I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.
Anyways:
Do most relationships that involve one of the people going to college usually end because of it?
Should i try to get closer to her while their dating to get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
it depends where he's going to college. you could casually bring him up in a conversation, and ask where he'll be going after high school. if it's local or like an hour away, chances are good they'll stay together.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Urgent for advice, I blew my best chance?
I really like this guy who is 3 yrs older + goes to the same school. Nearly every school day he gets the same public bus as me. Sometimes he looks at me a lot, + when I turn around I catch him staring. I have never said hello to him or anything. Today there was a smaller bus so it was a little crowded, I let someone have my seat but I should have sat next to him, he was on the seats next to me. But I sat with the woman. I really should have sat next to him + said hi. I doubt we will have the small bus again. There's always lots of seats available on the normal bus. I blew a really good chance -.-
I want to go up to him + say hi but I can't do that, I need a reason like asking him a question or something. but what exactly?Urgent for advice, I blew my best chance?
No, don't do that. Don't make yourself seem easy and desperate b'caausee you like him. Just let him come to you. . . : )Urgent for advice, I blew my best chance?
Watch Shanghai Kiss.wholesale cosmetics remove blackheads
I want to go up to him + say hi but I can't do that, I need a reason like asking him a question or something. but what exactly?Urgent for advice, I blew my best chance?
No, don't do that. Don't make yourself seem easy and desperate b'caausee you like him. Just let him come to you. . . : )Urgent for advice, I blew my best chance?
Watch Shanghai Kiss.
Can someone advice me on the best course of action to take following an interview?
The Firm is a highly reputable firm that has high standards and is very professional and maybe conservative. I had an interview on Monday and already sent a short email to the recruiter and one of the senior managers that interviewed me because I have his namecard.
I have been informed that I will know the outcome by Monday of next week. Exactly one week after date of interview. Should I call which I am inclined to because I am really keen on the role. However I do not wish to be a hindrance and maybe reservation and patience is preferred by the Firm.
Can someone with extensive hiring experience tell me what is in the Firm's best interest? Would it be better to call or to wait for the call. And should I write thank-you letters and deliver that to the Firm personally or would that be excessive and unnecessary.
I really hope I secure this role because I believe I am perfect for the Firm and the Firm is perfect for me.Can someone advice me on the best course of action to take following an interview?
You most definitely should send a thank you email or card to the interviewer.
Thank them for their time and re-state how much you would love to work for the company and why you think you would be a good fit.
I was a recruiter/interviewer for four years and ALWAYS remembered and appreciated the job candidate(s) who sent 'thank yous'; and showed enthusiasm like yours.';I really hope I secure this role because I believe I am perfect for the Firm and the Firm is perfect for me';
Then wait fir the call, it shows you can follow instructions.
But do call if they don't.
If you did not get the job this time, ask why and how you could qualify next time there is another position like the one you appled for.
Good luck!Can someone advice me on the best course of action to take following an interview?
If they told you a specific date that they would let you know about the position, then you should wait on that date. Trying to follow up on the position beforehand would seem unprofessional, especially if it is a conservative company. If they do not call you on Monday then it would be okay for you to do a follow-up call on Tuesday.
If you do not get the job then you can give me them a ';thank-you'; letter, although you need to write it in a formal tone.
Sit tight until the week has passed...if you call before hand, in my opinion , you appear desperate and not confident...almost as if you are STILL trying to convince them to hire you. In the meantime I would send the thank you cards/notes/emails etc to the interviewer thanking them for the opportunity and that you look forward to hearing from them. Don't be too pushy that can be a quick turnoff.
Good Luck
I have been informed that I will know the outcome by Monday of next week. Exactly one week after date of interview. Should I call which I am inclined to because I am really keen on the role. However I do not wish to be a hindrance and maybe reservation and patience is preferred by the Firm.
Can someone with extensive hiring experience tell me what is in the Firm's best interest? Would it be better to call or to wait for the call. And should I write thank-you letters and deliver that to the Firm personally or would that be excessive and unnecessary.
I really hope I secure this role because I believe I am perfect for the Firm and the Firm is perfect for me.Can someone advice me on the best course of action to take following an interview?
You most definitely should send a thank you email or card to the interviewer.
Thank them for their time and re-state how much you would love to work for the company and why you think you would be a good fit.
I was a recruiter/interviewer for four years and ALWAYS remembered and appreciated the job candidate(s) who sent 'thank yous'; and showed enthusiasm like yours.';I really hope I secure this role because I believe I am perfect for the Firm and the Firm is perfect for me';
Then wait fir the call, it shows you can follow instructions.
But do call if they don't.
If you did not get the job this time, ask why and how you could qualify next time there is another position like the one you appled for.
Good luck!Can someone advice me on the best course of action to take following an interview?
If they told you a specific date that they would let you know about the position, then you should wait on that date. Trying to follow up on the position beforehand would seem unprofessional, especially if it is a conservative company. If they do not call you on Monday then it would be okay for you to do a follow-up call on Tuesday.
If you do not get the job then you can give me them a ';thank-you'; letter, although you need to write it in a formal tone.
Sit tight until the week has passed...if you call before hand, in my opinion , you appear desperate and not confident...almost as if you are STILL trying to convince them to hire you. In the meantime I would send the thank you cards/notes/emails etc to the interviewer thanking them for the opportunity and that you look forward to hearing from them. Don't be too pushy that can be a quick turnoff.
Good Luck
Squash racket advice please, 10 pts best answer?
I am an intermediate squash player but have only ever used a very basic racket. I would like to buy a good quality racket (拢80 or more) on sale for around 拢40. I have found the Dunlop Black Max Titanium 2009 on sale from 拢120 down to 拢36 on http://www.pdhsports.com/products/Dunlop鈥?/a>
I have also found the Wilson Hyper Hammer 120 on sale from the same price down to 拢38 at http://www.pdhsports.com/products/Wilson鈥?/a>
Do these look like decent rackets and would anyone recommend any others?
ThanksSquash racket advice please, 10 pts best answer?
well you can always go to either dicks sporting goods or a sporting store bvecause they have nice ones and cheap ones
I have also found the Wilson Hyper Hammer 120 on sale from the same price down to 拢38 at http://www.pdhsports.com/products/Wilson鈥?/a>
Do these look like decent rackets and would anyone recommend any others?
ThanksSquash racket advice please, 10 pts best answer?
well you can always go to either dicks sporting goods or a sporting store bvecause they have nice ones and cheap ones
Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
So i met this really cool guy today and i got his number and we talked on facebook and txted some but i want to know the best way to talk to him. I wont get to see him to hangout or anything and i dont want to overtxt him so should i txt him like every two days or somethng or what do u think would be the best way to get to know him??Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
iight now based on what happened he is either really into you, not into at all, or has mixed feelings and doesn't think much of the confrontation you guys had. if hes into you text him but see where he is at. i kno if i'm into a girl nd she texts me i'm going to be all over it but this kid might not be the sharpest tool in the box so he might let it go over his head. so dont take it like hes not into if he doesnt respond to you right away or what not he might be shy. just say hi to him from time to time. it doesnt even have to be like oh hi. try to start conversation if he goes for it then let fait do its work if he doesnt theres another 209503249489 guys out there for you. good luck.Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
The best way is always face to face, if you can't do that, then talk on the phone. Text and facebook, myspace, IM, that is very non-personal. you won't make a connection. even over the phone its hard to really connect, but you can tell subtle things from the voice, whether he is smiling, nervous, or if he is really into you. But you need face time, otherwise he will think that you aren't serious and look elsewhere. Also make sure he wants to spend time with you, or talk, if he only wants to text, chances are, he is playing games.
Good luck i hope that helped.
i think facebook is your best bet because texting is a little too direct.
every time you text him he will probably get it right away and it may seem clingy or needy but if you talk to him on facebook you can
first of all express yourself more without being limited to 160 characters for example,
second of all show your personality because you can give full thoughts and details
and thirdly it will seem more casual for him to go on facebook and see ';oh! i have a message from _____'; as opposed to a texting him today ';hey whats up'; ...two days from now... ';hi what you doing?'; ....two days form now... ';hello how are you?'; you will have a continuous conversation on facebook whereas you cant in text messaging.
so if you cant talk to him in person which you should probably do then use facebook.
he probably didnt ask for your number because its easier for him to just save your number when you text him. no worries.
Well text him every dew days, then as you get closer text him more often. The guy wont care if you text him all the time if he somewhat likes you. If a guy gives you his number then he obviously wants to talk to you, and get to know you. Dont worry about over texting him. You will get to know him pretty quickly
Okay just text him every few days so you don't seem over-bearing. Once you start getting to know each other you can text him more. When you get home you can see about meeting him somewhere so you guys can talk in person. Then you can make sure he isn't just saying what he thinks you would like on texts!! I think the fact he gave you his number is good. Usually when they just take yours.... they don't call you T_T. I am done rambling. I hope I helped ^_^
I wouldn't read too far into this. He knows you aren't in town for the long term and so he is enjoying the flirting. Treat it like any other crush that will be over before you know it. Follow his cue on how often to txt. I think this whole thing is a little silly but I will give you a tip. Send him a txt (without being prompted by him) once a day unless you are busy. If you are busy, skip it. He will let you know how much he wants to communicate based on how often he replies. Don't be surprised if it ends as soon as you go back home.
Wait till he texts you, but if is like a couple of days and he still hasn't text you then just txt him to say hi and how his day was!!
After a while, say '; tell me about yourself, since we have been txting, i like to know a little about a person when i am txting them';
something like that then hopefully that will jump start a convo and you can learn more about each other!
i would text him and be like ';hey, do you wanna talk on the phone?'; or ';wanna play 20 questions';
20 questions is a great game to get to know someone and it doesnt seem like your stalking him or anything because you guys are both asking questions.
wow, this is a toughie.
i would text him even though you may feel like your over texting him.
guys like attention.
and chat w/ him on facebook whenever he's online.
since your only visiting another state, there isnt much you can do, but keep in contact like you are doing right now.
Ok look, the best way to chat with this guy, is to talk on the phone! show him you arent afraid of an akward silence. just do it trust me. he will see confidence and he will know that you definitely want to talk and that he has your attention. Trust me it will work! :) show confidence!!
yea dats smart dont kum off clingy most guys hate clingy but get a good txtn conversation goin 1 gud time and he'll jus start txtn u and facebook is gud but dont mix the both tho kuz dats jus overkill but if u txt him right and dont do dat 1 word answer and reply thing den you'll b fine and get 2 no him better
Facebook and texting are the best way to go. It gives him more time to think of answers and takes the pressure out of the conversation. Once you and he gain confidence, set up a date. You know what to do, you are doing well so far.
just casually talk to him when you get the chance..theres no need ot rush things...time will get you two to know each other better so just wait it out and talk when you get the chance..just dont seem desperate or anything and it should be fine..hope i helped, good luck!
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Txt him every week or every two weeks..dont be so quick to ';talk to him'; then he might say why haven't you this or why haven't you that then you'll know....and when you txt him talk about what you been talking about in the first place
Text him on accident.
Send something like, ';lol Yeah and he was pretty hot!'; When he replies, just say ';Oh, sorry that was meant for another friend! lol So wats up?'; :) It'll start a conversation, trust me, I do it all the time! X) lol
whats the point then if you won't get to see him?
just send him a nice text, see if he's responsive, if he is text him back right away don't play games and since you barely know the guy theres nothing to lose. if he;s not responsive just drop it...
Clearly the best way is to talk to him and get him more interested is face to face but otherwise, you know what you're doing.
this worked for many of my friends
just text him only 2 times a day or more but not more than 5 txts
txting him a couple of times makes u sound mysterious and he will want to find more about u so instead of u asking him to hang out or meet up he will ask u
If you like him then just talk to him like every day or you can play hard to get and wait for him to text you first. And if he likes you back there is no such thing as overtexting [=
You can't get to know someone via text. Conversations and being around the person is the absolute best way.
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just text him as much as you want if he didnt/doesnt like it he wont reply but what if you dont text enough? he'll think you dont like him
You will go through anguish unless you come right out %26amp; ask him, ';Hey, do want to meet for a coffee or something?';
just like start texting but make it casual flirty.
then ask to meet up.
its so much easier to get to know somebody when its in person
just text as much as u want. trust me if he thinks ur overtextin he wont text back.
see if he has a girl. and you should tell him exactly how you feel, if he doesn't.
call him or use msn and a webcam
lure him in and just do what feels right full confidence!!
iight now based on what happened he is either really into you, not into at all, or has mixed feelings and doesn't think much of the confrontation you guys had. if hes into you text him but see where he is at. i kno if i'm into a girl nd she texts me i'm going to be all over it but this kid might not be the sharpest tool in the box so he might let it go over his head. so dont take it like hes not into if he doesnt respond to you right away or what not he might be shy. just say hi to him from time to time. it doesnt even have to be like oh hi. try to start conversation if he goes for it then let fait do its work if he doesnt theres another 209503249489 guys out there for you. good luck.Need guy advice! Ten points for best answer!?
The best way is always face to face, if you can't do that, then talk on the phone. Text and facebook, myspace, IM, that is very non-personal. you won't make a connection. even over the phone its hard to really connect, but you can tell subtle things from the voice, whether he is smiling, nervous, or if he is really into you. But you need face time, otherwise he will think that you aren't serious and look elsewhere. Also make sure he wants to spend time with you, or talk, if he only wants to text, chances are, he is playing games.
Good luck i hope that helped.
i think facebook is your best bet because texting is a little too direct.
every time you text him he will probably get it right away and it may seem clingy or needy but if you talk to him on facebook you can
first of all express yourself more without being limited to 160 characters for example,
second of all show your personality because you can give full thoughts and details
and thirdly it will seem more casual for him to go on facebook and see ';oh! i have a message from _____'; as opposed to a texting him today ';hey whats up'; ...two days from now... ';hi what you doing?'; ....two days form now... ';hello how are you?'; you will have a continuous conversation on facebook whereas you cant in text messaging.
so if you cant talk to him in person which you should probably do then use facebook.
he probably didnt ask for your number because its easier for him to just save your number when you text him. no worries.
Well text him every dew days, then as you get closer text him more often. The guy wont care if you text him all the time if he somewhat likes you. If a guy gives you his number then he obviously wants to talk to you, and get to know you. Dont worry about over texting him. You will get to know him pretty quickly
Okay just text him every few days so you don't seem over-bearing. Once you start getting to know each other you can text him more. When you get home you can see about meeting him somewhere so you guys can talk in person. Then you can make sure he isn't just saying what he thinks you would like on texts!! I think the fact he gave you his number is good. Usually when they just take yours.... they don't call you T_T. I am done rambling. I hope I helped ^_^
I wouldn't read too far into this. He knows you aren't in town for the long term and so he is enjoying the flirting. Treat it like any other crush that will be over before you know it. Follow his cue on how often to txt. I think this whole thing is a little silly but I will give you a tip. Send him a txt (without being prompted by him) once a day unless you are busy. If you are busy, skip it. He will let you know how much he wants to communicate based on how often he replies. Don't be surprised if it ends as soon as you go back home.
Wait till he texts you, but if is like a couple of days and he still hasn't text you then just txt him to say hi and how his day was!!
After a while, say '; tell me about yourself, since we have been txting, i like to know a little about a person when i am txting them';
something like that then hopefully that will jump start a convo and you can learn more about each other!
i would text him and be like ';hey, do you wanna talk on the phone?'; or ';wanna play 20 questions';
20 questions is a great game to get to know someone and it doesnt seem like your stalking him or anything because you guys are both asking questions.
wow, this is a toughie.
i would text him even though you may feel like your over texting him.
guys like attention.
and chat w/ him on facebook whenever he's online.
since your only visiting another state, there isnt much you can do, but keep in contact like you are doing right now.
Ok look, the best way to chat with this guy, is to talk on the phone! show him you arent afraid of an akward silence. just do it trust me. he will see confidence and he will know that you definitely want to talk and that he has your attention. Trust me it will work! :) show confidence!!
yea dats smart dont kum off clingy most guys hate clingy but get a good txtn conversation goin 1 gud time and he'll jus start txtn u and facebook is gud but dont mix the both tho kuz dats jus overkill but if u txt him right and dont do dat 1 word answer and reply thing den you'll b fine and get 2 no him better
Facebook and texting are the best way to go. It gives him more time to think of answers and takes the pressure out of the conversation. Once you and he gain confidence, set up a date. You know what to do, you are doing well so far.
just casually talk to him when you get the chance..theres no need ot rush things...time will get you two to know each other better so just wait it out and talk when you get the chance..just dont seem desperate or anything and it should be fine..hope i helped, good luck!
