10 points for the first best answer! i really need advice?

how do u get a guy that ur madly in love with back after you broke his heart about 7 months ago. he went to a different county after the break up and got a new gf for like 6 months. he's back to this county now even though i havnt seen him yet and he doesnt know that i know he's here. but how do i get him back or at least show him that i really do care for him. i dont want to do anything that seems stalkerish like going to his house or something like that.





thanks!10 points for the first best answer! i really need advice?
Try meeting up with him, if your an adult go for a few friendly drinks. You may think you want him back but when you both meet as friends you may find that you both will be better off as just friends.I'm sure you both have mutual friends, arrange a night out with all of your friends including him. If after a few meets with him you still feel the same, then maybe talk with him about it. He may feel the same. If you meet as friends for a while, over time you will probably get hints from him that he does or doesnt want to get back with you. I dont suggest you just go see him in the intentions of getting back with him, this may not be what you or he wants.





I'm sure he's had time to think while he's been away so he may not feel the same about you now as he did 6 months ago. He may just want to be friends.





Overall i suggest you just try to be friends for now and see what happens.10 points for the first best answer! i really need advice?
send him a balloon bouquet with a heartfelt letter explaining that you made a very bad mistake and regret it. That afterwards you realize how you felt about him and that you would like another chance. Ask him to meet you some place that was meaningful in your relationship for the two of you to talk.
Just call him and tell him. Thats really the only way to NOT be a stalker. Just get it over with.
Find yourself in the right place at the right time...and look really good.
Groveling may be involved. You have to be truly sorry that you broke his heart and admit that what you did was inconsiderate, stupid, and cruel. You also have to tell him that you truly care for him and want his forgiveness and his love.





You have to hope that he wants to talk to you as well. For all you know, he has emotionally moved on and is not interested in what you have to say.





Call him and ask to meet him where there are no distractions or a lot of people. A park may not be a bad idea. If he asks what do you want to talk about, tell him the subject is forgiveness and it has to be in person.
well you might have to go to his house and sit down and pour your heart out to him and tell him you made a big mistake and your a madly in love with him and and you want to spend the rest of you life with him if that's the case do what you gotta do you need to make the move and do it if you really love this guy do it before it's too late go for it and keep doing it till he gets the message don't give up take him back I'm sure he still loves you what are you waiting for how Far would you go to get him back( besides sleeping with him) send him a card tell him he's your night in shining armor that will work it's a start you need to go and have a heart to heart talk get it out in the open and over with you will feel alot better remember he was hurt so be prepared for a fight to get him back but then again he just might say what took you so long to tell me and then you two get back together
send him a present
you should really try to get in contact with him again. see whats new and be his friend at first. if he has a gf theres nothing really to do about that. maybe he will realize he can come back to you cause you want him back. just try to call him and ask to meet somewhere for coffee or some thing of some sort lol. i wish you the best of luck!
Send him an email or letter indicating you miss him. He will either respond(showing interest) or blow you off.
Find out if he's seeing anyone or still with the girl he was with for 6 months. If he's free:


a) Ask him out


b) Blow his brains out with a stunning outfit


c) Be honest and tell him your feelings
No matter how hard you try, you can't make someone love you...
Um... yeah. Pretty much anything you do is going to be stalker like. You should probally just call him up or say high when you are out in public someday. Suggest getting together for a movie or something like that. If he is ok with it then just ease into it from being friends to being more than that.
Well.it would be a real challenge specially if the guy is not intrested in you,but you can give your best shot!





I would say try different approach for example try to be ';secret admirer';.send things to him,and keep the communication only through Internet if its possible,if you start noticing things going smooth then you take it to the next level by going out for coffee or something brief.





Again you can make someone love you:)





well good luck!
write a note, tell him to meet you somewhere, but trust me when i say do not try to buy his love, it will blow up in ur face.
well talk to him tell him how you feal and to find the real answer i need to know why did you break up with him to begin with?? well good luck hope he falls for you
well it all depends on what u did to break his heart. If it was something serious, thenit would obviously take more than an apology. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you truely told him ur sorry and want to make ammends, and he still doesnt comply, then he's probably is not worth ur time. GOOD LUCK!
if you can call him and ask him out to dinner .tell him that you missed him and you would just like to see.if he except the invite tell him how you feel .he might feel the same way if he don't then at least you tried.good luck.
Hun, if you really love him, say these exact words and do these exact things:





Walk up to him and say, ';(His name), I really love you. I'm sorry for (what you did). I never meant for it to hurt you. I can't forget you. My love for you is as strong as the hot intensity of a thousand suns. I really love you. Please, give me one more chance.'; Look into his eyes. Tell him what you like about him and why you love him so much.





I wish you the best of luck, hun.
I think the first step would be just to tell him you know he's back and you'd like to get together (as friends).
';you cant make a heart, LOVE SOMEBODY!';


'; you can tell it wat to do, but it wont listen at all...';


';you cant make a heart, LOVE SOMEBODY!';


';you can lead a heart to love, but u cant make it fall...';


';you can lead a heart to looooooooooove... but u cant make it fall...';





-George Strait (ROX!!!)
You've broke his heart and he is probably very sheepish about getting back involved with you in anyway, so the best thing you can do is take it slow. If you know his email address, why not send him a friendly email. Apologize for whatever wrong doings you may have done. He may answer, he may not. If he doesn't, wait a while and send him another email or wait till you bump into him around town somewhere. Your going to have to build a friendship again with him before you can ever move farther. Friendships take time and your going to have to be patient. Don't rush things, you'll only drive him farther away.
just try to start fresh. dont try to be his girlfriend quite yet. and dont be too pushy if he doesnt want to talk just leave him alone and try again in a little while and h'll see that you still care.
I think that maybe you should just call him and ask if he wants to go have dinner or coffee or something that the two of you like to do. Then slowly become friends again. Do not push the issue you could get hurt in the process. He might still be hurt and need time to trust you again.