i like this guy who sits next to me in my spanish class. we flirt sometimes and he thinks im cute. he's 2 years older than me but im way better at spanish than him which is why i helped him with a test. he really appreciated it. he talks to me more out side of class now. does he like me? if he does should i ask him out, or just leave it as us being just friends ?(10 pionts best answer)i dont know what to do....any advice?
Flirt with him some more. If he thinks your cute then see where it goes from there. Age doesn't really matter. Sometimes grade does, ex: senior dating a freshmen isn't going to happen. And just because ur better at spanish doesn't add to him liking u, it's just a way to get answers from someone or an excuse to talk with them. But still flirt with him more and it does seem like he likes u if he talks to u a lot after school.(10 pionts best answer)i dont know what to do....any advice?
yeah he could like you! id say its best not to rush into things. keep talking/flirting and see where it heads! no rush, its better not to, after a little while ask if he wants to hang out or something.. gradually ease into it and if he feels the same it should head into the right direction. gooduck with it!
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Your thoughts and advice...relationship with my [best] friend!?
I'll try to keep this short...but its a long story!
I've been really close friends with a guy friend of mine for a long time...since high school. He's liked me on and off but I've never taken it seriously.
He used to be the friend I could tell everything and anything to (he still is), and I just recently told him that I liked him back...
We decided to take things slow and see how they go. We know mostly everything about each other, so there is nothing to hide.
I've been married and divorced and he's been there for me...so now that we're starting to get closer, I think he's intimidated.
My question is this: how can I make him feel better about the situation? I have a lot more experience than he does, but I don't want him to think that because he dosn't know what he's doing, he should be scared to try it.
He's also still a virgin. That's not the problem...the problem is, I think he thinks since I'm experienced, that I must know everything. When in reality, it would be with a new person, so it would be different.
How can I hint to him, without being forward, that its better to give it a try even if your shy or nervous, rather than just not go for it? I'm trying to show him that whatever he does I'll be game for, but how can I be suggestive with these personal matters without embarrasing him or hurting his feelings??
Thanks in advance, sorry this is so long!Your thoughts and advice...relationship with my [best] friend!?
Just tell him exactly what you mentioned in your question. You have to be straight forward with people sometimes and if its meant to be it will be..so just tell him whats on your mind.wholesale cosmetics makeup help
I've been really close friends with a guy friend of mine for a long time...since high school. He's liked me on and off but I've never taken it seriously.
He used to be the friend I could tell everything and anything to (he still is), and I just recently told him that I liked him back...
We decided to take things slow and see how they go. We know mostly everything about each other, so there is nothing to hide.
I've been married and divorced and he's been there for me...so now that we're starting to get closer, I think he's intimidated.
My question is this: how can I make him feel better about the situation? I have a lot more experience than he does, but I don't want him to think that because he dosn't know what he's doing, he should be scared to try it.
He's also still a virgin. That's not the problem...the problem is, I think he thinks since I'm experienced, that I must know everything. When in reality, it would be with a new person, so it would be different.
How can I hint to him, without being forward, that its better to give it a try even if your shy or nervous, rather than just not go for it? I'm trying to show him that whatever he does I'll be game for, but how can I be suggestive with these personal matters without embarrasing him or hurting his feelings??
Thanks in advance, sorry this is so long!Your thoughts and advice...relationship with my [best] friend!?
Just tell him exactly what you mentioned in your question. You have to be straight forward with people sometimes and if its meant to be it will be..so just tell him whats on your mind.
I need some advice or any ones best opinion! Please be serious and no joking.please!!and thank you!?
I am 25.5 yrs. old and my handsome husband is 27 almost 28yrs. old We've been happily married for 8 in ahalf yrs. He trust me more then I would like him to. I have done alot of things except go all the way with another man only when me and my husband were separated once.But I told him all about that so there would be no secrets.Then we got back together and have never been happier. He thinks in his mind every things just great but it isn't! I can talk to any guy or do any harmless flirting in front of my hubs face but he thinks that's just completely harmless, he has no jealous emotions toward me at all. I want him to at least care if a old b/f is calling me or if I talked to him even for 2 min.I on the other hand am very jealous and territorial! He has alot of cute, younger friends that just happen to be girls. I hate it. He talks on his cell and mostly txt messages them. He wants me to have absolutely no probs with that because he wouldn't.And he cant even imagine why I don't trust his ***. If we go to alittle party and he gets a little alcohol in him, then he starts dancing with other girls and flirting and alittle touchy but nothing that is inappropriate in his mind but to me, when I saw him acting that way to other women and right in front of my face. I just can't and wont trust him. So is there a big problem that he has no jeaslousy even a littlt bit I mean thats are human nature. Do you think that means he doesnt care or love me the way I care and love him?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ThankuI need some advice or any ones best opinion! Please be serious and no joking.please!!and thank you!?
jealousy isn't in human nature... it sounds like you've got an amazing man who loves you very much! if you really want a possessive asshole for a S.O., then dump your husband so a more deserving woman can have him, then go find yourself a nice alcoholic jerk!I need some advice or any ones best opinion! Please be serious and no joking.please!!and thank you!?
exactly the opposite to the others responses, most people that are overly jealous are so because they no they can't be trusted, I think your the one feeling guilt and that's why you over read your husbands actions
hes definitely cheating on you.
