Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?

I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.





Anyways:





Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?





Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Oh I've been in this situation before: liking someone who, at the moment, is dating someone else. Crushing isn't it? I know, been there; I feel for you. Now let's see...


To your first question: It all depends on how their relationship is and how much they care about eachother. The only people that can judge if they will last are noneother than themselves. The only thing you can do for this part of the situation is - stand by.


To your second question: Yes. It would be a really good idea to try and get to know her better and then get closer to her - in that order. Be her friend first. Talk to her. Share things with her: hang out, good conversations, etc. You never know, she'd probably feel that special connection you feel too. The only way you'll know is to spend more time with her and get to know her better and understand her better. Emotionally and mentally. As for us girls, we're more impressed if we really feel a chemistry-connection by being able to talk to a guy about anything and everything. We wouldn't want to stay dating a guy we can't talk to, open up to, or laugh with. That's what matters in the long run. So when people say ';friends first,'; it really matters/works. Plus, it gives her a chance to really get to know you better too.


The best thing I can also advise is this: try not to get your hopes up sky-high. It's very heartening to read that you feel this way and really care about a girl you think is very special. Glad to know nice caring guys like you still exist.


If they end up breaking up, then you should tell her how you feel about her, especially if she means this much to you. She'll believe you, especially if you spent more time with her, because then she'll know you like her sincerely. But if they do not, please don't get hurt by having made assumptions that they would break up. If that does happen though, and they stay together, then at least you'll have her as your friend. So that if anytime in the future that it does happen (you never know), then you'll still be there...Good LuckNeed CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
If you feel like you have made a connection with this girl, she may feel the same way. Keep talking to her, girls become like guys that are there for them and listen. Try to hang out with her outside of class on a friend level and see what happens.. She may drop the guy, and go for you...
get to know her better. like text her or something. :)
The same thing happened to me earlier in the year and i was about to ask her out when i found out she was dating an upper classman and it devastated ne becasue although we never really hung out outside of school i waas really starrting to get close to her and she didnt talk to me as much as she used to becasue she had a boyfriend and i thought that their relationship was going to last all year but it only lasted about three weeks and it shocked me and we arent going out but i know she likes me so i would just say get to know her and talk to her alot because i can garuntee you that they will break up more quickly than your mind is telling you
Let me just start this off...always make eye contact. sorry i had to put that out there its the best thing you can do and its hot. but anyways im really sorry to hear about this, i know how you feel, and this feeling sucks.





well its easier for a girl to begin to like a guy if they are close friends. casually ask her small questions like..how is your day going, or where are you headed? but whatever you do dont sound like a stalker. you want to give her the impression of a sweet guy that she can talk to and share her feelings with [well dont pretend to be that guy if you really arent like that, i hope you are thoughh..so this will work out]. after time, as i said, you should talk to her more and more. begin to tell her stuff, like small secrets. she'll feel like you're trusting her, and she'll begin to trust you! this is the best i can do, it worked out for my best guy friend and i. just become really close. she and her boyfriend will most likely have an issue in their relationship, and if she trusts you so much that she can talk to you about it, she might realize you're the guy she actually wants!





good luck! and i hope i helped :)