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Txt him every week or every two weeks..dont be so quick to ';talk to him'; then he might say why haven't you this or why haven't you that then you'll know....and when you txt him talk about what you been talking about in the first place
Text him on accident.
Send something like, ';lol Yeah and he was pretty hot!'; When he replies, just say ';Oh, sorry that was meant for another friend! lol So wats up?'; :) It'll start a conversation, trust me, I do it all the time! X) lol
whats the point then if you won't get to see him?
just send him a nice text, see if he's responsive, if he is text him back right away don't play games and since you barely know the guy theres nothing to lose. if he;s not responsive just drop it...
Clearly the best way is to talk to him and get him more interested is face to face but otherwise, you know what you're doing.
this worked for many of my friends
just text him only 2 times a day or more but not more than 5 txts
txting him a couple of times makes u sound mysterious and he will want to find more about u so instead of u asking him to hang out or meet up he will ask u
If you like him then just talk to him like every day or you can play hard to get and wait for him to text you first. And if he likes you back there is no such thing as overtexting [=
You can't get to know someone via text. Conversations and being around the person is the absolute best way.
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just text him as much as you want if he didnt/doesnt like it he wont reply but what if you dont text enough? he'll think you dont like him
You will go through anguish unless you come right out %26amp; ask him, ';Hey, do want to meet for a coffee or something?';
just like start texting but make it casual flirty.
then ask to meet up.
its so much easier to get to know somebody when its in person
just text as much as u want. trust me if he thinks ur overtextin he wont text back.
see if he has a girl. and you should tell him exactly how you feel, if he doesn't.
call him or use msn and a webcam
lure him in and just do what feels right full confidence!!
Need ur advice 10 points to best answer....?
ok so my gf n i have been going steady for 4 months now n were started to step up the relationship(kisisng with toungs etc) anyway her step brother hates me..idk why..she says hes jealous(were all the same age 14-15) but every time we go out he comes with us like if were alone in a room he just barjes in and if i tell him to give her a note or some candy (they have the same homeroom) he just throws it away or eats it cuz my gf says she never got it so today was the final straw its r 4 month anniversery and were at the park making out in the spot only me n her know n he follows us up there i was so mad i just screamed at him but instead of him leaving alone he grabbed my gfs arm n said we dont wanna see u anymore n he grabs my gf and storms off so now i try to call her n he always answers n hangs up on me and when i come over he answers the door n turns me away so i cant even talk to her parents about him...plz help i dont wanna lose my 1 true luv....Need ur advice 10 points to best answer....?
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woow...ithink if he's not leaving you alone at all either yu shud tell your gf to talk 2 her parents OR you should talk to them WHEN he's at school.dont give up though kuz then your letting HIM win and your gona ruin a relationship that[apperently]]you dont wana lose.good luck! =]
dude go talk to him!!! ask him why he hates you so much, and tell him that he can't make all of his sisters decisions for her anymore...
kill him then urselfNeed ur advice 10 points to best answer....?
woow...ithink if he's not leaving you alone at all either yu shud tell your gf to talk 2 her parents OR you should talk to them WHEN he's at school.dont give up though kuz then your letting HIM win and your gona ruin a relationship that[apperently]]you dont wana lose.good luck! =]
dude go talk to him!!! ask him why he hates you so much, and tell him that he can't make all of his sisters decisions for her anymore...
I am losing my best friend. Any help or advice?
have known my best friend(girl) for 2 years (Guy). We used to do everything together and were so close. We used to walk to college, sit together, eat lunch together, do things in the evenings, call and text each other. Recently she has started seeing this new boyfriend who she has liked for ages, and been telling me about it even before they got together.
Now they are together. We hardly do anything together now. Because all the things we used to do they now do together. And if I ever want to meet up with her she brings her boyfriend along. Whenever I phone her, her boyfriend is now talking in the background. She hardly ever texts or phones me now.
She has told me that our relationship is changing but it won't affect the friendship. Whenever I tell her how I feel she just starts arguing with me, or the boyfriend gets angry as well, and they think I am acting strange.I am angry and jealous, and really miss her.
Have I lost her. Any advice before its too late??I am losing my best friend. Any help or advice?
this is probably trickier than if it were 2 girl friends. from her point of view, she is maybe worried that her boyfriend will view you as a ';threat'; because you are male and he might interpret your feelings of exclusion as ';romantic feelings'; for his girlfriend, so she tries to back off from you to make her man feel more secure.
i would suggest that you try and get to know the boyfriend a bit better, after all, he sees good qualities in your friend that you probably possess too, and you have her in common too, so you can start a friendship based on that. make it clear to him that you just miss your friend and aren't trying to intrude on their time together.
when friends initially start up a relationship, it is common, tho unfair, for friends to have to take a backseat for a while, it is nothing personal and try not to let it affect you too much or you will act differently with your friend because you are angry, but she will be unaware of how you are feeling, so won't know why you are acting annoyed.
I'm sure things will return to some sort of normal for you soon, in the meantime, spend some time with other friends too.
goodluck. xI am losing my best friend. Any help or advice?
she means alot to u. well just look at it this way.
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MAYBE SHE LOVES HER BOYFRIEND MORE. I MEAN THEYLL BREAK UP...IM ALMOST FOR SURE. BUT IF SHES LETTING HIM TELL U STUFF LIKE THAT THEN SHES NOT WORTH IT. THIS IS WHY PPL SHOULDNT JUST HANG OUT WITH ONE PERSON. GET SOME MORE FRIENDS. SOONER OR LATER YOU'LL REALIZE SHE WASNT A GOOD ENOUGH FRIEND. AND SOONER OR LATER SHE'LL REALISE SHE WASNT A GOOD ENOUGH FRIEND TO LET A BOY COME BETWEEN A FRIEND SHIP. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
It sounds like she is happy with her boyfriend and you should be happy for her. Just put yourself in her shoes, if you got a boyfriend you may be the same way. You should ask her if you guys can have a day together once a week to hang out with out the boyfriend, that way her boyfriend can spend some time with his friends which I know he misses and she can spend some time with you. Don't be jealous, be happy for her, pretty soon the love of your life will come along and you won't have too much time for he either. Things will be just fine girl, keep your head up! Friends are forever, so if she is a true friend, you havn't lost her at all!
One of these days we all find someone and the friend relationship always takes a back seat to the boyfriend. IT is a part of growing up and starting families. This doesn't mean that you have to lose your friendship it just means it is going to change a bit. Just remember if you need anything she will be there and be there for her if she need something. If you are a good friend you will back off and let her have her time with her new man. One of these days you'll go through the same thing.
yes you have lost her. let her go and get your own life. if she is your friend she will get back with you. but for now let her mis you
I'm going through the same thing with a friend of 17 years. She just got married and since she met the dude last year our relationship has changed. Because she has continuously broken meetings to talk with me...I sent her a 2 page email expressing myself and I am DONE with it. I love her and I miss our time together but she is showing her true colors and I am moving on. If and when this relationships ends...she and I will NEVER be as we were because I do not trust her anymore in that way. I am a super duper friend and quite frankly it is HER lost. I say f' it....f' her and move on...as I am doing.
She probably turned gay and now hates your guts. Get a sex change operation and then offer her to go shopping or watch soap operas. I hope this works for you.
i am not sure!! you have not lost her totaly you should never choose men over your best m8s ..i dont have a best m8..you need to try and get her on her own without the boyfriend she is all loved up nothing lasts 4ever ..dont worry her loss..
As a friend she will be there always but with time you have feelings too for her now but if you take her as a friend and want her to be happy you have to let her go where she wants with bf . Because she is having her life now and you too look for a girl , if you don;t have feelings for her or want her as your bf .
Time changes everything .
Now they are together. We hardly do anything together now. Because all the things we used to do they now do together. And if I ever want to meet up with her she brings her boyfriend along. Whenever I phone her, her boyfriend is now talking in the background. She hardly ever texts or phones me now.
She has told me that our relationship is changing but it won't affect the friendship. Whenever I tell her how I feel she just starts arguing with me, or the boyfriend gets angry as well, and they think I am acting strange.I am angry and jealous, and really miss her.
Have I lost her. Any advice before its too late??I am losing my best friend. Any help or advice?
this is probably trickier than if it were 2 girl friends. from her point of view, she is maybe worried that her boyfriend will view you as a ';threat'; because you are male and he might interpret your feelings of exclusion as ';romantic feelings'; for his girlfriend, so she tries to back off from you to make her man feel more secure.
i would suggest that you try and get to know the boyfriend a bit better, after all, he sees good qualities in your friend that you probably possess too, and you have her in common too, so you can start a friendship based on that. make it clear to him that you just miss your friend and aren't trying to intrude on their time together.
when friends initially start up a relationship, it is common, tho unfair, for friends to have to take a backseat for a while, it is nothing personal and try not to let it affect you too much or you will act differently with your friend because you are angry, but she will be unaware of how you are feeling, so won't know why you are acting annoyed.
I'm sure things will return to some sort of normal for you soon, in the meantime, spend some time with other friends too.
goodluck. xI am losing my best friend. Any help or advice?
she means alot to u. well just look at it this way.
ONLY READ THIS IF UR TOUGH ENOUGH TO TAKE IT
MAYBE SHE LOVES HER BOYFRIEND MORE. I MEAN THEYLL BREAK UP...IM ALMOST FOR SURE. BUT IF SHES LETTING HIM TELL U STUFF LIKE THAT THEN SHES NOT WORTH IT. THIS IS WHY PPL SHOULDNT JUST HANG OUT WITH ONE PERSON. GET SOME MORE FRIENDS. SOONER OR LATER YOU'LL REALIZE SHE WASNT A GOOD ENOUGH FRIEND. AND SOONER OR LATER SHE'LL REALISE SHE WASNT A GOOD ENOUGH FRIEND TO LET A BOY COME BETWEEN A FRIEND SHIP. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
It sounds like she is happy with her boyfriend and you should be happy for her. Just put yourself in her shoes, if you got a boyfriend you may be the same way. You should ask her if you guys can have a day together once a week to hang out with out the boyfriend, that way her boyfriend can spend some time with his friends which I know he misses and she can spend some time with you. Don't be jealous, be happy for her, pretty soon the love of your life will come along and you won't have too much time for he either. Things will be just fine girl, keep your head up! Friends are forever, so if she is a true friend, you havn't lost her at all!
One of these days we all find someone and the friend relationship always takes a back seat to the boyfriend. IT is a part of growing up and starting families. This doesn't mean that you have to lose your friendship it just means it is going to change a bit. Just remember if you need anything she will be there and be there for her if she need something. If you are a good friend you will back off and let her have her time with her new man. One of these days you'll go through the same thing.
yes you have lost her. let her go and get your own life. if she is your friend she will get back with you. but for now let her mis you
I'm going through the same thing with a friend of 17 years. She just got married and since she met the dude last year our relationship has changed. Because she has continuously broken meetings to talk with me...I sent her a 2 page email expressing myself and I am DONE with it. I love her and I miss our time together but she is showing her true colors and I am moving on. If and when this relationships ends...she and I will NEVER be as we were because I do not trust her anymore in that way. I am a super duper friend and quite frankly it is HER lost. I say f' it....f' her and move on...as I am doing.
She probably turned gay and now hates your guts. Get a sex change operation and then offer her to go shopping or watch soap operas. I hope this works for you.
i am not sure!! you have not lost her totaly you should never choose men over your best m8s ..i dont have a best m8..you need to try and get her on her own without the boyfriend she is all loved up nothing lasts 4ever ..dont worry her loss..
As a friend she will be there always but with time you have feelings too for her now but if you take her as a friend and want her to be happy you have to let her go where she wants with bf . Because she is having her life now and you too look for a girl , if you don;t have feelings for her or want her as your bf .
Time changes everything .
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Okay so I like this guy, and my best friend likes another guy, so i am going to ask the guy my friend likes out for her and she is going to ask the guy i like out for me. my 1st question is: do you think that having a friend asking my crush out is weird or anything? and do you think it seems too desperate for a girl to ask a guy out?
also, our school dance is on friday, and if we go together, we will have to slow dance. How the heck do you slow dance? I have no idea.
Thanks in advance!!!Need help/advice? 10 pts to best answer?
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Personally i think it would be best if YOU asked out a the guy for yourself...but, you can choose whatever you want! :) But no it does not seem desperate at all to ask a guy out!! this is 2009 not 1909! Good luck! If you know the guy you like very well, and have been friends for a long time, and you feel comfortable doing this just wrap both of your arms back around his neck and let him put his arms around your waist (watch the hand though!) If you don't know him that well or don't feel comfortable enough to do that then just have one of his hands in your hand and the your other hand on his shoulder (LOOSELY! DONT HAVE A DEATH GRIP!!!!) and then his other hand will be on your waist. Best of luck!Need help/advice? 10 pts to best answer?
In the adult world it is seen as odd to get your friend to ask a guy out lol, but at school its the usual thing that is done and I guess its the best way if you are too shy to ask him yourself.
Its not desperate asking a guy out why should they do all the work plus if you don't ask you will never know.
As for dancing slow, just hold each others hands and sway to the side to start off with then when you get more comfortable try putting your arm round him a bit.
Good luck :)
You should ask the guy you like yourself. It will be really confusing to the guy to have your friend ask for you. He won't be sure if it's true or what. Just go ask him if he's going to the dance Friday night? Then listen. He may ask if you are going? Then say something like...I'm not sure but I was hoping you were going. Let your friend do the same. Keep in mind that one or both may say no.
practise the slow dancing with your friend,but go with the friends asking if your too shy but what happens if 1 gets a no.mmmm cheerswholesale cosmetics remove blackheads
also, our school dance is on friday, and if we go together, we will have to slow dance. How the heck do you slow dance? I have no idea.
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Hey-
Personally i think it would be best if YOU asked out a the guy for yourself...but, you can choose whatever you want! :) But no it does not seem desperate at all to ask a guy out!! this is 2009 not 1909! Good luck! If you know the guy you like very well, and have been friends for a long time, and you feel comfortable doing this just wrap both of your arms back around his neck and let him put his arms around your waist (watch the hand though!) If you don't know him that well or don't feel comfortable enough to do that then just have one of his hands in your hand and the your other hand on his shoulder (LOOSELY! DONT HAVE A DEATH GRIP!!!!) and then his other hand will be on your waist. Best of luck!Need help/advice? 10 pts to best answer?
In the adult world it is seen as odd to get your friend to ask a guy out lol, but at school its the usual thing that is done and I guess its the best way if you are too shy to ask him yourself.
Its not desperate asking a guy out why should they do all the work plus if you don't ask you will never know.
As for dancing slow, just hold each others hands and sway to the side to start off with then when you get more comfortable try putting your arm round him a bit.
Good luck :)
You should ask the guy you like yourself. It will be really confusing to the guy to have your friend ask for you. He won't be sure if it's true or what. Just go ask him if he's going to the dance Friday night? Then listen. He may ask if you are going? Then say something like...I'm not sure but I was hoping you were going. Let your friend do the same. Keep in mind that one or both may say no.
practise the slow dancing with your friend,but go with the friends asking if your too shy but what happens if 1 gets a no.mmmm cheers
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I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
well .. she is with someone, and she most likely likes that person. first, determine whether ur feelings for her is a crush or if they are true feelings. crushes blow over, but true feelings aren't so easy to get rid of. if its true feelings, then stay close to her, become friends, and let her know that she can trust you. don't let her know that in anyway that you are hoping that her and her senior bf breaks up. by letting her know that you can trust her, she'll come to you if anything happens. let her know that if she's ready to speak you'll listen. otherwise, stay close and be a good friend :]
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omg that same thing happened to me =( im so soryy
it sucks doesnt it =(
well you can try talking to her and making more not so obvious moves on her to try and get her to like you more and see that maybe you are the better choice because you are more age compatible
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
well .. she is with someone, and she most likely likes that person. first, determine whether ur feelings for her is a crush or if they are true feelings. crushes blow over, but true feelings aren't so easy to get rid of. if its true feelings, then stay close to her, become friends, and let her know that she can trust you. don't let her know that in anyway that you are hoping that her and her senior bf breaks up. by letting her know that you can trust her, she'll come to you if anything happens. let her know that if she's ready to speak you'll listen. otherwise, stay close and be a good friend :]
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omg that same thing happened to me =( im so soryy
it sucks doesnt it =(
well you can try talking to her and making more not so obvious moves on her to try and get her to like you more and see that maybe you are the better choice because you are more age compatible
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I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I was once in the same situation. It was also my junior year and i fell in love with a senior he was in love with this girl. I was devastated when I heard him tell me he was going out with the girl of his dreams. Soon they graduated and I never heard from him.I then found someone else who won my heart and broke up before graduating and a year later i got a call from the guy who had the girl of his dreams and invited me to a basketball game. We have been together for three years now. My advice to you is there could be many reason they could brake up and you shouldn't dwell on something that's already taken. I'm sure there are lots of interesting girls in your school, keep your mind open.If its meant to be she'll come to you.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Yes, get to know her, but keep your distance some so the guy doesn't shoo you off. If you can get to know her to see if you too are compatible as friends you'll know if the relationship can advance. When he goes off to college they will likely break up (most couples like this do) and if you still feel the same you can ask her out then and already know her well.
