care about you. They are concerned. It's a good thing because if they didn't care then there wouldn't be much of a friendship. I really think you should sit down with your parents and explain to them what kind of diet you are on. If you talk to them yourself, then your friend's threats to tell them will no longer bother you. You may not feel it's your parents business but your parents love you and they wouldn't want anything to happen to you.
Stage one of an eating disorder: Denial.
Well yeah maybe its not their business, but you have to realise that they just care about you. My friend stopped eating and me and my friends asid she might have an eating disorder and she disagreed and it turned out she had anerexia and she had to be hospitilized for a very long time and messed her body up and is going to have many problems when she gets older so just watch what your doing because you dont want to stop eating too much and take it easy on your friends they just care about you.
Hope I helped :)
depends on your diet, if its healthy, you have nothing to worry about. It is your bussiness, they just ';care'; and yes its annoying. If they tell you parents, explain to them your diet.
Can not say if your diet is a issue or not. You do not say what type of plan you are following. Are you watching calories or carbs or other? FYI - it is best to eat more small meals than like one meal a day.
I'm sorry, but I do think something is not quite right if you don't think it's your fiend's or your parent's business what you eat and when. Eating is a part of life and should be done in moderation. If you do not want to go into more here - email me and we can discuss gaylerbrody@yahoo.com
Take care
well as a recovering anorexic the way you are portraying things (defensive and combative) makes it seem like we are only getting what you think is going on, not what's really happening. the best to do is to look up mirrormirror.com i believe it is, take the test for how prone you are to develop anorexic behaviors and if you are severly at risk then yes ask for help making a safe diet, sticking to that diet only (not getting tougher on yourself) and try new outlets, new journals, blogs, things that relax you. i also have ocd (perfectionist/ over organized) so you do run a higher risk than a normal non-ocd person. remember when dieting try to have no LESS than 1500 cal per day to avoid bodily damage and extreme fatigue (problems from fatigue too) good luck, and you have at least a good 2or 3 months before going to the beach all the time so losing about 10-15 lbs healthily by time is completly accomplishable. good luck
is there any way that you could get your friends to somehow be with you at one of your scheduled eating times? i understand that you are getting annoyed and you dont have an eating disorder but maybe your friends just care about you. you need to sit them down and really talk to them about it and make them listen to you. find just one of your friends who beleives you and use them t oslowlyget the others to trust you
Hello,
First off, you need to realize that your friends are not trying to get into your business or ';butt'; in. They are probably just concerned for your well-being and care for you. You should be grateful that care that much about you to try to intervene when they think something is wrong. Even if there is nothing wrong, at least you now know that they will be there for you when you need them to be.
Secondly, restrictive diets are bogus to begin with. It is a proven fact that if you eat 6-7 small meals a day, you will actually loose more weight that if you only eat once a day. Reason being, is it helps speed up your metabolism and you can burn more energy because you have more to burn. think of a gas tank, your on Full instead of empty, your tank last longer on the firs 1/4 tank you use than the last quarter tank you use.
Thirdly, im not a doctor or a shrink, but it seems that them saying they will tell your parents really upset you. To me, that sounds like you don't want them to know what you are doing, and are scared they will find out. Well, if there is no problem, why would you be scared? I think you need to sit down with a nutritionist and or doctor and find a diet that will help you loose the weight you need for summer, safely and effectively. Loosing weight fast by not eating also is not pernament. The weight will always come back, and thus you begin to yo-yo diet, which is EXTREMEMLY DANGEROUS to your health.
I think that it's your business and your friends shouldn't worry about it because you know that you don't have an eating disorder. But, if it starts to get a little out of control...then maybe you should tell your parents.
as long as u arent throwin up everything u eat or starving yo self i dont see y u would a an eatin disorder. u kno what u are doin so dont worry if they tell yo parents
I can understand your frustration about your friends not believing you. And of course everyone wants to look nice in their bathing suits for the summer. But you are a very lucky person to have friends who are really concerned about you! They are worrying because they don't see you eat, and that's a legitimate worry. Eating disorders can cause severe illness, and even death. And yes, it IS your parents' business what you eat and don't eat. It is part of their job to keep you safe, and to insure that you grow up healthy. If you really and truly do NOT have an eating disorder, then why not change your schedule a little bit so that your friends can actually see that you ARE eating? If there is any chance you might actually have an eating disorder, then your friends are doing the right thing by telling your parents.
When I was in school, people said the same about me. I was just shy about eating in front of people. Don't worry if they tell your parents. Who do you think they will believe? What exactly is it that your parents don't know about?
well you are right it is no one's business if you are 18 or older. I would let them know if you are my friends you all should know me better than that. And I would schedule to have dinner or lunch with them and eat the foods you have designated to eat with your diet. If this doesn't work give them some space... they will definetly get the point!!
just ignore them
if they tell your parents then explain to your mother and father what you just explained to us.
if they dont believe you then who cares?
once you've lost the amount of weight you want... start eating at regular times.
Hi! Well, firstly, you're hearing it from everyone but I'll say it again, you're lucky to have friends that care about you, and that some day might save you from something as serious as this.
You know yourself if something is not going so right - though you won't consider that you have an eating disorder - but since you truly and honestly say it isn't, try and explain this to your friends. Maybe they are just seeing you eat too little when you're not, or maybe then know you are too thin to watch your weight? (if you are) I'm sure if you explain (patiently, because if you start hysterically denying it, you'll just make em worry even more!), and as caring friends they seem to be, they will help ya!
You shouldn't be afraid of them telling your parents since, even if they do, you haven't got an eating disorder, so what are you scared of? Try and explain the situation, if you can, to your parents! I really hope I've helped. Good luck! xx
People still say that I do! I just tell them I have a very high metabolism! AND IT'S TRUE! Just make sure to stay true to yourself! And if they are really your friends they wouldn't judge you. I hope this helps. I try to ignore them but they don't know it really bothers me and make me feel bad. I try to eat more to gain weight but I stay the same 103lbs.
Sounds to me like you just have friends that care. It may not be anyone's business but, if you don't have a problem then just let them take their concerns to your parents. Your parents know you. They can be a great way to get your friends off your back.
If you're a minor (and I'm thinking you are) then EVERYTHING you do IS your parents' business. As for what your friends are saying, you need not worry about what they say. As long as you aren't doing anything that could be harmful to you, what you do is none of their business. Tell them to mind their own business.
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