Your husband is very controlling. I will suggest you try doing what he is doing. Give him a medicine of his own.
pfft screw him and get over it
In all seriousness, get over it. Men do not generally over analyze things like you are doing right now. You are going to drive yourself insane, and why? Because you want your husband to be jealous. Or worse, you will push the boundaries of what is appropriate to get his attention.
That is completely natural to be jealous. I myself am a jealous gf. But because he acts that way doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He just wants to have fun. And i completely understand, if my bf would do that i would get mad also. But, if you haven't already try to sit down and talk to him rationally about it. and if that doesn't help try going to couples counseling.
oh my god! twenty five AND A HALF!?
no but in all seriousness, he might possibly doing the same thing you are doing and acts like he trusts you completely so you will trust him the same way. so neither of you have to worry, but are both cheating on each other.
i could be totally wrong, thats just the first thing i thought when i read it.
I'm going to give you my opinion even though I don't know you and will probably never see you so don't be angry because you DID ask people to respond...
He does care about you or else he wouldn't have taken you back. The thing is, you're STILL wanting to cheat on him or still ARE or else you wouldn't be getting jealous. It's a classic sign of a cheater. He's not jealous because he loves you COMPLETELY. He's happy even though YOU aren't. There's no good advice here...somethings got to give or the two of you need to part ways. You're both still young so...Work it out or leave him.....plain and simple...
I think u have to calm down, 'cause let me put it this way, if he cheats on u, he would b worried that ur cheating on him, but since he's not worried, that may be because he doesn't cheat on u! He's probably a great guy, ur just over thinking it too much.
its not about you! (as far as him caring about you) jealousy is sick!, trust him!, he sounds like a great Guy staying with you after cheating on him. he is the one that should be checking on you and jealous, and not trust you. stop being so selfish and thank God that he did not dump you for a hot girl that would not cheat on him, the main thing he love you and sounds like he has forgiven you and you are still together
the most truthful statement I've ever heard is '; Those who cant trust, cant be trusted.'; It's totally possible that he trusts you so completely because he feels no desire to cheat and so doesn't even consider the fact that you might. On the other hand you feel so insecure because you know that in the right situation you would do it, so why wouldn't he? Get over it, and accept the fact that your husband loves you, the only thing your going to accomplish with jealousy, is to push him into a situation you don't want.
jealousy isn't in human nature... it sounds like you've got an amazing man who loves you very much! if you really want a possessive asshole for a S.O., then dump your husband so a more deserving woman can have him, then go find yourself a nice alcoholic jerk!I need some advice or any ones best opinion! Please be serious and no joking.please!!and thank you!?
exactly the opposite to the others responses, most people that are overly jealous are so because they no they can't be trusted, I think your the one feeling guilt and that's why you over read your husbands actions
hes definitely cheating on you.
Your husband is very controlling. I will suggest you try doing what he is doing. Give him a medicine of his own.
pfft screw him and get over it
In all seriousness, get over it. Men do not generally over analyze things like you are doing right now. You are going to drive yourself insane, and why? Because you want your husband to be jealous. Or worse, you will push the boundaries of what is appropriate to get his attention.
That is completely natural to be jealous. I myself am a jealous gf. But because he acts that way doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He just wants to have fun. And i completely understand, if my bf would do that i would get mad also. But, if you haven't already try to sit down and talk to him rationally about it. and if that doesn't help try going to couples counseling.
oh my god! twenty five AND A HALF!?
no but in all seriousness, he might possibly doing the same thing you are doing and acts like he trusts you completely so you will trust him the same way. so neither of you have to worry, but are both cheating on each other.
i could be totally wrong, thats just the first thing i thought when i read it.
I'm going to give you my opinion even though I don't know you and will probably never see you so don't be angry because you DID ask people to respond...
He does care about you or else he wouldn't have taken you back. The thing is, you're STILL wanting to cheat on him or still ARE or else you wouldn't be getting jealous. It's a classic sign of a cheater. He's not jealous because he loves you COMPLETELY. He's happy even though YOU aren't. There's no good advice here...somethings got to give or the two of you need to part ways. You're both still young so...Work it out or leave him.....plain and simple...
