Some advice please ...? 10point to best answer?

basically a guy that i have liked for 7 years and i belive that i do actully love him is dating my best friend. he only met her through me and they have not known each other long but it seems there relationship is going strong.


we had kissed on alot of different oocasions (before he was with her) and had a bit of 'fun' if you get my drift.


i see them together all the time and have to sit in the same room as them all over eachover and to be honest it breaks my heart. i no that sounds gay but it does.


should i just leave them to it and forget about him?


14 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.





i see him near enough everyday anyway as hes always round my house, hes very close to my family.Some advice please ...? 10point to best answer?
a guy that is perfect for you will come, you just have to wait. i mean if he is so easy to go to this girl(your best friend) that he barley knows and just leave ya there hanging like that. well then he isn't THE guy. you really just have to be honest with yourself and ask, did he really treat me like i should of been treated? did he ever take advantage of me? do i really love HIM or just the physical outer appearance? hope this kinda helps. Good Luck! God Bless.Some advice please ...? 10point to best answer?
can you forget about him though?





sweetie, think about it, if it breaks your heart then is he really worth it?


have you told your best friend about it, because it sort of involves her to. You could always kick him out of your house. it kinda sounds liek you guys had a couple of flings :L





do your trust your heart or your head, because you may en up doing something you will regret, but which is better to trust?





i really do hope you manage to work this out :)





xx
do you want to be happy?





only way is to ask him, how he feels, if its te same way,





he can just break up with your best friend.





im pretty sure you guys are mature enough to handle this.
He kinda sounds playerish to me. Does your friend know you like him? If so that's not a very good best friend. Leave them alone, and find someone else.
You have to forget about him, eventually. You two may have had 'fun' but he didn't take it further. Instead, he got with your best friend. So, he doesn't seem like a potential boyfriend or what have you in the first place. Just slowly lose the feelings you have for him. It's not worth it. You picked up on how strong their relationship is. Do not mess it up by saying you like him or showing your feelings towards him in any physical way. If he wanted to be with you, then he would have asked you to be his girl not your best friend. Just be happy for them both. And if you can't be happy, then stay away from them. And just socialize with your best friend when he's not around.
If she is a good and reliable friend of yours i suggest you leave them alone.





Boys do come and go, and it's true that you had a crush on this boy for such a long time, but why hasn't he made the first move you? or why haven't you after so long?





Plus since he met her through you, it seems to me, from what i'm getting from this situation is he sees you as a friend and now that he's with your friend, you are basically more of a jump-off (or girl on the side but never a main girlfriend).





Don't try to take what you may never have. I feel your friendship is more important with a boy that may never like you in that way.





But if you feel that you really like this boy, if the relationship with your friend and him goes sour, then that should be your chance to make your move...honestly if you knew him for so long you shouldn't do this quite some time ago IMO.