Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Please advice me on wats best??

im in a very tough sistuation, im pregnant and the baby father wants nothing to do with me,im 25 and he's 28, im currently unempoyed as of 3 weeks ago and he has a history of cant keeping jobs....i told my mom but she NEVERED liked him and told me to stay away from him .his mom doesnt like me either...i feel sooo alone coz i have no one and i dont know how i will be able to take care of this child on my own.....any suggestions?? the father of the baby is clearly a looser and a child he just wants to party with no responsibilites....Please advice me on wats best??
First of all you must think about you now and the baby your carrying. You need to take care of your health so the baby will not be harm. it's a bad idea for you to be on this much stress. If the father is useless, then that will be his problem,but as long as you know that he is the father,you have the right to ask him to help you esp. when the baby is born. The law will be on your side,even if your not married to him, he will be force to support the baby till your baby grow up.........get all the facts...Please advice me on wats best??
you just got a bad phase of your life.


this is not the end!!!


what you have to do is DON'T LOOK BACK,


in front of you is a long journey for you and your child to go.


don't regret what you have now.


your child is innocent and your child will bring you happiness.


if you really can't do it alone, find someone or some kind of social worker of government that can help you.


take a really good care of you and the baby.


GOD BLESS YOU.
there are lots of types of aide for single mothers out there , check with your local family planning agency ,





they can give you the help and support you need right now and then after the baby comes they should be able to put you in touch with job agencies








B.
1. U should listen to your parents.


2. Why would U have a baby with a looser like that...


3. Make an appointment to clean yourself up...


4. Get a job and stop crying.


Or





Your life will be like that:





U want it, U got it, now U take care of it...
either abortion or adoption it seems like those are your only options but if you really want to keep it there is always child support but seeing how you speak of the father im not sure you would get much if any out of him

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