Thts a tough one but i would have to say.. you should never give up... chances are that he is goin to leave her when he goes for college but you never can tell. i know from personal experience when my Bf left for college he dumped me.. i was hurt.. she will be too.. so be as comforting as you can... if it is meant to be it will happen . have faith and dont give up!!
Hope it helped
Good Luck!!
hey vman.. be her friend if u can handle her tlk'n about her boyfriend and who knows.. but if your the jealous type dont get 2 close as it might b hard on ya... girls like older guy,s generally so they might not brake up,what u could do is find out what type of character this guy is and that might let ya know where u stand a bit better...
keep trying man. as long as you stay connected and dont let her forget that your there too then you have a chance. you might want to tell her how you feel so she knows. maybe she likes you too. just be mature women like that. dont let yourself get stuck in the friend zone. its hard to break out of that.
i think you should keep getting to know her so that if they do happen to break up, you will be there. Just dont rush things with her or she'll feel weird around you. Just be there for her and ask her questions about herself, AS FRIENDS!!!
Yeah, you should obviously get to know her so that when they break up (long distance relationships don't work.) you can be there for her.
i think if you should let them be together and when they break up try to be there for her and tell her how u feel u might when her heart like that ......
: ] good luck ......
depends..
its a 50-50 chance they might break up next year because he is going to college!
i mean she might dumb him because she cant see him everyday, or they might stay together..i really can't tell you..
but ya you can still talk to her and get to know her better!..
Unless it hurts to much. then just ignore her!
Its all up to you..can you handle hanging out with her as a friend only? if so then ya get to know her more and get closer!!
hope this helps
you said you feel like you make a connection...that obviously means something. I can't see her relationship lasting after her boyfriend goes to college, personally - if they don't break up for that reason, then they probably will for some other reason. Keep talking to her - be there for her, and hopefully she'll being to open up to you. Get closer to her, you sound like a decent ans respectful guy who would treat her well...you just have to make her realise that.
Good luck, and don't give up. Just be there for her and be patient, and things will fall in place.
well,
think about it seriously i know i have made big mistakes before i have lost a friendship with a boy i liked because i wanted too much. Maybe you were just meant to be friends but if yu really really do want more here are some ideas...
1.you could get reallly close to her hugs etc.
2. Let her know your into her, here is a good way how too, text her
hey ';name of your mate here'; i saw ';name of crush'; down the park she was looking fit. so you can send this text to her ';accedently';
3. See how she reacts it can go one way or another
4. go up to her and complement her then juz walk away example
hair is looking peng todaii oh best be off bye
these tips don't have to be in order ;D
hope these have helped
You don't want to be responsible for them breaking up but If you really care about her then you won't but in. It really sucks the only thing you can do is let her be and just hope that she's happy and he's treating her right. Now it's not wrong to acknowledge her and try to make friends with her but if it's going to be hard to handle, then just leave it for now and hope they break up lol. Best thing you can do bro. I feel for you though but just leave it for now... Because if anything you'll just be waiting to sweep her off her feet when the time is right.
Okay pal looks like u need help bud.
1. Talk to her as much as possible tell her that she is a really pretty girl. Girls luv to here stuff like that. Talk about stuff she likes.
2. buy here some flowers if u can and want to if u like her enough and definatly buy her some chocolate u know girls got to have our chocolate hahah
3. bump into her and ask her out to see a movie together or go do something without her boyfriend. make sure her boyfriend doesnt know about it though or else.
4.Have a party invite her over.
5. dont talk to her in a few days even though u really want to that will make her want to talk more like where have u been or something else. that will do the trick that happened to me before. That will grab her attention
This is a tough situation man. I'm in the same boat as you and I know how it feels. Sometimes you just have to move on, even though it feels like you will never find a girl like that again, but I promise you will find another. But for your question, theres a decent chance they can break up by than, and they might even break up in a week, you never know. They prolly don't know each other that well anyways because they jsut started dating. If I were you, I would continue being friends with her, and try to get closer and closer. But just try not to get yourself too emotionally attached because she's with someone else. Overall, its a tough situation. And should be up to you.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I was once in the same situation. It was also my junior year and i fell in love with a senior he was in love with this girl. I was devastated when I heard him tell me he was going out with the girl of his dreams. Soon they graduated and I never heard from him.I then found someone else who won my heart and broke up before graduating and a year later i got a call from the guy who had the girl of his dreams and invited me to a basketball game. We have been together for three years now. My advice to you is there could be many reason they could brake up and you shouldn't dwell on something that's already taken. I'm sure there are lots of interesting girls in your school, keep your mind open.If its meant to be she'll come to you.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Yes, get to know her, but keep your distance some so the guy doesn't shoo you off. If you can get to know her to see if you too are compatible as friends you'll know if the relationship can advance. When he goes off to college they will likely break up (most couples like this do) and if you still feel the same you can ask her out then and already know her well.
Thts a tough one but i would have to say.. you should never give up... chances are that he is goin to leave her when he goes for college but you never can tell. i know from personal experience when my Bf left for college he dumped me.. i was hurt.. she will be too.. so be as comforting as you can... if it is meant to be it will happen . have faith and dont give up!!
Hope it helped
Good Luck!!
hey vman.. be her friend if u can handle her tlk'n about her boyfriend and who knows.. but if your the jealous type dont get 2 close as it might b hard on ya... girls like older guy,s generally so they might not brake up,what u could do is find out what type of character this guy is and that might let ya know where u stand a bit better...
keep trying man. as long as you stay connected and dont let her forget that your there too then you have a chance. you might want to tell her how you feel so she knows. maybe she likes you too. just be mature women like that. dont let yourself get stuck in the friend zone. its hard to break out of that.
i think you should keep getting to know her so that if they do happen to break up, you will be there. Just dont rush things with her or she'll feel weird around you. Just be there for her and ask her questions about herself, AS FRIENDS!!!
Yeah, you should obviously get to know her so that when they break up (long distance relationships don't work.) you can be there for her.
i think if you should let them be together and when they break up try to be there for her and tell her how u feel u might when her heart like that ......
: ] good luck ......
depends..
its a 50-50 chance they might break up next year because he is going to college!
i mean she might dumb him because she cant see him everyday, or they might stay together..i really can't tell you..
but ya you can still talk to her and get to know her better!..
Unless it hurts to much. then just ignore her!
Its all up to you..can you handle hanging out with her as a friend only? if so then ya get to know her more and get closer!!
hope this helps
you said you feel like you make a connection...that obviously means something. I can't see her relationship lasting after her boyfriend goes to college, personally - if they don't break up for that reason, then they probably will for some other reason. Keep talking to her - be there for her, and hopefully she'll being to open up to you. Get closer to her, you sound like a decent ans respectful guy who would treat her well...you just have to make her realise that.
Good luck, and don't give up. Just be there for her and be patient, and things will fall in place.
well,
think about it seriously i know i have made big mistakes before i have lost a friendship with a boy i liked because i wanted too much. Maybe you were just meant to be friends but if yu really really do want more here are some ideas...
1.you could get reallly close to her hugs etc.
2. Let her know your into her, here is a good way how too, text her
hey ';name of your mate here'; i saw ';name of crush'; down the park she was looking fit. so you can send this text to her ';accedently';
3. See how she reacts it can go one way or another
4. go up to her and complement her then juz walk away example
hair is looking peng todaii oh best be off bye
these tips don't have to be in order ;D
hope these have helped
You don't want to be responsible for them breaking up but If you really care about her then you won't but in. It really sucks the only thing you can do is let her be and just hope that she's happy and he's treating her right. Now it's not wrong to acknowledge her and try to make friends with her but if it's going to be hard to handle, then just leave it for now and hope they break up lol. Best thing you can do bro. I feel for you though but just leave it for now... Because if anything you'll just be waiting to sweep her off her feet when the time is right.
Okay pal looks like u need help bud.
1. Talk to her as much as possible tell her that she is a really pretty girl. Girls luv to here stuff like that. Talk about stuff she likes.
2. buy here some flowers if u can and want to if u like her enough and definatly buy her some chocolate u know girls got to have our chocolate hahah
3. bump into her and ask her out to see a movie together or go do something without her boyfriend. make sure her boyfriend doesnt know about it though or else.
4.Have a party invite her over.
5. dont talk to her in a few days even though u really want to that will make her want to talk more like where have u been or something else. that will do the trick that happened to me before. That will grab her attention
This is a tough situation man. I'm in the same boat as you and I know how it feels. Sometimes you just have to move on, even though it feels like you will never find a girl like that again, but I promise you will find another. But for your question, theres a decent chance they can break up by than, and they might even break up in a week, you never know. They prolly don't know each other that well anyways because they jsut started dating. If I were you, I would continue being friends with her, and try to get closer and closer. But just try not to get yourself too emotionally attached because she's with someone else. Overall, its a tough situation. And should be up to you.
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I started to notice this shy girl in middle school. She would look at me ALOT and our eyes would meet most of the time if she would look at me. She would even flirt with me sometimes so I began to like her. I told her I liked her and she tried to hide a smile when I told her. She told me to start out as friends, she said she would like to get to know me, and she would like to hang out with me. I've seen her smile at me a few times when I talk to her. We danced a slow song at a school dance but she asked me to dance. We've also hugged and taken a picture together. I'm going to high school with her now, but I'm not going to see her in the summer or stay in touch with her since she wasn鈥檛 aloud to give me her number and she doesn鈥檛 have an email.
Over the summer she changed a lot and matured, she got rid of most of her shyness. She鈥檚 been talking a lot to my friends in summer school though and sending them notes in class saying hi, one of my friends told me that one of the notes she gave them that asked if I still liked her.
I heard she was going to summer school, so I sent one of my friends to go tell her that I said hi, she put a pretty big smile after my friend told her that I said hi. Then my friend told her that I wanted to talk to her and she said ok.
I鈥檓 confused for some reason is she still interested in me and if I should give her my number?I need advice with this Girl!!Best Answer 10 points!!?
im pretty sure she still likes you. if she smiled and said she wanted to talk to you too im pretty sure that she likes you!I need advice with this Girl!!Best Answer 10 points!!?
if you like this girl and think you want to get to know her then you should give her your nuber. She seems to still be intrested in you so if you feel the same then go for it. I mean whats the worst that could happen?
Of course you should give her your number! if you don't, she'll think you don't like her anymore.
OMGAHHHD
shes DEFINANTLY INTRESTED IN U.
giv her ur numberrrr
yes, you should
it sounds to me like she is still interested
go for it!
good luck
She likes you, give her your number. :)
I bet she likes you!!
GIVE HER YOUR NUMBERRRR!!!
she obviously hasent forgotten about you and she wants to stay in touch!!
dont be shy:)
Well ,,,, The major mistake you are making here is that you are trying to talk to her through your friends ,,,, This is very childish and grade schoolish ,,,, If you want to talk to her then just talk to her yourself face to face ,,,,She's not going to eat your arm or bite your head off and she's certainly not going to kill you ,,,, She may not be allowed to give her number out so that obligates her to call you if she wants to ,,,, Ask her if she wants your number instead ,,,, If she calls you then that should tell you volumes about how she feels about you and you wouldn't have to use this silly go between system at all ,,,,
This is a situation between just you and her not you her and a friend ,,,, Your friend isn't the one trying to get next to her you are so grow up and don't use a friend to do it for you ,,,, //
Over the summer she changed a lot and matured, she got rid of most of her shyness. She鈥檚 been talking a lot to my friends in summer school though and sending them notes in class saying hi, one of my friends told me that one of the notes she gave them that asked if I still liked her.
I heard she was going to summer school, so I sent one of my friends to go tell her that I said hi, she put a pretty big smile after my friend told her that I said hi. Then my friend told her that I wanted to talk to her and she said ok.
I鈥檓 confused for some reason is she still interested in me and if I should give her my number?I need advice with this Girl!!Best Answer 10 points!!?
im pretty sure she still likes you. if she smiled and said she wanted to talk to you too im pretty sure that she likes you!I need advice with this Girl!!Best Answer 10 points!!?
if you like this girl and think you want to get to know her then you should give her your nuber. She seems to still be intrested in you so if you feel the same then go for it. I mean whats the worst that could happen?
Of course you should give her your number! if you don't, she'll think you don't like her anymore.
OMGAHHHD
shes DEFINANTLY INTRESTED IN U.
giv her ur numberrrr
yes, you should
it sounds to me like she is still interested
go for it!
good luck
She likes you, give her your number. :)
I bet she likes you!!
GIVE HER YOUR NUMBERRRR!!!
she obviously hasent forgotten about you and she wants to stay in touch!!
dont be shy:)
Well ,,,, The major mistake you are making here is that you are trying to talk to her through your friends ,,,, This is very childish and grade schoolish ,,,, If you want to talk to her then just talk to her yourself face to face ,,,,She's not going to eat your arm or bite your head off and she's certainly not going to kill you ,,,, She may not be allowed to give her number out so that obligates her to call you if she wants to ,,,, Ask her if she wants your number instead ,,,, If she calls you then that should tell you volumes about how she feels about you and you wouldn't have to use this silly go between system at all ,,,,
This is a situation between just you and her not you her and a friend ,,,, Your friend isn't the one trying to get next to her you are so grow up and don't use a friend to do it for you ,,,, //
I need advice to give my best friend...?
my best friend suspects his girlfriend is cheating on him. he tells me the she feels like she wants time apart(but not a break or break-up), just a little breathing room. also they weren't really having problems like this until she started hanging out with different people. he said: she wants space because she feels smothered and wants to miss him. but prior to this she told him that she wanted to flirt with other people(just flirt, nothing else). my friend tried to get involved with her and her new friends but she told him that she ddidn'twant him around because her ';new friends'; will be afraid to say ccertainthings when hes around. basically, things were o.k. with their relationship and all of a sudden, ever since she got these ';new friends';, she ddoesn'twant to be around him as much. also his ggirlfriendis trying her best to find friends for him so he'll have friends to hang out with while she hangs out with these new friends or hers. (by the way, she is also hanging out with her girlfriends who are mutual friends of her boyfriend and they dont want him around either, and these new friends of hers are ALL boys and at one point she used to like one of them and so did he... seems fishy to me.)
so what do u guys think? is she cheating or is she just feeling smothered? please take this seriously!I need advice to give my best friend...?
From another females point of view i think she's doing something she has no buisness doing because if she wasn't feeling smothered before these new friends came into the picture then thats no excuse now and the mutaul friends are no good because they shouldn't take sides.Furthermore if the friends can't say certain things while he's around then their all hiding something from him.I need advice to give my best friend...?
dude, she jst played u like a fool
if she is around a bunch of dudes, wats dat telling u?
she's seeing someone else
she didn't have the guts to tell u dat u n her are over
so what do u guys think? is she cheating or is she just feeling smothered? please take this seriously!I need advice to give my best friend...?
From another females point of view i think she's doing something she has no buisness doing because if she wasn't feeling smothered before these new friends came into the picture then thats no excuse now and the mutaul friends are no good because they shouldn't take sides.Furthermore if the friends can't say certain things while he's around then their all hiding something from him.I need advice to give my best friend...?
dude, she jst played u like a fool
if she is around a bunch of dudes, wats dat telling u?
she's seeing someone else
she didn't have the guts to tell u dat u n her are over
Help w/ advice to give my best friend about a boy...?
