Thursday, August 19, 2010

Advice pleaseeee? 10points to best answer?

basically a guy that i have liked for 7 years and i belive that i do actully love him is dating my best friend. he only met her through me and they have not known each other long but it seems there relationship is going strong.


we had kissed on alot of different oocasions (before he was with her) and had a bit of 'fun' if you get my drift.


i see them together all the time and have to sit in the same room as them all over eachover and to be honest it breaks my heart. i no that sounds gay but it does.


should i just leave them to it and forget about him?


14 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.





i see him near enough everyday anyway as hes always round my house, hes very close to my family.Advice pleaseeee? 10points to best answer?
If you guys have kissed and ';had a bit of fun'; and it never turned into anything, then I would recommend letting it go. Because of the emotions that you feel when you are near them when they are together I would recommend avoiding them when they are together. Since you are the one that introduced them, they will expect you to be happy for them and it sounds like you're not going to find that inside of you right now. You may want to have a frank and open discussion with your BFF so she knows why you've backed off of the friendship a bit, but I am sure she will understand. We've all wanted a guy who didn't want us at some point. Definitely take your sights off of this guy and find one that wants you, not one that just wants to fool around with you until someone better comes along. You're worth more than that and maybe one day he will see it, but by then it'll be too late for him because you've already moved on. Never look back, lest you get caught up in the past. Good LuckAdvice pleaseeee? 10points to best answer?
She's your friend.


And if you were a good friend, you'd forget him and encourage their relationship. Its shows maturity, and they'll both respect you for that. Don't make it awkward by ignoring them when they're together, talk to them and show them that everything's ';cool';. Let them have ';their'; time and she'll give you your time. I've been in the same situation, I stayed cool about it and it all turned out all good.
ever heard the song ';you belong with me-taylor swift';? watch the video, remember what u think when u watch it, your heart will tell you what to do. but in my experience, u should leave well enough alone, u dont want to make him unhappy because he will never be happy with you, if u break them up n go out with him he will always wonder what if. so let life take its course. whats meant to be will happen. best thing i could say is be his friend, be there when he needs you most, maybe one day hell realize..

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