Okk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?

ok well my friends are starting to say i have an eating disorder and its sooo annoying. i dont!! they dont get itt i tried explaining myself but they dont listen to me. im just on a restrictive diet to lost weight by summer. they arent with me the whole day to see when i eat and dont just because i dont eat when im around them doesnt mean i have an eating disorder i just follow my own schedule and i dont like to get off of it im a very organzied person. but there saying theyre going to tell my parents but they have no right too because i dont have one. and i told them everything i just told you guys what do i doo! ps my parents dont know because i believe its none of their buisness..its no ones buisness on what i eat anddont.Okk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
Well sweetheart, as long as you know that you are eating and getting food in your system that's all that matters. If they don't listen to you and they tell your parents then are they really your friends?! I guess yes, in away they are because they are worried about you but on the other hand they should be listening to what you have to say right? But since we don't know anything about you if you do.. have an eating disorder then you need to get help because it can kill you... just a suggestion but since you say you dont and you have a schedule then follow it don't worry about what everyone says about you just tell them if they are talking about you that they are talking about a good subject and they are giving someone else a break... there is no reason for someone to talk about you just because you arent eating at school.... good luck and i wish you the best of luckOkk need advice! 10 pts to best answer!!?
Yeah people used to say I was anorexic. Just eat chocolate around them or something and that will shut them up.
Your friends just care about you. They are concerned. It's a good thing because if they didn't care then there wouldn't be much of a friendship. I really think you should sit down with your parents and explain to them what kind of diet you are on. If you talk to them yourself, then your friend's threats to tell them will no longer bother you. You may not feel it's your parents business but your parents love you and they wouldn't want anything to happen to you.
Stage one of an eating disorder: Denial.
Well yeah maybe its not their business, but you have to realise that they just care about you. My friend stopped eating and me and my friends asid she might have an eating disorder and she disagreed and it turned out she had anerexia and she had to be hospitilized for a very long time and messed her body up and is going to have many problems when she gets older so just watch what your doing because you dont want to stop eating too much and take it easy on your friends they just care about you.


Hope I helped :)
depends on your diet, if its healthy, you have nothing to worry about. It is your bussiness, they just ';care'; and yes its annoying. If they tell you parents, explain to them your diet.
Can not say if your diet is a issue or not. You do not say what type of plan you are following. Are you watching calories or carbs or other? FYI - it is best to eat more small meals than like one meal a day.





I'm sorry, but I do think something is not quite right if you don't think it's your fiend's or your parent's business what you eat and when. Eating is a part of life and should be done in moderation. If you do not want to go into more here - email me and we can discuss gaylerbrody@yahoo.com





Take care
well as a recovering anorexic the way you are portraying things (defensive and combative) makes it seem like we are only getting what you think is going on, not what's really happening. the best to do is to look up mirrormirror.com i believe it is, take the test for how prone you are to develop anorexic behaviors and if you are severly at risk then yes ask for help making a safe diet, sticking to that diet only (not getting tougher on yourself) and try new outlets, new journals, blogs, things that relax you. i also have ocd (perfectionist/ over organized) so you do run a higher risk than a normal non-ocd person. remember when dieting try to have no LESS than 1500 cal per day to avoid bodily damage and extreme fatigue (problems from fatigue too) good luck, and you have at least a good 2or 3 months before going to the beach all the time so losing about 10-15 lbs healthily by time is completly accomplishable. good luck
is there any way that you could get your friends to somehow be with you at one of your scheduled eating times? i understand that you are getting annoyed and you dont have an eating disorder but maybe your friends just care about you. you need to sit them down and really talk to them about it and make them listen to you. find just one of your friends who beleives you and use them t oslowlyget the others to trust you
Hello,





First off, you need to realize that your friends are not trying to get into your business or ';butt'; in. They are probably just concerned for your well-being and care for you. You should be grateful that care that much about you to try to intervene when they think something is wrong. Even if there is nothing wrong, at least you now know that they will be there for you when you need them to be.