I don't know what to tell her, so I told her I'd post it here and see what came up. My best friend hooked up w/ a friend last November, they were casual friends before that (she later found out he used to like her a lot when he was involved). They continued to hook up (drunkenly) after that for a couple months, which of course, you guessed it, she started to have feelings for him but he wasn't expressing anything more. Then she started seeing someone and they stopped hooking up...Only to have him a couple weeks later run into him and him be like ';I f-ed up, I really like you.'; A couple months later, they ended up running into each other in a bar and feelings were confessed and you guessed it, they ended up with each other. She even called the guy out on not admitting soberly that he liked her and the next day he called her and confessed it all. Now he's cold again, barely any calls or texts...What gives? I have no idea what to tell her.Help w/ advice to give my best friend about a boy...?
Tell your best friend that she can still love someone and let them go. It may not be the case of whether of not she loves him, but her feelings could evolve to that. Actually, she just needs to (soberly) tell him (who should also be sober), how she truly feels. And if after some time, he doesnt come her way. THEN MOVE ON, . . . . No man is worth stressing over,cuz there are to many GOOD man that we are overlooking, because we go for the men that tend to OVERLOOK US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! amen my sista's and GOD-BLESSHelp w/ advice to give my best friend about a boy...?
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let it slide
she was just a bust for him
he doesnt/never liked her form what it seems
she needs to find a man to stick wit and not whore around
but uh yea tell her to let his broke a$s go he dont want her
advice is to stop hooking up with the guy who obviously is in it for the fun of hooking up, its called friends with benefits.
And the element is?
he barly calls and cold he is no not good
Let her make her choices and deal with the results.
Tell your best friend that she can still love someone and let them go. It may not be the case of whether of not she loves him, but her feelings could evolve to that. Actually, she just needs to (soberly) tell him (who should also be sober), how she truly feels. And if after some time, he doesnt come her way. THEN MOVE ON, . . . . No man is worth stressing over,cuz there are to many GOOD man that we are overlooking, because we go for the men that tend to OVERLOOK US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! amen my sista's and GOD-BLESSHelp w/ advice to give my best friend about a boy...?
Oh Thiis Sounds Liikee A Typiical Boy Lol
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Hopee ii Helped! x
let it slide
she was just a bust for him
he doesnt/never liked her form what it seems
she needs to find a man to stick wit and not whore around
but uh yea tell her to let his broke a$s go he dont want her
advice is to stop hooking up with the guy who obviously is in it for the fun of hooking up, its called friends with benefits.
And the element is?
he barly calls and cold he is no not good
Let her make her choices and deal with the results.
I need advice.i have a best friend and he has been married 24 yrs, but his wife has cheated on him on the past?
and ive always been there for him, until 2 months ago when we kissed'; no sex'; and we have fallen 4 eachother and he is willing to give up 24 yrs, a house, and today he asked me if he leaves his wife if i promise to love him Foreva..what do u think he is really feeling...I need advice.i have a best friend and he has been married 24 yrs, but his wife has cheated on him on the past?
I agree some others that it's a bad idea to jump into a big relationship with him. I wish you would have said how long you've been friends with him for and long ago he was cheated on.
If it was a recent cheating then he might either be getting back at his wife or just trying to fill the broken heart his wife created when she cheated on him. Then again it could be a mid-life crisis.
You should tell him that you love him and will love him forever, but before you can be in a serious relationship with him, he needs to leave his wife and get over the divorce. IF you don't do this, more than likely he'll stay with his wife or go back to his wife after you hook up with him. I would tread very carefully because any woman getting involved with a married man usually leads to heart break for that woman.I need advice.i have a best friend and he has been married 24 yrs, but his wife has cheated on him on the past?
I think he MAY be acting a little bit spontanious.
It sounds like he is unhappy, and you are the first experiance he has away from her, and happy. I would take it slow, and THINK about the situation... what if he finds out he made a mistake, and regrets it, what if it was just a momentary thing?
I would say keep doing what you are doing, and TRY not to focus on this, and see what happens in a month or so, maybe talk financially about it, and see if he is still intrested.what ever you do do NOT just jump into a marriage!
i think he is just in a bad situation. He is dealing with alot of emotions, and may have based his feelings on that. It seems as if though you may idenitfy with him and thats what he needs right now moral support. Take your time, dont anything that you will regret. Love is patient and kind
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I'm not clear on what his wife cheating has to do with this situation. Her indiscretion doesn't justify further indiscretions.
It sounds like he would like to start a new life with you. Relationships like this can work, but it will be tough for the first while. If you're prepared for that, then things could turn out nicely.
I wish you both the best.
ive been married 24 yrs
if he could dump her like that he can certainly do it to you
he's not a good bet for a marriage partner
[the wife cheating is probably b.s. it was him doing the cheating].
i would wait until he gets a divorce to make any plans, if she has cheated on him before, and he hasn't divorced her, what makes u think he will divorce her now.wholesale cosmetics remove blackheads
I agree some others that it's a bad idea to jump into a big relationship with him. I wish you would have said how long you've been friends with him for and long ago he was cheated on.
If it was a recent cheating then he might either be getting back at his wife or just trying to fill the broken heart his wife created when she cheated on him. Then again it could be a mid-life crisis.
You should tell him that you love him and will love him forever, but before you can be in a serious relationship with him, he needs to leave his wife and get over the divorce. IF you don't do this, more than likely he'll stay with his wife or go back to his wife after you hook up with him. I would tread very carefully because any woman getting involved with a married man usually leads to heart break for that woman.I need advice.i have a best friend and he has been married 24 yrs, but his wife has cheated on him on the past?
I think he MAY be acting a little bit spontanious.
It sounds like he is unhappy, and you are the first experiance he has away from her, and happy. I would take it slow, and THINK about the situation... what if he finds out he made a mistake, and regrets it, what if it was just a momentary thing?
I would say keep doing what you are doing, and TRY not to focus on this, and see what happens in a month or so, maybe talk financially about it, and see if he is still intrested.what ever you do do NOT just jump into a marriage!
i think he is just in a bad situation. He is dealing with alot of emotions, and may have based his feelings on that. It seems as if though you may idenitfy with him and thats what he needs right now moral support. Take your time, dont anything that you will regret. Love is patient and kind
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I'm not clear on what his wife cheating has to do with this situation. Her indiscretion doesn't justify further indiscretions.
It sounds like he would like to start a new life with you. Relationships like this can work, but it will be tough for the first while. If you're prepared for that, then things could turn out nicely.
I wish you both the best.
ive been married 24 yrs
if he could dump her like that he can certainly do it to you
he's not a good bet for a marriage partner
[the wife cheating is probably b.s. it was him doing the cheating].
i would wait until he gets a divorce to make any plans, if she has cheated on him before, and he hasn't divorced her, what makes u think he will divorce her now.
Need family advice!!! 10 points for best (serious) answer!?
ok, so this is how it goes and i know it is LONG so bear with me!!!
when i was 20 and had a big fight with my mum i got kicked out of home. we were really close when i was younger and i considered her my best friend but after the fight things changed. although our relationship slightly improved over the past 3 years i now no longer feel like im apart of the family. my younger sister is 19 and she always treat my mum like **** and last year she ended up MOVING out with her boyfriend who at the time she had been with for a month!!!
fast forward 7 months and now my sister is pregnant to the guy. anyway, they had a fight with his dad and got kicked out of the house and thats where i stepped in as the big sister to help take care of her and her soon to be family. 6 weeks after they moved in to my place my sister told me that they were moving back to mums place to live and raise the baby which i have no problem with.
my issue is that after all this time of being out of home my mum has come to see me maybe 10 times yet i have gone to see her hundreds of times and we only live 2 suburbs apart and she would never offer for me to come back home yet my sister gets a free pass to do as she pleases!!! i feel really frustrated and would like some real advice no how to cope with my feeling of being abandoned!Need family advice!!! 10 points for best (serious) answer!?
Ok this is a very touchy subject but I think I can help. My mom actually did abandon me and I tried so hard to have a relationship with her and then I realized that I wasn't the problem, she was. So I gave up. I made one last phone call when I turned 18 (right after I had my son) and told her that she had a grandson and that I was getting married but that I would no longer be contacting her. I was leaving the future of our relationship up to her. That was 9 years ago and she has never once tried to contact me. I have had the same number all these years and even though we move a lot (military) my sisters always have the address and will give it to her if she asked. My son has never met her and I have no regrets. It was all up to her and she made the decision. That is really the only thing that you can do and if she wants to be a part of your life than she will actually have to make the effort.Need family advice!!! 10 points for best (serious) answer!?
Maybe you didn't need an offer to come back home because you're not getting knocked up etc.? Sounds like you see her all the time so why assume you aren't welcome in their home now?
Seriously. The only way to fix this is sit down and TALK with her. Don't lie about any of your feelings. Let it just all flow through you...
I don't know if this helps so here it goes my husband is one of eight kids, he may of not had a best friend type relationship with his parents but he was very close to his siblings however the second to the youngest boy began to get into trouble a lot and my husbands mom stood up for him and more than one occasion, my husband never got the attention that his younger brother had. We came to the knowledge that the strong siblings are the ones that can survive while the one that have problems or issues get mommy's wing. It doesn't help to point it out because your question will never be answered, parents tend to show tough love with the siblings that can deal with it but then show a weaker side to the siblings that need the most help. I believe that your mom still has a special place for you in her heart and always will, First of all you need to look back at the fight you had and ask yourself what was said, what it was about and whether or not it is even an issue now, if you say you are slowly mending your relationship that's good, but now that your mom is taking your sister under her wing does not mean she is doing it because of anything you did I honestly believe that the weaker sibling is the one that needs your mom the most even if she doesn't see it that way. moms will always love their kids no matter what they do, and will be there when they fall.
You need to relax
About your mum not visiting, well that doesn't matter cos you live close and she counts on you to visit - that's how mum's are, they don't visit much, they expect you to visit them
About your sis getting asked to return to home, your mum probably thinks she doing you are favor - don't you want you independence? Why would you come back home anyway?
I think if you were now in a needy situation, I'm sure your mum would help you too, but thankfully you alright on your own, stop thinking negatively ok, Good luck :-)
the first answer is right, but if u don't feel right spilling the beans to her, then talk to your father or her spouse if he's not your dad. let her or him know how you feel and that you miss her. As far as i can tell, she still love you, a lot. She just knows you left and you are more independant than the rest and don't need her to watch over your shoulder so she gives you space. Meeting on your grounds (home) is (metaphoricly) treading on your personal way of living. She just doesn't know how to get back to the way things were. U left and are no longer as young or as child like as she wants to remember you. It's harder on the parents than it is on the children. We just don't know or see things throught their eyes cause we havn't gone through them ourselves.
The only thing you can do is sit down and talk to your mom. There are obviously still unresolved issues between you and your mom. The only one who you can really help you is her. Even if she denies it you still have real feelings and she is the only one who can help you.
Sit down and make a list of the things you want to say to her. Try to say it as kind and lovingly as you can, practice with a friend or your significant other. Family is so hard to deal with but ultimately it is really worth it. I hope this helps, if not try a family counselor. You can't change your family but you can change yourself or your reactions towards your family. Best of luck and my prayers go out to you.
Well, your sister gets to come back because she's pregnant. There is a little baby involved now and I'm sure your mom wouldn't feel very good about it if she knew your sister was running the streets with no place to go and pregnant. I would never go visit someone (even my mom) that many times without her coming to see me the same amount of times. I live in a different state from my mom and I know she'll never come and visit me,,, but when I lived just a block away from her, she never visited me, either so it didn't really matter. It bothers me, even now, but I have found happiness in the visitors that do come and see me, and I never offer for her to come over because I know she won't ,,, so whatever, her loss :)
when i was 20 and had a big fight with my mum i got kicked out of home. we were really close when i was younger and i considered her my best friend but after the fight things changed. although our relationship slightly improved over the past 3 years i now no longer feel like im apart of the family. my younger sister is 19 and she always treat my mum like **** and last year she ended up MOVING out with her boyfriend who at the time she had been with for a month!!!
fast forward 7 months and now my sister is pregnant to the guy. anyway, they had a fight with his dad and got kicked out of the house and thats where i stepped in as the big sister to help take care of her and her soon to be family. 6 weeks after they moved in to my place my sister told me that they were moving back to mums place to live and raise the baby which i have no problem with.
my issue is that after all this time of being out of home my mum has come to see me maybe 10 times yet i have gone to see her hundreds of times and we only live 2 suburbs apart and she would never offer for me to come back home yet my sister gets a free pass to do as she pleases!!! i feel really frustrated and would like some real advice no how to cope with my feeling of being abandoned!Need family advice!!! 10 points for best (serious) answer!?
Ok this is a very touchy subject but I think I can help. My mom actually did abandon me and I tried so hard to have a relationship with her and then I realized that I wasn't the problem, she was. So I gave up. I made one last phone call when I turned 18 (right after I had my son) and told her that she had a grandson and that I was getting married but that I would no longer be contacting her. I was leaving the future of our relationship up to her. That was 9 years ago and she has never once tried to contact me. I have had the same number all these years and even though we move a lot (military) my sisters always have the address and will give it to her if she asked. My son has never met her and I have no regrets. It was all up to her and she made the decision. That is really the only thing that you can do and if she wants to be a part of your life than she will actually have to make the effort.Need family advice!!! 10 points for best (serious) answer!?
Maybe you didn't need an offer to come back home because you're not getting knocked up etc.? Sounds like you see her all the time so why assume you aren't welcome in their home now?
Seriously. The only way to fix this is sit down and TALK with her. Don't lie about any of your feelings. Let it just all flow through you...
I don't know if this helps so here it goes my husband is one of eight kids, he may of not had a best friend type relationship with his parents but he was very close to his siblings however the second to the youngest boy began to get into trouble a lot and my husbands mom stood up for him and more than one occasion, my husband never got the attention that his younger brother had. We came to the knowledge that the strong siblings are the ones that can survive while the one that have problems or issues get mommy's wing. It doesn't help to point it out because your question will never be answered, parents tend to show tough love with the siblings that can deal with it but then show a weaker side to the siblings that need the most help. I believe that your mom still has a special place for you in her heart and always will, First of all you need to look back at the fight you had and ask yourself what was said, what it was about and whether or not it is even an issue now, if you say you are slowly mending your relationship that's good, but now that your mom is taking your sister under her wing does not mean she is doing it because of anything you did I honestly believe that the weaker sibling is the one that needs your mom the most even if she doesn't see it that way. moms will always love their kids no matter what they do, and will be there when they fall.
You need to relax
About your mum not visiting, well that doesn't matter cos you live close and she counts on you to visit - that's how mum's are, they don't visit much, they expect you to visit them
About your sis getting asked to return to home, your mum probably thinks she doing you are favor - don't you want you independence? Why would you come back home anyway?
I think if you were now in a needy situation, I'm sure your mum would help you too, but thankfully you alright on your own, stop thinking negatively ok, Good luck :-)
the first answer is right, but if u don't feel right spilling the beans to her, then talk to your father or her spouse if he's not your dad. let her or him know how you feel and that you miss her. As far as i can tell, she still love you, a lot. She just knows you left and you are more independant than the rest and don't need her to watch over your shoulder so she gives you space. Meeting on your grounds (home) is (metaphoricly) treading on your personal way of living. She just doesn't know how to get back to the way things were. U left and are no longer as young or as child like as she wants to remember you. It's harder on the parents than it is on the children. We just don't know or see things throught their eyes cause we havn't gone through them ourselves.
The only thing you can do is sit down and talk to your mom. There are obviously still unresolved issues between you and your mom. The only one who you can really help you is her. Even if she denies it you still have real feelings and she is the only one who can help you.
Sit down and make a list of the things you want to say to her. Try to say it as kind and lovingly as you can, practice with a friend or your significant other. Family is so hard to deal with but ultimately it is really worth it. I hope this helps, if not try a family counselor. You can't change your family but you can change yourself or your reactions towards your family. Best of luck and my prayers go out to you.
Well, your sister gets to come back because she's pregnant. There is a little baby involved now and I'm sure your mom wouldn't feel very good about it if she knew your sister was running the streets with no place to go and pregnant. I would never go visit someone (even my mom) that many times without her coming to see me the same amount of times. I live in a different state from my mom and I know she'll never come and visit me,,, but when I lived just a block away from her, she never visited me, either so it didn't really matter. It bothers me, even now, but I have found happiness in the visitors that do come and see me, and I never offer for her to come over because I know she won't ,,, so whatever, her loss :)
I need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
M and i dated a month ago for two weeks. Amazing two weeks, everything was perfect and it felt ment to be!. We both agree that it was amazing. One day out of the blue she broke up with me because she needed space. She was lost and confused. i think it had to do with her x.
