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I'm a junior in high school and i like a girl in one of my classes. Over the last few months we have been talking more in class. I've gotten to know her better and i feel like we made a connection. i was gonna tell her how i feel about her, but i found out she was dating someone else. I found out one day when in the halls before first class i saw her holding hands with a guy, a i asked a friend of mine if they were dating and she said they were. My spirit just shattered at that moment.Shes a junior too and the guy shes dating is a senior. I really want to date her and get to know her better. I truely care about her. I know i shouldn't but into her relationship and i wont.





Anyways:





Do you think they will break up because he is going to college next year, even though his college is close by?





Would it be a good idea to try to get closer to her and get to know her better?Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Dude, this one is easy, but risky. Check it out:





Beings that she is dating someone else, you really can't go after her. There are a couple reasons for that. 1. Because, she may find that to be disrespectful of her current situation. And trust me they don't like that. 2. Because, it's likely that because she is with someone, she may not give your feelings a second thought as she is tied up with her feelings for this guy she is dating.





The best route to take, is to just be friends with her for now. I know what your thinking, ';I don't want to be that guy friend that she never looks at as a boyfriend material, and only as a brother or something';. Trust me, I understand that completely. That is the risk involved in working this angle. But there are some benifits to it as well. 1. You will really get to know her well, and will probably (if nothing else ever comes of it) have a friend for life. 2. Become fairly close with her, which is always a good thing. 3. You just might strike gold, and aggitate her boyfriend because his girl is ';best'; friends with another guy. This would in-turn make him appear (to her) as jelious and self consious. And who knows if that persists, it may even be the reason the relationship ends.... because she would feel as if he doesn't trust her. Get me?





The fact that he is going to college next year REALLY works in your favor. Now, I'm not saying that it's for sure going to break them up, or that you are a shoe in for the ';next in line'; boyfriend. BUT, I do know from personal experience, that he will be in a totally different world in College. Exposed to a new freedom, exposed to a new atmosphere, and most importantly, exposed to new people and temptations.





However, just so I'm clear - Im not telling you to pretend to be her friend. That would be shady. You need to honestly be a good friend. If you were faking it, and she found out... kiss your chances goodbye. And the last thing, also very important.... you can't go too overboard with being her pal. You get in too close, you may wind up in the ';friend zone'; for life. It is a very fine line, and you need to have a good eye to see when your getting too close. Hop this helps bro. Good luck, hope you get her!Need CRUSH ADVICE PLZ 10 points best answer?
Give it some time and wait till next year. They will most likely eventually break up! BUT! Remember it is because he is in college, not because they don't like eachother anymore. So she probably won't want to date right away