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i have this bf who is sometimes so wonderful but at other times he acts as if im not even there and that is the worst feeling inside i love him but we have broken up a few times because of this :( i cant say no to him and when we are broken up he is giving me constant attention and wants to spend time with me but when we are together after a while it seems he doesnt. please help. how do i get him to want to spend time with me when we are together? we've been together a couple of years (besides the small amount of time we were broken up) it's like when he has me he doesnt want me and when he doesnt he would do anything to get me back what should i do???Gimme advice i always choose best answers :)?
He doesn't seem to value you very much. Kinda sounds like he wants everything on his terms...like wants you around when HE wants you around...cares only when HE starts to get lonely, etc. Pretty selfish really..


You're probably wasting your time trying to make him come around and see how much you care. Odds are he just doesn't get it. I know it hurts terribly bad when you love and care about someone who doesn't seem to feel the same way about you. But if it's been that long and he's still the same, he's probably not going to change or understand that it hurts you to be treated like that.


You could try talking to him and asking him why he seems to get bored with you or if there's something you can do to change it, but odds are he just gets scared of being alone and that's why he wants you back considering when you're there he doesn't seem to appreciate it very much.Gimme advice i always choose best answers :)?
even though it's hard and you love him you need to dump him, i have lived through this with my husband for years and we are yet again seperated, this time for good


the longer you hang on and try to make it work the harder and more complicated it will get, especially if you get children involved, you have to realize even if he changes he will usually go back to the same old ways and you will repeat the cycle over and over and over again and will go through the same feelings and emotions each time, there is better out there
I would find someone who makes me happy. It sounds like he never will!
It seems to me like you need a new boyfriend - one who will show you affection and appreciate your being with him. It sounds like he likes the idea of you being around more than he likes you. If he really liked you, he would be expressing it. I think you should be treated better. If not by him, then by someone else.
It seems he sees you as more of a possession than an actual person. He needs to have you in his life to provide some sort of stability, but he has no desire to care for you or attend to your needs. Do yourself a favour and drop him like a hot potato!
get rid of him like an old pair of shoes. Toss a side and dont give it a second thought.