Well a week ago we dated again, she said she was sure what she wanted and it was me. we talked and i kept asking her if she was sure of what she was doing, she said yes. So she met my family and even asked me out.
well she broke up with me today saying she couldnt sleep, that she is scared, and unsure and needs to find herself. Maybe her x again.
I dont know. I told her to call me in a bit to talk about this.
what if she comes back a third time, do i let her in?
play hard to get? i mean i really do want to be with her....
or do i just walk away....?
i feel as she wants what she cant have, and have what she doesnt want, meaning she wants me but when she has me she wants to throw me backI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
shes confused but she is also not considerate of your feeings if she is doing that. u deserve better man if she is trying find herself its something she needs to do on her own but if she wants back dont give in easy make her regain your trust tell your hurt and make aknowledge your feelings aswell the best thing to do right nw is get your life back show that you can be happy without herr and show her u knw who you are lve you man xxxxI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
You need to get her out of your life. She clearly is very confused about what is going on and is not very decisive. You need to spare your own feelings and move on from her especially when she says she is sure of what she is doing and clearly isn't.
Then it is not worth it. If someone is not sure 2 of 3 times that's a pretty high percentage for failure, move on with your life. Life is too short for games
Play hard to get. Make her want you. Then she'll stay.
Give her a hard time, she can't keep playing with your feelings.
Some girls really do ';want what they can't have'; and when they get it all of the sudden they can't fantasize anymore and its uninteresting.
-The Solution: if you think this is the problem, definitely go the extra mile to surprise her and excite her so that she doesn't get bored - for ex: put flowers on her porch and ring the doorbell one day. Or make her feel suspense before a kiss.
Some girls are afraid of commitment and once they get in a relationship, they become nervous, scared, or just weird.
-The Solution: talk to her about how you don't want to plan way ahead, you just want to enjoy each day with her - you aren't going to put her in a cage or get angry if she doesn't text you every hour. She needs to know that you are a lax guy and not some high-strung commitment freak (i'm not saying you are, but just let her know lol)
Some girls have ex-boyfriends who get in the way - ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for.
-The Solution: Ask her if there's an ex that is causing her to be so wishy-washy. If its a yes, talk to her about it and see if you can help her get over him. You may also ust have to be tough and tell her that its you or him.
I say giver her another chance - but talk to her about it. Good luck!
Well im sure that you know that your realationship is unhealthy for both of you. One minute she wants you and the next she dont, im sure that she is probally confused about you and her ex, how long between the two of you had it been before she started dating you? Is she still in love with her ex? Yes you may like her and want to be with her, but she may need some time to sort things out and to make sure that she makes the right choice so she does not end up hurting both you and herself.
Go ahead and talk to her, but make sure to be a bit distant so that she knows that you want her to make the right choice, sometimes good things take time, and this might be one of those situations where if you wait a bit, give her time, she will come around, and you will both be better for it.
Good luck
Well a week ago we dated again, she said she was sure what she wanted and it was me. we talked and i kept asking her if she was sure of what she was doing, she said yes. So she met my family and even asked me out.
well she broke up with me today saying she couldnt sleep, that she is scared, and unsure and needs to find herself. Maybe her x again.
I dont know. I told her to call me in a bit to talk about this.
what if she comes back a third time, do i let her in?
play hard to get? i mean i really do want to be with her....
or do i just walk away....?
i feel as she wants what she cant have, and have what she doesnt want, meaning she wants me but when she has me she wants to throw me backI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
shes confused but she is also not considerate of your feeings if she is doing that. u deserve better man if she is trying find herself its something she needs to do on her own but if she wants back dont give in easy make her regain your trust tell your hurt and make aknowledge your feelings aswell the best thing to do right nw is get your life back show that you can be happy without herr and show her u knw who you are lve you man xxxxI need advice to make the best next move! What do you do when someone comes in and out of your life?
You need to get her out of your life. She clearly is very confused about what is going on and is not very decisive. You need to spare your own feelings and move on from her especially when she says she is sure of what she is doing and clearly isn't.
Then it is not worth it. If someone is not sure 2 of 3 times that's a pretty high percentage for failure, move on with your life. Life is too short for games
Play hard to get. Make her want you. Then she'll stay.
Give her a hard time, she can't keep playing with your feelings.
Some girls really do ';want what they can't have'; and when they get it all of the sudden they can't fantasize anymore and its uninteresting.
-The Solution: if you think this is the problem, definitely go the extra mile to surprise her and excite her so that she doesn't get bored - for ex: put flowers on her porch and ring the doorbell one day. Or make her feel suspense before a kiss.
Some girls are afraid of commitment and once they get in a relationship, they become nervous, scared, or just weird.
-The Solution: talk to her about how you don't want to plan way ahead, you just want to enjoy each day with her - you aren't going to put her in a cage or get angry if she doesn't text you every hour. She needs to know that you are a lax guy and not some high-strung commitment freak (i'm not saying you are, but just let her know lol)
Some girls have ex-boyfriends who get in the way - ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for.
-The Solution: Ask her if there's an ex that is causing her to be so wishy-washy. If its a yes, talk to her about it and see if you can help her get over him. You may also ust have to be tough and tell her that its you or him.
I say giver her another chance - but talk to her about it. Good luck!
Well im sure that you know that your realationship is unhealthy for both of you. One minute she wants you and the next she dont, im sure that she is probally confused about you and her ex, how long between the two of you had it been before she started dating you? Is she still in love with her ex? Yes you may like her and want to be with her, but she may need some time to sort things out and to make sure that she makes the right choice so she does not end up hurting both you and herself.
Go ahead and talk to her, but make sure to be a bit distant so that she knows that you want her to make the right choice, sometimes good things take time, and this might be one of those situations where if you wait a bit, give her time, she will come around, and you will both be better for it.
Good luck
Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I'm sure she likes you :)
And as for that guy, what guy in college is going to stay with a 15 year old? For one, it's illegal, and two college guys like older girls. They'll break up soon enough. Keep talking to her, take her out for lunch some day and hey maybe she'll dump him for you :) I really think she likes you.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
You truly care about her? Then yes, hang out with her. Get to know her outside of class. Don't try to make yourself the fall-back guy if she breaks up with her current man friend. If you do truly care about her, then you will do best by having a great relationship with her be it a serious romance or a great friendship. Don't fret the little things, man. There's still a lot of growing up for both of you to do.
i think you should still remain friends with her but don't get too close because she might tell her boyfriend that or he might just notice it.
even though he is going into college it doesnt mean you can get right back in there because his friends might still go to the school and plus he's near your school so that just makes it worse.
my friend's in junior and her boyfriend's left school and they are stil together.. they have been for 3 years
babes
i think what youve got to do atm is get yourself another girlfriend and get back out in the game , join clubs and have funn!
if you and this girl are meant to be youll one day end up happily married with kids :)
it highschool , dont forget
email me with any other question about this (im a girl , i know what boys like) babzhappy@yahoo.co.uk
a lot of girls that have boyfriends tend to flirt with other guys. they do this so they know if they were ever to break up with there boyfriend there are still other guys out there that will want her. its just a self esteem all girls do it at one point or another
awwww!
yeah you guys should hang out...just as friends and see how it goes from there. trust me if you guys r ment to be together than everything will work out.
ya it would be a good idea!! sooner or later she's gunna break up with this guy and if you 2 are close, she'll come to you for help
yeah hang just as friends and it could grow or blossom into something more
I know how you feel, but don't feel hopeless. Just because she is into someone right now doesn't mean that she will always be into him. I think you should keep talking to her. If you both enjoy each other's company, then your relationship will just get stronger, and she may even realize that you are the right guy for her. As long as you don't do anything to sabotage their relationship or even yours, it should be fine. They might even end up breaking up because it will be harder for them to stay together when he has to go to college, and it sounds like she likes you, or is at least starting to. Talk to her while getting to know her and continue to be friends with her and spend time with her if you truly like her. Be there for her and make sure she knows that you are there for her, no matter what, but give her room to breathe. If you are meant to be with her, then things may just change. I hope everything works out for you!
awll :)
i have never seen a guy so sensitive and caring about a girl.
she is lucky to have you.
just be there for her.. but dont get to close. cuz it can sometimes get annoying. cuz guys do that to me.
oh and try not to make the Boyfriend jealous, hell prolly try to beat the **** out of you.
just dont smother her with your presence. just let her know you are there...and express your feelings to her. i love a guy that always tells me how he feels.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I'm sure she likes you :)
And as for that guy, what guy in college is going to stay with a 15 year old? For one, it's illegal, and two college guys like older girls. They'll break up soon enough. Keep talking to her, take her out for lunch some day and hey maybe she'll dump him for you :) I really think she likes you.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
You truly care about her? Then yes, hang out with her. Get to know her outside of class. Don't try to make yourself the fall-back guy if she breaks up with her current man friend. If you do truly care about her, then you will do best by having a great relationship with her be it a serious romance or a great friendship. Don't fret the little things, man. There's still a lot of growing up for both of you to do.
i think you should still remain friends with her but don't get too close because she might tell her boyfriend that or he might just notice it.
even though he is going into college it doesnt mean you can get right back in there because his friends might still go to the school and plus he's near your school so that just makes it worse.
my friend's in junior and her boyfriend's left school and they are stil together.. they have been for 3 years
babes
i think what youve got to do atm is get yourself another girlfriend and get back out in the game , join clubs and have funn!
if you and this girl are meant to be youll one day end up happily married with kids :)
it highschool , dont forget
email me with any other question about this (im a girl , i know what boys like) babzhappy@yahoo.co.uk
a lot of girls that have boyfriends tend to flirt with other guys. they do this so they know if they were ever to break up with there boyfriend there are still other guys out there that will want her. its just a self esteem all girls do it at one point or another
awwww!
yeah you guys should hang out...just as friends and see how it goes from there. trust me if you guys r ment to be together than everything will work out.
ya it would be a good idea!! sooner or later she's gunna break up with this guy and if you 2 are close, she'll come to you for help
yeah hang just as friends and it could grow or blossom into something more
I know how you feel, but don't feel hopeless. Just because she is into someone right now doesn't mean that she will always be into him. I think you should keep talking to her. If you both enjoy each other's company, then your relationship will just get stronger, and she may even realize that you are the right guy for her. As long as you don't do anything to sabotage their relationship or even yours, it should be fine. They might even end up breaking up because it will be harder for them to stay together when he has to go to college, and it sounds like she likes you, or is at least starting to. Talk to her while getting to know her and continue to be friends with her and spend time with her if you truly like her. Be there for her and make sure she knows that you are there for her, no matter what, but give her room to breathe. If you are meant to be with her, then things may just change. I hope everything works out for you!
awll :)
i have never seen a guy so sensitive and caring about a girl.
she is lucky to have you.
just be there for her.. but dont get to close. cuz it can sometimes get annoying. cuz guys do that to me.
oh and try not to make the Boyfriend jealous, hell prolly try to beat the **** out of you.
just dont smother her with your presence. just let her know you are there...and express your feelings to her. i love a guy that always tells me how he feels.
I need advice on something my best friends hubby said to my three year old. What would you do?
Last night my best friend of 14 years hubby came over to hang out with my hubby because she was out of town visiting some realitives. Everything was fine, and I went to Walmart to pick up some stuff we needed. Shortly after I got home he left and my hubby had said that a comment was made that kind of made him upset and worried about our three year old being at my best friends house with this guy. In the four years I've known him I really don't know him so that makes things harder, but he said to my daughter something about DD's and about when she gets older he can't wait to snap her bra strap. What are your opinions on this?I need advice on something my best friends hubby said to my three year old. What would you do?
ok, in my opinion, you and your husband have every right to be worried, you obviously love your best friend, and would never want to hurt her, but here's the thing, you are a MOM first, and a best friend second, your FIRST priority is protecting your child! I'm not saying jump the gun, and go off half ****** making accusations, however, keep your eyes wide open, if something doesn't feel right, it usually isn't. Watch your daughter, have open talks with her even at a young age, make her aware that it is never ok for someone to touch her in inappropriate places, unfortunately in this world, we need to educate our young ones, even when it is uncomfortable for us as parents. If he keeps making comments, distance yourselves from him, when your best friend asks, tell her you love HER, but be honest with her! And although I'm not an advocate of violence, your husband should have said to him, If you ever snap her bra strap, I'll SNAP YOUR NECK!!! My point is, all too often, we either don't want to say anything to hurt a loved ones feelings, and all too often, our children get hurt in the long run, as I said before, if it doesn't sound or feel right, it isn't. Comments like that reffering to a 3 year old, are absolutley inappropriate! We as parents and as a society, need to speak up especially for our own kids!I need advice on something my best friends hubby said to my three year old. What would you do?
Crack his skull. Or at the very least let his wife know and let them know they aren't welcome around anymore. Even if he was only joking and has no social skills some things are just not approachible and he went there. There is something off in that dude's brain. Why wait until he makes another ';mistake';?
ewwww. that is SICK. i would have kicked that jerk outta my house so fast his head would have spun. and he would NEVER be allowed back in. i wouldnt even allow him within a 10 radius of my house or my family. idk what to tell ur friend though. she might be offended if u tell her that her hubby is a pedophile.
If someone said that to my husband he'd be lucky to walk out the door! He'd beat the cr@p out of him.
That's not cool at all and he wouldn't come back to my house, plain and simple. I don't care who's husband he is. And I would tell my friend why he wasn't allowed back!
I think the comment was totally inappropriate. Trust your instincts. If it seems like he creates an unsafe environment for your child, you are under no obligation to let her spend time with him, and under every obligation to see she's safe.
really not appropriate and I understand why that would make you feel uncomfortable. Tough call on what you say to your friend but I don't think my daughter would be spending time with them alone that is for sure.
avoid him.
ban him from the house-
Any sexually related comment said to a child is inappropriate, and is cause for concern. This is a grown married man, and even if your daughter had been an adult it would have been inappropriate....but worse he said it to a 3 year old child! Your family should not have any contact with this man. Trust your instincts on this one. I'd tell your friend what he said too, but understand that most likely this will end the friendship as she'll probably be in denial. However, your children come first.
NO, I wouldn't let him be alone with her. Don't do it!!!
You can never be to safe when it comes to your child even
longtime friends! If you and your husband fill uncomfortable,there must be a reason! Pray that when you need a baby sitter that you will find someone else. If and when you and your husband go over to their house again, just
pay attention to how he reacts to children on TV or if all of you go out somewhere. Again, you can NEVER BE TO SAFE!
Protect your child. Blessings!!!
PSALM 127:3
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
I would speak to my friend about it instead of leaving her in the cold. She needs to know why the relationship between you and her are changing. Then do not let the man near your child for any reason at all. They say when a child is hurt in that way it is usually by somebody they know, don't take the chance on that being your child. If you ever see him near your child he needs to be put in his place, let him know that he is not to speak or look at your child that if they cross pathes then he is to go the other direction. Never take a chance with your kids.
ok, in my opinion, you and your husband have every right to be worried, you obviously love your best friend, and would never want to hurt her, but here's the thing, you are a MOM first, and a best friend second, your FIRST priority is protecting your child! I'm not saying jump the gun, and go off half ****** making accusations, however, keep your eyes wide open, if something doesn't feel right, it usually isn't. Watch your daughter, have open talks with her even at a young age, make her aware that it is never ok for someone to touch her in inappropriate places, unfortunately in this world, we need to educate our young ones, even when it is uncomfortable for us as parents. If he keeps making comments, distance yourselves from him, when your best friend asks, tell her you love HER, but be honest with her! And although I'm not an advocate of violence, your husband should have said to him, If you ever snap her bra strap, I'll SNAP YOUR NECK!!! My point is, all too often, we either don't want to say anything to hurt a loved ones feelings, and all too often, our children get hurt in the long run, as I said before, if it doesn't sound or feel right, it isn't. Comments like that reffering to a 3 year old, are absolutley inappropriate! We as parents and as a society, need to speak up especially for our own kids!I need advice on something my best friends hubby said to my three year old. What would you do?
Crack his skull. Or at the very least let his wife know and let them know they aren't welcome around anymore. Even if he was only joking and has no social skills some things are just not approachible and he went there. There is something off in that dude's brain. Why wait until he makes another ';mistake';?
ewwww. that is SICK. i would have kicked that jerk outta my house so fast his head would have spun. and he would NEVER be allowed back in. i wouldnt even allow him within a 10 radius of my house or my family. idk what to tell ur friend though. she might be offended if u tell her that her hubby is a pedophile.