Secondly, restrictive diets are bogus to begin with. It is a proven fact that if you eat 6-7 small meals a day, you will actually loose more weight that if you only eat once a day. Reason being, is it helps speed up your metabolism and you can burn more energy because you have more to burn. think of a gas tank, your on Full instead of empty, your tank last longer on the firs 1/4 tank you use than the last quarter tank you use.





Thirdly, im not a doctor or a shrink, but it seems that them saying they will tell your parents really upset you. To me, that sounds like you don't want them to know what you are doing, and are scared they will find out. Well, if there is no problem, why would you be scared? I think you need to sit down with a nutritionist and or doctor and find a diet that will help you loose the weight you need for summer, safely and effectively. Loosing weight fast by not eating also is not pernament. The weight will always come back, and thus you begin to yo-yo diet, which is EXTREMEMLY DANGEROUS to your health.
I think that it's your business and your friends shouldn't worry about it because you know that you don't have an eating disorder. But, if it starts to get a little out of control...then maybe you should tell your parents.
as long as u arent throwin up everything u eat or starving yo self i dont see y u would a an eatin disorder. u kno what u are doin so dont worry if they tell yo parents
I can understand your frustration about your friends not believing you. And of course everyone wants to look nice in their bathing suits for the summer. But you are a very lucky person to have friends who are really concerned about you! They are worrying because they don't see you eat, and that's a legitimate worry. Eating disorders can cause severe illness, and even death. And yes, it IS your parents' business what you eat and don't eat. It is part of their job to keep you safe, and to insure that you grow up healthy. If you really and truly do NOT have an eating disorder, then why not change your schedule a little bit so that your friends can actually see that you ARE eating? If there is any chance you might actually have an eating disorder, then your friends are doing the right thing by telling your parents.
When I was in school, people said the same about me. I was just shy about eating in front of people. Don't worry if they tell your parents. Who do you think they will believe? What exactly is it that your parents don't know about?
well you are right it is no one's business if you are 18 or older. I would let them know if you are my friends you all should know me better than that. And I would schedule to have dinner or lunch with them and eat the foods you have designated to eat with your diet. If this doesn't work give them some space... they will definetly get the point!!
just ignore them


if they tell your parents then explain to your mother and father what you just explained to us.


if they dont believe you then who cares?


once you've lost the amount of weight you want... start eating at regular times.
Hi! Well, firstly, you're hearing it from everyone but I'll say it again, you're lucky to have friends that care about you, and that some day might save you from something as serious as this.





You know yourself if something is not going so right - though you won't consider that you have an eating disorder - but since you truly and honestly say it isn't, try and explain this to your friends. Maybe they are just seeing you eat too little when you're not, or maybe then know you are too thin to watch your weight? (if you are) I'm sure if you explain (patiently, because if you start hysterically denying it, you'll just make em worry even more!), and as caring friends they seem to be, they will help ya!


You shouldn't be afraid of them telling your parents since, even if they do, you haven't got an eating disorder, so what are you scared of? Try and explain the situation, if you can, to your parents! I really hope I've helped. Good luck! xx
People still say that I do! I just tell them I have a very high metabolism! AND IT'S TRUE! Just make sure to stay true to yourself! And if they are really your friends they wouldn't judge you. I hope this helps. I try to ignore them but they don't know it really bothers me and make me feel bad. I try to eat more to gain weight but I stay the same 103lbs.
Sounds to me like you just have friends that care. It may not be anyone's business but, if you don't have a problem then just let them take their concerns to your parents. Your parents know you. They can be a great way to get your friends off your back.
If you're a minor (and I'm thinking you are) then EVERYTHING you do IS your parents' business. As for what your friends are saying, you need not worry about what they say. As long as you aren't doing anything that could be harmful to you, what you do is none of their business. Tell them to mind their own business.