TALK TO PEOPLE AND BECOME SOCIALNerd without the best body? Shy with girls? Advice?
Do you know my good friend J-Dog?Nerd without the best body? Shy with girls? Advice?
nerd /n蓽rd/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[nurd] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
鈥搉oun Slang. 1. a stupid, irritating, ineffectual, or unattractive person.
2. an intelligent but single-minded person obsessed with a nonsocial hobby or pursuit: a computer nerd.
Workout. Play Sports. Take off those glasses and put in contacts. Grow longer hair. Don't be a nerd. Don't talk about the chess club. Don't talk about science/math and other subjects. Don't act like you know everything. Stop raising your hand in class. Sit in the back row. Just relax and quit being a nerd. After you have accomplished the new look and start doing all of the above. Then you can start being brave, talk to girls, and not be one of the nerds. You can then gain your confidence because you will be a better person. People will then talk to you and you can make new friends. You won't have to worry about being shy. People will not make fun of you anymore. Just get a makeover.
Do what I did. I joined an amateur dramatic group. They get you up on stage acting and before you know it, your confidence will flourish. I was so shy, I would walk across the road to avoid people and would stammer when talking to girls.
Now, I am a salesperson, been in movies, had loads of girlfriends, I am now married and have 3 children.
attitude hun..be ur self the one who is sticking is the right one...the one who is ignoring is not the one
work out more is my first advice. For socializing i would try working my way up to talking to girls you are attracted to. Start off with a girl you think is mediocre and then try a girl that you are slightly more attracted to, ect... try to make freinds with a few girls... I know this works since i have the same issue.
JOIN THE CORPS! that will build some confidence
Come out of your shell. Start joining in more, talking more. You say you don't have the best body-there's no reason why you shouldn't. Make time in your life for exercise-you should know how important that is. Start working out-find a sport that you enjoy, there's something for everyone. Build up some self esteem and confidence.
work it. not all girls look for the best body. and some girls dig shy boys.
rock what you got.
work on your look, get buff, and change your dress. Shyness is a tough one though. You might be shy because your self esteem isn't real high. Change your look and your confidence will go up.
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