If someone said that to my husband he'd be lucky to walk out the door! He'd beat the cr@p out of him.
That's not cool at all and he wouldn't come back to my house, plain and simple. I don't care who's husband he is. And I would tell my friend why he wasn't allowed back!
I think the comment was totally inappropriate. Trust your instincts. If it seems like he creates an unsafe environment for your child, you are under no obligation to let her spend time with him, and under every obligation to see she's safe.
really not appropriate and I understand why that would make you feel uncomfortable. Tough call on what you say to your friend but I don't think my daughter would be spending time with them alone that is for sure.
avoid him.
ban him from the house-
Any sexually related comment said to a child is inappropriate, and is cause for concern. This is a grown married man, and even if your daughter had been an adult it would have been inappropriate....but worse he said it to a 3 year old child! Your family should not have any contact with this man. Trust your instincts on this one. I'd tell your friend what he said too, but understand that most likely this will end the friendship as she'll probably be in denial. However, your children come first.
NO, I wouldn't let him be alone with her. Don't do it!!!
You can never be to safe when it comes to your child even
longtime friends! If you and your husband fill uncomfortable,there must be a reason! Pray that when you need a baby sitter that you will find someone else. If and when you and your husband go over to their house again, just
pay attention to how he reacts to children on TV or if all of you go out somewhere. Again, you can NEVER BE TO SAFE!
Protect your child. Blessings!!!
PSALM 127:3
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
I would speak to my friend about it instead of leaving her in the cold. She needs to know why the relationship between you and her are changing. Then do not let the man near your child for any reason at all. They say when a child is hurt in that way it is usually by somebody they know, don't take the chance on that being your child. If you ever see him near your child he needs to be put in his place, let him know that he is not to speak or look at your child that if they cross pathes then he is to go the other direction. Never take a chance with your kids.
Used car advice - what's the best next move?
I bought a used car off a lot in April. It's an Infiniti, so I figured a Nissan product would be relatively reliable. I only paid $1900, but it was all I had to work with.
Since I've had the car, I've had several regular maintenance issues fixed (tires, oil and filer change), but also discovered some other major problems that weren't divulged to me at the time of purchase. So far I've spent an additional $900 on it, and now I need to replace the brakes, alternator and a/c components. I know...buyer beware.
Would you take the car back to the orginal dealer and try to get an upgrade with the current car for a trade-in, or go to a completely different dealer for a better used car? My credit is shot (thanks to my irresponsible hubby), so I can't afford to get a loan and don't even want a new car ever again anyway. I might consider a short term, high interest note with a dealer for 6 months if it meant I wouldn't have to keep dropping cash on repairs.
Your opinions?Used car advice - what's the best next move?
When it comes to used cars DON'T TRUST ANYBODY !!!
And what you are doing is digging a bigger and bigger hole (trading in one car after another - going to dealer - paying high interest loan, etc.)
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MSNBC had a news story on where is the best places to buy used cars. The used car dealers were on the BOTTOM of the list. They are pros at negotiations (and you and I are rank amateurs), they are pros at hiding problems on their cars, etc.
The private sales (newspaper, etc.) were the best places. The seller will not tell you all the problems, but they don't know how to hide them.
And a private seller are at MOST they are equal in negotiation skills to you and me.
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My 94 Civic can get 41 MPG (and I was doing 72 for the mileage test - so I can do even better at 55). The engine + tranny + suspension runs like new. It ain't no beauty but it is rock solid. If I had to sell it, I would not get more than few thousand dollars. This is the kind of car you want to look for.
Just take your time, as good old used cars are cheap but hard to come by.
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Here's some rules you should consider when buying a used car
(1) don't get sold on the paint job = meaning cars having good exterior, fancy CD radio, etc.
(2) look for car with sound ENGINE + TRANNY + SUSPENSION.
(3) test every button, knob, switch, slider, etc.. Ex: even in the summer test out the heater %26amp; even in the winter test out the AC (if you can). Slide the AC/heater to fan1, fan2, fan3, etc. then slid the vent to defrost, front, bottom, etc. Test the high beam, low beam, etc. Test (flip) the visor. Test the alarm. Test all 4 doors. Test the rear defogger.
***** TEST EVERYTHING.
(4) BEFORE the first start, open the engine bay and see if the engine is already warmed up. Many engines starts well when already warmed up, but may have problems when cold (or cold start).
(5) test drive with the sound system off and window down. Listen for weird sound coming from the wheels %26amp; suspension.
(6) Look inside the engine bay to see if you can see see leaks, etc. It is normal to see some oil and grease. But too much means that the car is leaking oil somewhere. Too clean (really clean) means they just wash the engine bay - possibly hiding some oil leaks.
(7) check the engine oil dip stick. If the oil is BRAND NEW CLEAN, the seller MIGHT be hiding something. If the oil is jet black and /or smells like gasoline (or burnt), you might have engine problem).
(8) once you are satisfied with the above - you can NOW take it to the mechanic for the engine + tranny + suspension inspection. He won't find everything, but he will find the obvious. Take it to a mechanic EVEN if you are buying from a used car dealer. They cars are NO better than cars you buy from ebay and craigslist.com. Just more expensive.
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1) Safety Ratings:
http://www.safercar.gov/
http://www.iihs.org/ratings/default.aspx
2) Reliability:
http://autos.msn.com/home/reliability_ra鈥?/a>
http://www.edmunds.com/apps/ratings/rati鈥?/a>
3) Fuel Economy:
http://www.fueleconomy.gov/feg/sbs.htm
Good Luck...
Since I've had the car, I've had several regular maintenance issues fixed (tires, oil and filer change), but also discovered some other major problems that weren't divulged to me at the time of purchase. So far I've spent an additional $900 on it, and now I need to replace the brakes, alternator and a/c components. I know...buyer beware.
Would you take the car back to the orginal dealer and try to get an upgrade with the current car for a trade-in, or go to a completely different dealer for a better used car? My credit is shot (thanks to my irresponsible hubby), so I can't afford to get a loan and don't even want a new car ever again anyway. I might consider a short term, high interest note with a dealer for 6 months if it meant I wouldn't have to keep dropping cash on repairs.
Your opinions?Used car advice - what's the best next move?
When it comes to used cars DON'T TRUST ANYBODY !!!
And what you are doing is digging a bigger and bigger hole (trading in one car after another - going to dealer - paying high interest loan, etc.)
====
MSNBC had a news story on where is the best places to buy used cars. The used car dealers were on the BOTTOM of the list. They are pros at negotiations (and you and I are rank amateurs), they are pros at hiding problems on their cars, etc.
The private sales (newspaper, etc.) were the best places. The seller will not tell you all the problems, but they don't know how to hide them.
And a private seller are at MOST they are equal in negotiation skills to you and me.
===
My 94 Civic can get 41 MPG (and I was doing 72 for the mileage test - so I can do even better at 55). The engine + tranny + suspension runs like new. It ain't no beauty but it is rock solid. If I had to sell it, I would not get more than few thousand dollars. This is the kind of car you want to look for.
Just take your time, as good old used cars are cheap but hard to come by.
===========
Here's some rules you should consider when buying a used car
(1) don't get sold on the paint job = meaning cars having good exterior, fancy CD radio, etc.
(2) look for car with sound ENGINE + TRANNY + SUSPENSION.
(3) test every button, knob, switch, slider, etc.. Ex: even in the summer test out the heater %26amp; even in the winter test out the AC (if you can). Slide the AC/heater to fan1, fan2, fan3, etc. then slid the vent to defrost, front, bottom, etc. Test the high beam, low beam, etc. Test (flip) the visor. Test the alarm. Test all 4 doors. Test the rear defogger.
***** TEST EVERYTHING.
(4) BEFORE the first start, open the engine bay and see if the engine is already warmed up. Many engines starts well when already warmed up, but may have problems when cold (or cold start).
(5) test drive with the sound system off and window down. Listen for weird sound coming from the wheels %26amp; suspension.
(6) Look inside the engine bay to see if you can see see leaks, etc. It is normal to see some oil and grease. But too much means that the car is leaking oil somewhere. Too clean (really clean) means they just wash the engine bay - possibly hiding some oil leaks.
(7) check the engine oil dip stick. If the oil is BRAND NEW CLEAN, the seller MIGHT be hiding something. If the oil is jet black and /or smells like gasoline (or burnt), you might have engine problem).
(8) once you are satisfied with the above - you can NOW take it to the mechanic for the engine + tranny + suspension inspection. He won't find everything, but he will find the obvious. Take it to a mechanic EVEN if you are buying from a used car dealer. They cars are NO better than cars you buy from ebay and craigslist.com. Just more expensive.
=====
1) Safety Ratings:
http://www.safercar.gov/
http://www.iihs.org/ratings/default.aspx
2) Reliability:
http://autos.msn.com/home/reliability_ra鈥?/a>
http://www.edmunds.com/apps/ratings/rati鈥?/a>
3) Fuel Economy:
http://www.fueleconomy.gov/feg/sbs.htm
Good Luck...
I need advice for my 2 best friends?
alright i need advice for my 2 best friends who are both 18 so hears the thing my one best friend is a guy and the other is a girl and they've been dating for about 3 years and they are very in love with each other and they plan on getting married to each other.but they always seem to argue about the stupidest things and I'm the great friend who always referees to say who's right and wrong and the other day my guy friend said to me he loves her but he doesn't know when enough should be enough (pretty much he doesn't know how much of the arguing he can take).....what can i do as a friend to help out?I need advice for my 2 best friends?
Tell them to both shut the hell up the next time they argue and explain why. Exa.:
';Shut the hell up! You 2 argue too freaking much and you need to stop. You love eachother. You know you do.'; It's all up to fate after that.wholesale cosmetics makeup look
Tell them to both shut the hell up the next time they argue and explain why. Exa.:
';Shut the hell up! You 2 argue too freaking much and you need to stop. You love eachother. You know you do.'; It's all up to fate after that.
Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
You sound like a nice guy ...
And Nice guys are hard to find ! LOL
You dont know the situation in their realationship ,
Yes true they could be , breaking up cause he is leaving ,
but they could be planning to get married for all you know
So my advice , try find out their plans ...
if she thinks she has got a bright future with this boy ..
Well then just go find a chick who is single and as nice as you seem
But if she dont ! .... Well continue getting to know her
Good Luck HunNeed CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
not a problem, just get in good with her so that she'll see you as a really good friend and when he leaves to college and/or they break up you'll be right there. just dont be the creepy clingy friend, that will kill any chance. act as though you care about her but your not too concerned with what happens. if your smooth enough you wont have a problem geting what you want
Wow, your in a pickle, worst than mine!
Just tell her how you feel, if she really likes you then I am sure she can give up the senior for you:)
I'm sorry, that must be hard! I would say keep talking to her, but don't put the moves on her while she's still with her boyfriend. Their relationship probably won't last because once you're in college you meet so many new and different people and it could change your mind about a lot of things. So if they break up you need to be the shoulder for her to cry on and comfort her. If things don't work out between you two then it's not meant to be and you'll find another girl just as good if not better.
Hope I helped and good luck dude!
Anyways:
Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?
Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
You sound like a nice guy ...
And Nice guys are hard to find ! LOL
You dont know the situation in their realationship ,
Yes true they could be , breaking up cause he is leaving ,
but they could be planning to get married for all you know
So my advice , try find out their plans ...
if she thinks she has got a bright future with this boy ..
Well then just go find a chick who is single and as nice as you seem
But if she dont ! .... Well continue getting to know her
Good Luck HunNeed CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
not a problem, just get in good with her so that she'll see you as a really good friend and when he leaves to college and/or they break up you'll be right there. just dont be the creepy clingy friend, that will kill any chance. act as though you care about her but your not too concerned with what happens. if your smooth enough you wont have a problem geting what you want
Wow, your in a pickle, worst than mine!
Just tell her how you feel, if she really likes you then I am sure she can give up the senior for you:)
I'm sorry, that must be hard! I would say keep talking to her, but don't put the moves on her while she's still with her boyfriend. Their relationship probably won't last because once you're in college you meet so many new and different people and it could change your mind about a lot of things. So if they break up you need to be the shoulder for her to cry on and comfort her. If things don't work out between you two then it's not meant to be and you'll find another girl just as good if not better.
Hope I helped and good luck dude!
What's the best way to ask a girl out from work,without being so obvious about it?need tips and advice?
Have flowers delivered to her at work with a card that says I'd like to get to know you better...Best WishesWhat's the best way to ask a girl out from work,without being so obvious about it?need tips and advice?
yes , it needs skills. you must understand how to open her, how to build connection with her and at last ask her out. there are many seminar about it called pick-up. But if you want some free article about it, you can go to http://www.seductionbase.com
yes , it needs skills. you must understand how to open her, how to build connection with her and at last ask her out. there are many seminar about it called pick-up. But if you want some free article about it, you can go to http://www.seductionbase.com
Athletic advice please. Need to make best of the last 4 weeks.?
Hello, I am competing in Karate tournament in 4 weeks. I have been working out the best I can although the worst case of allergy/sinus infection prevented me from training full for the last 8 weeks. I feel little better, I want to do well especially for people who cares about me. But I feel 4 weeks is pushing it. Please advice me on how I can get the most out of the time left to be in peak condition as far as cardio goes, I am still suffering from allergy of some sort, and by breathing is like only half. Been to doctor so many times, on 8 meds, now down to 5 meds,etc...all I can do at this point is to build up a cardio to the best I can be. The fight is like 3 min sprint of 3 round, then if you advance, you do it all over again....I think I can only do one round of one 3 min. right now.....Please share your expertise and how would you prepare me for the event? Its important to me. No time to be testing out and playing out, But need a program and get started right away. Thank you.Athletic advice please. Need to make best of the last 4 weeks.?
I kicked box for two years and your number one concern should be your stamina. If you can't go 5, 3 min rounds then you shouldn't compete. I know you said its 3, 3 minute rounds which is the norm for karate and kickboxing. But, you need to be able to last 5 rounds even if you go 3. Without stamina you are doomed before you get started.
Get a punching bag and go for 5, 3 minute rounds. Do this every day. With a minimum of 30 hits or kicks per minute. Next you need to do at least 100 pushups and situps twice a day ever other day.
And take this advice, if you can't go one round on the day of the match, don't get in the ring or you will be humiliated and your self esteem will nose dive fast.Athletic advice please. Need to make best of the last 4 weeks.?
Good question what I would do is ask a sports trainer.There is one at this site who works with athletes and I believe give you a good answer.
http://athletictraining.forumsfourfree.c鈥?/a>
I kicked box for two years and your number one concern should be your stamina. If you can't go 5, 3 min rounds then you shouldn't compete. I know you said its 3, 3 minute rounds which is the norm for karate and kickboxing. But, you need to be able to last 5 rounds even if you go 3. Without stamina you are doomed before you get started.
Get a punching bag and go for 5, 3 minute rounds. Do this every day. With a minimum of 30 hits or kicks per minute. Next you need to do at least 100 pushups and situps twice a day ever other day.
And take this advice, if you can't go one round on the day of the match, don't get in the ring or you will be humiliated and your self esteem will nose dive fast.Athletic advice please. Need to make best of the last 4 weeks.?
Good question what I would do is ask a sports trainer.There is one at this site who works with athletes and I believe give you a good answer.
http://athletictraining.forumsfourfree.c鈥?/a>
O.K. I need some advice. I am looking for a used Vehicle preferably an SUV that drives well, roomy & the best?
I want good gas mileage, good handling and will last for years to come. O.K. you Auto buffs...hit me with some ideas. Please tell me why also. Thanks in advance!O.K. I need some advice. I am looking for a used Vehicle preferably an SUV that drives well, roomy %26amp; the best?
Honda CR-V
Toyota Rav4
Honda Pilot
Toyota Highlander Hybrid
All are reliable, well rated, get 24 mpg hwy or betterO.K. I need some advice. I am looking for a used Vehicle preferably an SUV that drives well, roomy %26amp; the best?
If it's roomy, is that because you need to be able to take a lot of people or you just want a lot of trunk space?
If you need to take people around, then take a look at an '06 Ford Explorer. That would be the most recent design but the oldest model, so it would be cheapest. You can get an optional third row seat in that for extra seats, or fold that back row down for lots of trunk space.
Maybe if you don't need quite that much room, then look at the Ford Escape. It still has the versatility of an SUV but the 4 cylinder models get the gas mileage of a mid-sized sedan. The newest model came out in 2007 as a 2008 model year, so if you want cheaper than those, then get one of the first generation models that date from 2001 I believe to 2007.
