Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?

The situation: My best friend and her first love from junior high have been talking on the phone and through email for the past year. They live in different states and haven't seen each other since she moved sophomore year of high school. They had plans to meet when she was visiting family in Nov. She called him when she got into town, but he had changed his number and didn't get back with her until Feb. Weeks pass in between the emails she sends before he replies back. In Aug., she is being relocated for her job to the state he resides. He told her he has been really busy w/ work since he is a doctor. They have plans of continuing their childhood romance once she moves, but she is apprehensive because his actions appear to say something different than what he tells her. She has really fallen for him again and wants to have a relationship with this guy. All you men %26amp; women out there, help! Is his actions ';guy talk'; for not really being interested? What advice should I give her?Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
The way I see it, is he isn't really interested. That is was different just emailing each other, but when she goes for a visit, his number is changed, and no contact until she is well out of the area. And now she is moving there, and he is very busy..... One: I would find out if he is married, or has a live in girlfriend. Two: ask him straight out what the deal is. Also you say she wants to cont the ';childhood'; romance.... she is all grown up now. And she really doesn't know him as a person, it sounds like he has changed. But I think she should ask him if he wants to have some sort of releationship with her. Or if he was just carring on a email romance?? Tell your friend good luck, and I hope she doesn't get her heart broken.Hello everyone! I need advice to give my best friend of 11 years...?
Tell her to take it really slow, and watch her back. HE could be actually busy, or he could just be a jerk.
You're right. She should keep things very light until she knows how serious he is. He may be busy but he may be too busy to want to have a relationship too. The timeing might not be right for things to start again.
this could b a fake guy- those r very often... if he never shows up, then most likely fake
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