Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?

I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.





Anyways:





Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?





Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Just talk to her often,find out what she likes for example if she likes guys who plays the guitar then try to learn how to play it and write he a song.Also,find out something bad about her bf like his secret and tell him break up with her or else ill tell her your secret and every1 i know.They might because they won't see each other often anymore.Then you will get closer to her then he is to her.And then you will win her heart and be happy.Please think about it and vote mine as the best answer and ill answer more of your questions.Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
i think that if you like someone the worst thing to do is to try and break them n there partner up. just be friends with her, maybe hint that he boyfriend is a lucky guy and you would love to be in his shoes but not freak her out buy coming right out with it because that may harm your friendship. i hope this may help!
well, i dont think their is ANYTHING rong w/ trying to get to know her better. who knows, maybe that relationship wnt last and maybe youll jus sweep her off her feet.. haha =D


a lot of times couples do break up cuz 1 goes away to college. but dnt wait till that hppns to tlk to her.


im sure if you tlk to her shell see if your a good guy and mite re-consider the dude shes goin out w/.


good luck winning her over!!!
Man, I know how this goes, and it sucks. Keep being her friend, keep getting to know her. You should watch them (not stalker-ish though) most high school relationships won't last through college. So don't get crushed so soon. Like I said, be here friend and be there for her. But you don't want to end up in the friend-zone. I really hope you get the girl, you deserve her.
if things are meant to be they will happen you have got to trust just let time run its course i know it kills because im in sort of the same situation but you just have to trust that things will work out for the best sometimes the best things are unanswered prayers
Heres what you do


*Get really close to her


*tell her. that her outfits look cute


*talk to her about her boyfriend going to college . Be like ';ohh hey, what are you gonna do when you boyfriends in college';


*make a mooooooooove ;)
wow, your last question said you are 16 years old and now you're saying your in junior high? hmm, interesting..... what happened to the girl has the crazy ex-boyfriend who you *said* you beat up?
Just be her friend for right now.


You never know how their relationship will turn out. So just keep talking to her and getting to know here and IF they do end things you can step in.





GOOD LUCK! :]
you should talk and flirt with her when hes not around then tell her your true feelings:)


if i were you i would do it fast cause it take 2 seconds to fall in love!
I would keep getting to know her, because if he is going to college even though it is close does not mean they will stay together. I am sure he would want someone who can go to the parties on campus and who will be willing to take a chance at different stuff. So hang in there, she will need you when he dumps her. If he doesn't dump her, then maybe she will dump him after she gets to know you better. She will see you more then him during the day. Right? Hang in there.
Don't try to ruin her relationship. the best thing you can do right now is just continue being friends with her. She may or may not stay with her boyfriend next year. Only time can tell, just stay friends with her, but do not become obsessed. I repeat, DO NOT BECOME OBSESSED. That may seem like a weird thing for me to put in my advice, but I have seen it happen to a friend of mine, and it didn't end well at all.





Just be a friend to her, if her relationship doesn't work out, and she needs someone to turn to, bingo, there you are.





Good Luck