If you live in a snowy region, then a 4x4 model would be ideal. It's nice to have the luxury of being able to get through snow with ease with the four wheel drive.
If you listen to the media and perhaps feel you would rather get a Japanese car, then just trust me that American cars have improved over the last few years and now are near or at the same quality as the Japanese companies. It seems that you haven't narrowed down a company or model yet, so if you do go to a car lot and see a Toyota Rav-4, then check out an Escape or Chevy Equinox as well to see what you really like the best.
Honda CR-V
Toyota Rav4
Honda Pilot
Toyota Highlander Hybrid
All are reliable, well rated, get 24 mpg hwy or betterO.K. I need some advice. I am looking for a used Vehicle preferably an SUV that drives well, roomy %26amp; the best?
If it's roomy, is that because you need to be able to take a lot of people or you just want a lot of trunk space?
If you need to take people around, then take a look at an '06 Ford Explorer. That would be the most recent design but the oldest model, so it would be cheapest. You can get an optional third row seat in that for extra seats, or fold that back row down for lots of trunk space.
Maybe if you don't need quite that much room, then look at the Ford Escape. It still has the versatility of an SUV but the 4 cylinder models get the gas mileage of a mid-sized sedan. The newest model came out in 2007 as a 2008 model year, so if you want cheaper than those, then get one of the first generation models that date from 2001 I believe to 2007.
If you live in a snowy region, then a 4x4 model would be ideal. It's nice to have the luxury of being able to get through snow with ease with the four wheel drive.
If you listen to the media and perhaps feel you would rather get a Japanese car, then just trust me that American cars have improved over the last few years and now are near or at the same quality as the Japanese companies. It seems that you haven't narrowed down a company or model yet, so if you do go to a car lot and see a Toyota Rav-4, then check out an Escape or Chevy Equinox as well to see what you really like the best.
Editing Advice???Tips?? Examples?? 10 pts best answer!!!?
How can I make this sentence come to life, being that its the opening of my story? How can I draw the reader in?? Suggestions examples welcomed. Thanks!
“You gave up on me” Peyton heard over and over again, his words still echoing throughout the room and in her head .Editing Advice???Tips?? Examples?? 10 pts best answer!!!?
The icy tone of his voice, as his accusation that Peyton herself had given up on him, echoed in the stillness of the room. Over and over again the stinging words he hurled at her bounced around in her mind, filling her with lonliness.Editing Advice???Tips?? Examples?? 10 pts best answer!!!?
It's hard to say without knowing a bit more. Obviously, it is about something fairly important, or she would not be so distressed. But did she stand him up for a date? Or did she find someone new while he was in the military? Or was he acusing her of havin no faith in him? And was she distressed because he was right and she feels guilty? Or because he misinterpreted her actions?
The words echoed. ';You gave up on me.'; Over and over again, Peyton heard them in her head until it seemed they filled the air. But, except for her breathing, the shabby room was dead silent.
“You gave up on me” Peyton heard over and over again, his words still echoing throughout the room and in her head .Editing Advice???Tips?? Examples?? 10 pts best answer!!!?
The icy tone of his voice, as his accusation that Peyton herself had given up on him, echoed in the stillness of the room. Over and over again the stinging words he hurled at her bounced around in her mind, filling her with lonliness.Editing Advice???Tips?? Examples?? 10 pts best answer!!!?
It's hard to say without knowing a bit more. Obviously, it is about something fairly important, or she would not be so distressed. But did she stand him up for a date? Or did she find someone new while he was in the military? Or was he acusing her of havin no faith in him? And was she distressed because he was right and she feels guilty? Or because he misinterpreted her actions?
The words echoed. ';You gave up on me.'; Over and over again, Peyton heard them in her head until it seemed they filled the air. But, except for her breathing, the shabby room was dead silent.
Best movie too see?any advice?
Well I am not a big horror fan, but seriously once you get into them they are totally addicting!
The other night I watched Halloween, Halloween 4:The Return of Michael Myers, and part of Halloween 5:The Revenge of Michael Myers. If you're looking for a good scare, try these out. They are actually very well made and the storyline is easy to follow even if you watch them out of order. Like I said, I hate horror, but these movies are only enough to make you jump.Best movie too see?any advice?
Zombie Land
Because it was super funny and its the first gory movie my mom actually agreed to go see. At first she was mad at me but then when the twinkie truck came up she laughed as hard as me. Its the only zombie movie she will ever see.
Its not just comedy there is romance at the end too and it has tons of action but the biggest is the laughs you get that your stomach hurts so bad and you have tears coming out of your eyes. The jokes just keep coming if you like any of those generes this would be the right oneBest movie too see?any advice?
moulan rouge, children of men, gatteca, longest yard, grandma's boy, v for vendetta, hostel 2, mr deeds, dr. strangelove, saving private ryan.
UP!! its actually awesome. i know people are like wow little kids movie but im 16 and me and my friends went to see it and it was amazing! honsetly go see it :)
Let the Right One In(2008), or Thirst(Korea-2009).
';Titanic'; is really a GOOD one!!!!!wholesale cosmetics makeup look
The other night I watched Halloween, Halloween 4:The Return of Michael Myers, and part of Halloween 5:The Revenge of Michael Myers. If you're looking for a good scare, try these out. They are actually very well made and the storyline is easy to follow even if you watch them out of order. Like I said, I hate horror, but these movies are only enough to make you jump.Best movie too see?any advice?
Zombie Land
Because it was super funny and its the first gory movie my mom actually agreed to go see. At first she was mad at me but then when the twinkie truck came up she laughed as hard as me. Its the only zombie movie she will ever see.
Its not just comedy there is romance at the end too and it has tons of action but the biggest is the laughs you get that your stomach hurts so bad and you have tears coming out of your eyes. The jokes just keep coming if you like any of those generes this would be the right oneBest movie too see?any advice?
moulan rouge, children of men, gatteca, longest yard, grandma's boy, v for vendetta, hostel 2, mr deeds, dr. strangelove, saving private ryan.
UP!! its actually awesome. i know people are like wow little kids movie but im 16 and me and my friends went to see it and it was amazing! honsetly go see it :)
Let the Right One In(2008), or Thirst(Korea-2009).
';Titanic'; is really a GOOD one!!!!!
Please advice 10 POINTS FOR the best answer?
If your boyfriend was avoding you what would you done? Would you ignore him back or call him up? If a guy truely love a girl does he avoide her?Please advice 10 POINTS FOR the best answer?
well i'd first call him up and ask him what is going on. Like why r u ignoring me. If he doesnt tell u then that means sumthing is up. either there is sumthing wrong with the relationship, felt guilty about sumthing and couldn't face u, or worse comes to worse he as found sumone else. But i would totally ask him straight out what is wrong. if he keeps ignoring u, let him know that this relationship is not going to work out if he keeps leaving u hanging like that. im sry to say he isnt for u. and if a guy truly loves a girl he'd tell her what wrong with him or why is he acting the way he is. i hope everything turns out well.Please advice 10 POINTS FOR the best answer?
I've been here before and I've done both called him and ignored him. The best thing to do is ignore him to the fullest. When he does decide to call don't pick up at all, let it go to voicemail. Don't call him back, pick up about the third time he calls and just say you were busy doing something. Girl things. When I bugged him it only made me feel worse and wonder what he was doing. When I found things to do and ignored him, he actually came to my house and said ';i'm sorry for avoiding you, I just needed a break to think, and now I realized I need you to be with me at all times'; and we ended up moving in together. I mean we had already been dating for over a year. Oh and yes a guy who truely loves a girl will avoide her if he needs space. Let him have it, because if it's true love then he will so come running to see and talk to you.
no, unless she did something unforgivable. he shouldn't do that. love is not having to say your sorry.
if my bf was ignoring me, id ignore him until it drove him crazy.
and if he was ignoring me, and I truly had enough i would end it and make him go aftter me.. and if he didn't come after me
id get over it learn form my mistakes and move on to the other guy at that other ';corner';.
If my bf waz avoding me i wuld 4 sure call him and ask him wats up? r u purposly avoding me? And to #3 it culd b yes and no. He culd b thinking about you and is nerves 2 talk 2 u. or he culd be cheating on u. im sorry but thats the truth. I wuld deffinetly call him up tho and talk 2 him and tell him 2 b completly honest with u ! Good luck !
Nope, he wouldn't avoid the girl he likes in fact he would do everything possible to spend time with her when he could. That is love! If that isn't happening then find someone else who is able to commit SOME time with you, it doesn't have to be every waking second of his life.....such a little to show he cares!
I would not call him if I am in your shoes, coz I am not the one to be ignored ..... ok
and if he loves me then he has to be nice to me, he has to do some effort to draw my attention and he needs to do more effort to keep my attention.
this is what I would do, good luck
:)
don't get worried....it happens sometimes in relations....well, the best deal is to talk to ur bf that why he was doing so....ask him that whats the reason for his ignorance....donot be rude in asking......i know how u must be feeling but sometimes these troubles r created in relations...
if u've told him that u r troubled and u r feeling bad, then the best way is to avoid him for sometime....give him some space by which maybe he'll try to be good with u.....try and make him realise silently that he is leading a bad role......
i wish u luck
I think if my bf was avoiding me i would call him and ask him what the problem is! It could be a stupid reason u can work past!
Maybe he is avoiding u over a stupid rumor
he might truely love u maybe he just heard a rumor or something that he doesnt want to consult u about.
ya never knoe
call, be nice and ask him why he isnt talking to
if he's nice, he probably just wanted more of ur attention
if he's giving u the hint tht he really doesnt wanna talk to u, give him a little time and then if it isnt getting better, break up
NO if a guy truly loves you why the hell will he ignore you...call him up and ask him whats the matter and whats the deal.
take care!
no if he truly loves the girl, he will not waste time, life is too short, if he does not call, u call him and say everything
well true love never avoids
so he is wrong
but u should call him
try and find the reason behind
and if reason is useless and fake
i suggest ignore back he dosent deserve u
yu should call the guy...
94% of guys like when girls make the first move.
if he still ignores yu
ignore him cause hes being stupiid.
and yu can ghet better guys =]
no. a guy should not avoide the girl that he ';likes';. i would call him and ask what the deal was.
well i'd first call him up and ask him what is going on. Like why r u ignoring me. If he doesnt tell u then that means sumthing is up. either there is sumthing wrong with the relationship, felt guilty about sumthing and couldn't face u, or worse comes to worse he as found sumone else. But i would totally ask him straight out what is wrong. if he keeps ignoring u, let him know that this relationship is not going to work out if he keeps leaving u hanging like that. im sry to say he isnt for u. and if a guy truly loves a girl he'd tell her what wrong with him or why is he acting the way he is. i hope everything turns out well.Please advice 10 POINTS FOR the best answer?
I've been here before and I've done both called him and ignored him. The best thing to do is ignore him to the fullest. When he does decide to call don't pick up at all, let it go to voicemail. Don't call him back, pick up about the third time he calls and just say you were busy doing something. Girl things. When I bugged him it only made me feel worse and wonder what he was doing. When I found things to do and ignored him, he actually came to my house and said ';i'm sorry for avoiding you, I just needed a break to think, and now I realized I need you to be with me at all times'; and we ended up moving in together. I mean we had already been dating for over a year. Oh and yes a guy who truely loves a girl will avoide her if he needs space. Let him have it, because if it's true love then he will so come running to see and talk to you.
no, unless she did something unforgivable. he shouldn't do that. love is not having to say your sorry.
if my bf was ignoring me, id ignore him until it drove him crazy.
and if he was ignoring me, and I truly had enough i would end it and make him go aftter me.. and if he didn't come after me
id get over it learn form my mistakes and move on to the other guy at that other ';corner';.
If my bf waz avoding me i wuld 4 sure call him and ask him wats up? r u purposly avoding me? And to #3 it culd b yes and no. He culd b thinking about you and is nerves 2 talk 2 u. or he culd be cheating on u. im sorry but thats the truth. I wuld deffinetly call him up tho and talk 2 him and tell him 2 b completly honest with u ! Good luck !
Nope, he wouldn't avoid the girl he likes in fact he would do everything possible to spend time with her when he could. That is love! If that isn't happening then find someone else who is able to commit SOME time with you, it doesn't have to be every waking second of his life.....such a little to show he cares!
I would not call him if I am in your shoes, coz I am not the one to be ignored ..... ok
and if he loves me then he has to be nice to me, he has to do some effort to draw my attention and he needs to do more effort to keep my attention.
this is what I would do, good luck
:)
don't get worried....it happens sometimes in relations....well, the best deal is to talk to ur bf that why he was doing so....ask him that whats the reason for his ignorance....donot be rude in asking......i know how u must be feeling but sometimes these troubles r created in relations...
if u've told him that u r troubled and u r feeling bad, then the best way is to avoid him for sometime....give him some space by which maybe he'll try to be good with u.....try and make him realise silently that he is leading a bad role......
i wish u luck
I think if my bf was avoiding me i would call him and ask him what the problem is! It could be a stupid reason u can work past!
Maybe he is avoiding u over a stupid rumor
he might truely love u maybe he just heard a rumor or something that he doesnt want to consult u about.
ya never knoe
call, be nice and ask him why he isnt talking to
if he's nice, he probably just wanted more of ur attention
if he's giving u the hint tht he really doesnt wanna talk to u, give him a little time and then if it isnt getting better, break up
NO if a guy truly loves you why the hell will he ignore you...call him up and ask him whats the matter and whats the deal.
take care!
no if he truly loves the girl, he will not waste time, life is too short, if he does not call, u call him and say everything
well true love never avoids
so he is wrong
but u should call him
try and find the reason behind
and if reason is useless and fake
i suggest ignore back he dosent deserve u
yu should call the guy...
94% of guys like when girls make the first move.
if he still ignores yu
ignore him cause hes being stupiid.
and yu can ghet better guys =]
no. a guy should not avoide the girl that he ';likes';. i would call him and ask what the deal was.
My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
ive known him for 2 years. he was planning on moving to ohio after this school year, but he suddenly left to live with his mom in ohio. i live in california. i know its still so soon, but its killing me and i need to know of some way of relaxing and trying not think about it so much. its literally heartacheMy best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
Keep in touch. However, expect that all communications with will diminish with time. Time is the operative word here. Keep busy and time will heal your hurt.
Find a new love and I am sure it will one of many more for you.
I don't believe in friendships with ex loves. Your second love will push your first love into history . Your third love will obliterate your second love and so on.
Take your unused portion and return it to society.
Good luck and good hunting.My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
if he loves you too.. he'l be back for you.... what ever Will be will be.... but if you think that its really LOVE... why not break the barriers! go after him... we only live once... as old people say life is like a wink of an eye... just make the most of what you have and what you can do....
keep bust to keep your mind off things or talk to him it'll be a comfort to you. which ever way your best freind will always be there for you even if not in person
call him or find a new guy...
wat part of ohio???
Do you both have access to computers? You can cam and chat on line. It's the next best thing to being there in person. Also, there's the telephone, and post office. And if you can afford it, There's summer vacation. You didn't say how old you are. I assume still in your teens since you're still in school. Maybe you should look around and see other guys and not spend so much time moping over one that's not available.
Eat some choclate and try to make new friends but dont lose touch with your best friend, if you really love him and he loves you back, the relationship will grow and someday, who knows?
Keep in touch. However, expect that all communications with will diminish with time. Time is the operative word here. Keep busy and time will heal your hurt.
Find a new love and I am sure it will one of many more for you.
I don't believe in friendships with ex loves. Your second love will push your first love into history . Your third love will obliterate your second love and so on.
Take your unused portion and return it to society.
Good luck and good hunting.My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
if he loves you too.. he'l be back for you.... what ever Will be will be.... but if you think that its really LOVE... why not break the barriers! go after him... we only live once... as old people say life is like a wink of an eye... just make the most of what you have and what you can do....
keep bust to keep your mind off things or talk to him it'll be a comfort to you. which ever way your best freind will always be there for you even if not in person
call him or find a new guy...
wat part of ohio???
Do you both have access to computers? You can cam and chat on line. It's the next best thing to being there in person. Also, there's the telephone, and post office. And if you can afford it, There's summer vacation. You didn't say how old you are. I assume still in your teens since you're still in school. Maybe you should look around and see other guys and not spend so much time moping over one that's not available.
Eat some choclate and try to make new friends but dont lose touch with your best friend, if you really love him and he loves you back, the relationship will grow and someday, who knows?
I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Suppose the same specification and don't care about the price
different but for long lasting and durable and trouble freeI want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Of the three companies you have outlined, Toshiba will be the best way to go.I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
I am a college student and own a Fujitsu N3530. I love it. I recommend them.
I have an Acer and it is the best computer I have ever had. It is pretty light weight super fast does pretty well when I'm gaming has a double layer dvd burner and it's wireless it's pretty much perfect. I had a Compaq laptop before it was complete bunk.
I second the vote for acer...I had never even heard of acer a year ago but someone recommended one when I was buying a laptop for school. It's the best computer i've ever owned...super fast...light...great look...and grreeeat prices....check acer out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
different but for long lasting and durable and trouble freeI want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Of the three companies you have outlined, Toshiba will be the best way to go.I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
I am a college student and own a Fujitsu N3530. I love it. I recommend them.
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I have an Acer and it is the best computer I have ever had. It is pretty light weight super fast does pretty well when I'm gaming has a double layer dvd burner and it's wireless it's pretty much perfect. I had a Compaq laptop before it was complete bunk.
I second the vote for acer...I had never even heard of acer a year ago but someone recommended one when I was buying a laptop for school. It's the best computer i've ever owned...super fast...light...great look...and grreeeat prices....check acer out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
ive known him for 2 years. he was planning on moving to ohio after this school year, but he suddenly left to live with his mom in ohio. i live in california. i know its still so soon, but its killing me and i need to know of some way of relaxing and trying not think about it so much. its literally heartacheMy best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
Keep in touch. However, expect that all communications with will diminish with time. Time is the operative word here. Keep busy and time will heal your hurt.
Find a new love and I am sure it will one of many more for you.
I don't believe in friendships with ex loves. Your second love will push your first love into history . Your third love will obliterate your second love and so on.
Take your unused portion and return it to society.
Good luck and good hunting.My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
if he loves you too.. he'l be back for you.... what ever Will be will be.... but if you think that its really LOVE... why not break the barriers! go after him... we only live once... as old people say life is like a wink of an eye... just make the most of what you have and what you can do....
keep bust to keep your mind off things or talk to him it'll be a comfort to you. which ever way your best freind will always be there for you even if not in person
call him or find a new guy...
wat part of ohio???
Do you both have access to computers? You can cam and chat on line. It's the next best thing to being there in person. Also, there's the telephone, and post office. And if you can afford it, There's summer vacation. You didn't say how old you are. I assume still in your teens since you're still in school. Maybe you should look around and see other guys and not spend so much time moping over one that's not available.
Eat some choclate and try to make new friends but dont lose touch with your best friend, if you really love him and he loves you back, the relationship will grow and someday, who knows?
Keep in touch. However, expect that all communications with will diminish with time. Time is the operative word here. Keep busy and time will heal your hurt.
Find a new love and I am sure it will one of many more for you.
I don't believe in friendships with ex loves. Your second love will push your first love into history . Your third love will obliterate your second love and so on.
Take your unused portion and return it to society.
Good luck and good hunting.My best friend/and first love just moved two days ago...across the country...i need some advice?
if he loves you too.. he'l be back for you.... what ever Will be will be.... but if you think that its really LOVE... why not break the barriers! go after him... we only live once... as old people say life is like a wink of an eye... just make the most of what you have and what you can do....
keep bust to keep your mind off things or talk to him it'll be a comfort to you. which ever way your best freind will always be there for you even if not in person
call him or find a new guy...
wat part of ohio???
Do you both have access to computers? You can cam and chat on line. It's the next best thing to being there in person. Also, there's the telephone, and post office. And if you can afford it, There's summer vacation. You didn't say how old you are. I assume still in your teens since you're still in school. Maybe you should look around and see other guys and not spend so much time moping over one that's not available.
Eat some choclate and try to make new friends but dont lose touch with your best friend, if you really love him and he loves you back, the relationship will grow and someday, who knows?
I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Suppose the same specification and don't care about the price
different but for long lasting and durable and trouble freeI want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Of the three companies you have outlined, Toshiba will be the best way to go.I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
I am a college student and own a Fujitsu N3530. I love it. I recommend them.
I have an Acer and it is the best computer I have ever had. It is pretty light weight super fast does pretty well when I'm gaming has a double layer dvd burner and it's wireless it's pretty much perfect. I had a Compaq laptop before it was complete bunk.
I second the vote for acer...I had never even heard of acer a year ago but someone recommended one when I was buying a laptop for school. It's the best computer i've ever owned...super fast...light...great look...and grreeeat prices....check acer out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
different but for long lasting and durable and trouble freeI want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
Of the three companies you have outlined, Toshiba will be the best way to go.I want to buy laptop computer using dualcores cpu.please advice Acer,Toshiba,Fujitsu which is the best to buy?
I am a college student and own a Fujitsu N3530. I love it. I recommend them.
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I have an Acer and it is the best computer I have ever had. It is pretty light weight super fast does pretty well when I'm gaming has a double layer dvd burner and it's wireless it's pretty much perfect. I had a Compaq laptop before it was complete bunk.
I second the vote for acer...I had never even heard of acer a year ago but someone recommended one when I was buying a laptop for school. It's the best computer i've ever owned...super fast...light...great look...and grreeeat prices....check acer out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some advice for a worried best friend?
If you would take the time to read and answer would be very much appreciated, Thanks x
Me and my best friend were inseperable until i moved an hour away and now we talk everyday but she has found a man, not just anyman he has episodes of being really angry and showing her up in public, shes put on tons of weight and feels really depressed.
In febuary she fell pregnant with his baby (they had only got together in january but knew eachother from years ago) then in march she miscarried and i was stright down by her side much to his dislike, even though he pretends to like me in front of everyone. I couldnt care less of what he thought of me its my friend im worried about.
I dont want to get into the deatils because we'd be here forever but shes not happy and holding onto him and wont admit shes not happy because she is afaraid to be alone. she has a house that she shared with her ex hsband and money worries too.
He is possessive and horrible and now she wants to marry him......my partner has said he isnt allowed in our house because of his childish ways, our other mutual friends all agree too.....
How do i make my friend happy, make sure shes okay?Some advice for a worried best friend?
hmmmmm it seems this guy needs a good old fashion head beating knock some sence into him but my advice is your the only help she has, try to help her realize he is a prick and that there are plenty more guys out there alot nicer and kinder, the only problem is she seems realy attached to him and so this would make it realy hard for her to see what you mean so i think you should try to get everyone to support her and to tell her the truth. he is maken her have an early grave threw depression cuz it can lead to suicide so you gotta help her get away from him while you still have the chance too. dont let her make a big mistake he will push her around for the rest of her life so act now and try get him away. support her and take her out to have fun and keep a close eye on herSome advice for a worried best friend?
Wow thats really complicated. I guess all that you can do is try to be there as much as you possibly can or as much as he'll let you.
She's a grown woman - give her space to let her lead her life. Don't judge her, as she hasn't asked you your opinion. Let her be and be there for her if she needs you.wholesale cosmetics makeup look
Me and my best friend were inseperable until i moved an hour away and now we talk everyday but she has found a man, not just anyman he has episodes of being really angry and showing her up in public, shes put on tons of weight and feels really depressed.
In febuary she fell pregnant with his baby (they had only got together in january but knew eachother from years ago) then in march she miscarried and i was stright down by her side much to his dislike, even though he pretends to like me in front of everyone. I couldnt care less of what he thought of me its my friend im worried about.
I dont want to get into the deatils because we'd be here forever but shes not happy and holding onto him and wont admit shes not happy because she is afaraid to be alone. she has a house that she shared with her ex hsband and money worries too.
He is possessive and horrible and now she wants to marry him......my partner has said he isnt allowed in our house because of his childish ways, our other mutual friends all agree too.....
How do i make my friend happy, make sure shes okay?Some advice for a worried best friend?
hmmmmm it seems this guy needs a good old fashion head beating knock some sence into him but my advice is your the only help she has, try to help her realize he is a prick and that there are plenty more guys out there alot nicer and kinder, the only problem is she seems realy attached to him and so this would make it realy hard for her to see what you mean so i think you should try to get everyone to support her and to tell her the truth. he is maken her have an early grave threw depression cuz it can lead to suicide so you gotta help her get away from him while you still have the chance too. dont let her make a big mistake he will push her around for the rest of her life so act now and try get him away. support her and take her out to have fun and keep a close eye on herSome advice for a worried best friend?
Wow thats really complicated. I guess all that you can do is try to be there as much as you possibly can or as much as he'll let you.
She's a grown woman - give her space to let her lead her life. Don't judge her, as she hasn't asked you your opinion. Let her be and be there for her if she needs you.
Relationship Advice! 10 Points for Best!!?
I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years about 10 months ago... I was so upset with my life durning the end and I took it out on him.. I was abusive and I have been coming to terms with it for about the last three months. I lived with him for 1 1/2 and we were extremely close. I was the one who ended it because I blamed him and my mom didnt like him.
I now want him back.. I miss him so much it hurts. I don't want him because I can't have him, but I miss him in my life.. I just went up to his work and he just said ';Wow,'; when he saw me.. He told his friend to tell me to roll on..
I know I was mean, but I turned my life around and found who I am and I know I can be good to him. I became the person I wanted and I learned from my mistakes...I want to tell him this, but I cant get him to even talk to me..
What do I do?
Please don't be mean..I'm already sad..Relationship Advice! 10 Points for Best!!?
well u should let him know that u were wrong about ending it...the next time u see him just let him know how u feel and how deeply sorry u are...tell him it was wrong of u to do what u did and u miss him...tell him that even if he doesnt want to date anymore maybe u can still be friends..maybe u end up being friends and he starts caring for u again...he might just say to roll on because he thinks ur still the same person u were b4....show him that ur not and that u will understand if he doesnt want to date anymore but u just want to be his friend and u want him close by...maybe he may see that u have changed and consider giving u another chance....let him kno that it was wrong of u listening to ur mom not liking him and that u were wrong to let ur mom get in the way of being happy with him and u realize that he was a great person to u and he didnt deserve being treated the way he was...after telling him this maybe he will realize that u did change and that u are sorry for what u did...hope this helps:DRelationship Advice! 10 Points for Best!!?
gently try to reestablish communication with him. you say he says ';roll on'; right? if he asks about that, then just tell him you want to still be friends. it sounds like you ended things pretty definitively when you broke up. it's almost going to be like meeting him all over again and you will, if he wants to, probably start things all over again. If connection can be reestablished, i would try not to mention anything about the past until you think you have safely restarted the relationship.
give your best. talk to him face to face and tell how much you love him. if he don't listen, well maybe he had moved on and forget about him. DONT BEG FOR HIM TO COMEBACK. there r alot whose better than him. maybe i dont know him, but if he loves you, he'll forget what you've done and come back to you. so just wait around and love will find you.
it all really depends on him
if he's moved on you can try your best but majority of the time that's it
if he still has feelings for you then yea just explain your situation pretty much exactly how you have in the question here
tell him your sorry and ask whether he would be willing to give you another chance
goodluck
Go on with life. If you truly love someone you will let them go. If they are supposed to be in your life, they will come back to you later...usually when you least expect it. You're too young to hang on to the past. Life is too short to wallow in the sorrow of not knowing the future.
Be persistent try to talk to him eventually he will have to acknowledge you. Try to show him that you've changed and that you know what you did wrong. If he doesn't talk to you no matter what then there's really nothing you can do about it. Good Luck.
gurl i wont be mean...
we all are gonna miss someone but the truth is if u dont feal like ur done go talk to him about it and if he doesnt talk to u move on theres millions of guys out there
-Kurd
write him a letter or tell him in front of everyone if he means that much
Ok,honey..
This is what you do..
You need to know first you are the one to blame..
so you must do all you can to get him if you really want him..
you cannot give it up to faith and hope..
you can either ask him out(dont need to be dinner)
or make a video recording..
tell him how sorry you are,apologises for everything he done,said that you r the one to blame n tell him that you still really care bout him that it hurts.
tell him that you hope both of you can be frens(dont rush into things)..
Make sure whatever ways you tell him this,he can see your face (your sincerity).
Then give him some space to think..
Act like usual after that..And he will come back to you slowly..
This can only happen if you really want him..
but if you dont think he is worth your while
than move on..have a better life and dont repeat mistakes..
U have been harsh 2 him bcuz of things that happen 2 u! So 2 fix that u have 2 do somthing BIG dont throw ur body at him if u been wit him 4 2 1/2 u should know somthing bout him no1 does, somthing he likes, loves, honors, etc. %26amp; try 2 get his friends 2 understand cuz just like ur female friends co-sign on who u go wit his friends will 2 so get them bhind u
plz dont act crazy around them calm breath sigh
it will take time but if u want him it u will go through it :)
I now want him back.. I miss him so much it hurts. I don't want him because I can't have him, but I miss him in my life.. I just went up to his work and he just said ';Wow,'; when he saw me.. He told his friend to tell me to roll on..
I know I was mean, but I turned my life around and found who I am and I know I can be good to him. I became the person I wanted and I learned from my mistakes...I want to tell him this, but I cant get him to even talk to me..
What do I do?
Please don't be mean..I'm already sad..Relationship Advice! 10 Points for Best!!?
well u should let him know that u were wrong about ending it...the next time u see him just let him know how u feel and how deeply sorry u are...tell him it was wrong of u to do what u did and u miss him...tell him that even if he doesnt want to date anymore maybe u can still be friends..maybe u end up being friends and he starts caring for u again...he might just say to roll on because he thinks ur still the same person u were b4....show him that ur not and that u will understand if he doesnt want to date anymore but u just want to be his friend and u want him close by...maybe he may see that u have changed and consider giving u another chance....let him kno that it was wrong of u listening to ur mom not liking him and that u were wrong to let ur mom get in the way of being happy with him and u realize that he was a great person to u and he didnt deserve being treated the way he was...after telling him this maybe he will realize that u did change and that u are sorry for what u did...hope this helps:DRelationship Advice! 10 Points for Best!!?
gently try to reestablish communication with him. you say he says ';roll on'; right? if he asks about that, then just tell him you want to still be friends. it sounds like you ended things pretty definitively when you broke up. it's almost going to be like meeting him all over again and you will, if he wants to, probably start things all over again. If connection can be reestablished, i would try not to mention anything about the past until you think you have safely restarted the relationship.
give your best. talk to him face to face and tell how much you love him. if he don't listen, well maybe he had moved on and forget about him. DONT BEG FOR HIM TO COMEBACK. there r alot whose better than him. maybe i dont know him, but if he loves you, he'll forget what you've done and come back to you. so just wait around and love will find you.
it all really depends on him
if he's moved on you can try your best but majority of the time that's it
if he still has feelings for you then yea just explain your situation pretty much exactly how you have in the question here
tell him your sorry and ask whether he would be willing to give you another chance
goodluck
Go on with life. If you truly love someone you will let them go. If they are supposed to be in your life, they will come back to you later...usually when you least expect it. You're too young to hang on to the past. Life is too short to wallow in the sorrow of not knowing the future.
Be persistent try to talk to him eventually he will have to acknowledge you. Try to show him that you've changed and that you know what you did wrong. If he doesn't talk to you no matter what then there's really nothing you can do about it. Good Luck.
gurl i wont be mean...
we all are gonna miss someone but the truth is if u dont feal like ur done go talk to him about it and if he doesnt talk to u move on theres millions of guys out there
-Kurd
write him a letter or tell him in front of everyone if he means that much
Ok,honey..
This is what you do..
You need to know first you are the one to blame..
so you must do all you can to get him if you really want him..
you cannot give it up to faith and hope..
you can either ask him out(dont need to be dinner)
or make a video recording..
tell him how sorry you are,apologises for everything he done,said that you r the one to blame n tell him that you still really care bout him that it hurts.
tell him that you hope both of you can be frens(dont rush into things)..
Make sure whatever ways you tell him this,he can see your face (your sincerity).
Then give him some space to think..
Act like usual after that..And he will come back to you slowly..
This can only happen if you really want him..
but if you dont think he is worth your while
than move on..have a better life and dont repeat mistakes..
U have been harsh 2 him bcuz of things that happen 2 u! So 2 fix that u have 2 do somthing BIG dont throw ur body at him if u been wit him 4 2 1/2 u should know somthing bout him no1 does, somthing he likes, loves, honors, etc. %26amp; try 2 get his friends 2 understand cuz just like ur female friends co-sign on who u go wit his friends will 2 so get them bhind u
plz dont act crazy around them calm breath sigh
it will take time but if u want him it u will go through it :)
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