I think u have to calm down, 'cause let me put it this way, if he cheats on u, he would b worried that ur cheating on him, but since he's not worried, that may be because he doesn't cheat on u! He's probably a great guy, ur just over thinking it too much.
its not about you! (as far as him caring about you) jealousy is sick!, trust him!, he sounds like a great Guy staying with you after cheating on him. he is the one that should be checking on you and jealous, and not trust you. stop being so selfish and thank God that he did not dump you for a hot girl that would not cheat on him, the main thing he love you and sounds like he has forgiven you and you are still together
the most truthful statement I've ever heard is '; Those who cant trust, cant be trusted.'; It's totally possible that he trusts you so completely because he feels no desire to cheat and so doesn't even consider the fact that you might. On the other hand you feel so insecure because you know that in the right situation you would do it, so why wouldn't he? Get over it, and accept the fact that your husband loves you, the only thing your going to accomplish with jealousy, is to push him into a situation you don't want.
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I need some advice please!! 10 points for best answer?
I found out today that my bf whom i live with e mailed my sister-n-law.She e mailed him back they talked about their day and they both agreed not to tell me. I confronted both, they said it was nothing.
I was so upset!! Should i be worried about this? What would you do?I need some advice please!! 10 points for best answer?
I'm going to tell you this from my own personal experience. If a guy feel the need to hide anything from you from another girl, than something is always up. It's NOT nothing. And he can come up with the most convincing excuse and than try to make it look like the reason he did it was because of how you might react to it unnecessarily or that you're making a big deal out of nothing...really than why are you hiding it?
I was in a 7 years relationship and I found out that nothing was something bigger than I thought and after all the mind games I realize that I should have taken it more serious when I first came across it...
You need to make it clear to both of them that it's disrespectful and they shouldn't hide their friendship from you....than you need to keep open eyes and ears and your mouth shut until you figure everything out because if you keep arguing with them about this it's going to bring them closer and you might create a mess in the family that they will just both deny resulting in nothing. Watch them both from the distance and observe them with your mouth shut for a while until you have everything down for sure... cause I smell something funny. I need some advice please!! 10 points for best answer?
Talk 2 them
Wouldn't jump the gun, it might be completely innocent. It would be a reasonable request, though, to ask them both not to talk about you behind your back, especially since it is so innocent.
I agree with your other answer, in that I hate sneaks too. Now if they were discussing a surprise birthday party or something like that for you, well, one could understand not including you in discussions. However, just to gab about you for unspecified reasons, no. not ok. talk to them and voice your concerns. better to know than not, if something is wrong with the picture.
I normally wouldn't think it was a big deal that your BF contacted your sister-in-law by email. However, to agree not to tell you, unless they were planning a birthday party for you or something like that, is a concern. Maybe you ought to talk to your brother about this and ask him what he thinks. I'd be ticked about them talking and deciding not to tell me. Sounds like someone is up to no good. Why? Maybe there is an attraction there, but if your brother is still married to her, it could affect families. How long has boyfriend been around? I'd want to know why and I wouldn't be put off, but I'd also share the info with brother.
Ask him why they agreed not to tell you. Are you a jealous person? maybe he didn't want to you to suspect him of something if nothings going on, or maybe he's afraid of you. Personally, if it were me, I wouldn't have told you either if didn't come up, like during dinner or something. But the fact that they agreed not to tell you makes it a little suspicious.
Do they spend a lot of time together? Is one of your birthdays coming up or special occasion?
I don't think it's time to hit the panic button, but if happens a lot you need to tell them both how you feel about it. Your bf does not need to be spending whole days with another girl and not willing to tell you about it.
Hell yeah. You better get on them about that. Go for him first since he wrote the e-mail first. Then her. Tell them to respect the relationship. No need to ask what's going on. It's just going to be a bunch of bullshiznit drama that you don't need. So put it to the straight and tell them to back off each other.
well if you read the email maybe try and think of any point that they wished to hide and the reason maybe they talked about something that might worry you and hence decided... your sister in law is your bf's sister right??? so why worry unless you feel someone is trying to create a gap between you and your bf...
i would say not upset, if they didn't talk about anything personal. But the fact that they wanted to hide it from you and refused to talk about it is a sign of guilt. But maybe they were planning you a surprose party or something. Don't freak out unless you have real proof of something wrong.
Yes you should definitely be worried. If they agreed to not tell you about it then obviously they are doing it for a reason.
Maybe while your boyfriend isnt thre look throgh his E-Mails and see hat they were talking about. And talk to your sister-in-law about whats going on.
Good Luck.
maybe you should be alarmed because why would they keep it a secret if it was nothing? he could have atleast told you ';oh i was talking to so and so just wondering how things are';, he should atleast give you heads up on what he's doing...idk it just doesnt sound like he's being honest with you
I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you walked in on them kissing and what not Then you should worry but its just an email. If it really bothers you go up to your bf and ask him if he has feelings for your sister-in-law.
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Yes. You should be worried. Why would they just decide to hide them talking to eachother from you ?? Thats very mean. Dump his sorry tushy.
wait. that doesn't make any sense. how is it you live with your boyfriend, but you have a sister in law? are you married?
Any time the words ';don't tell'; are involve and you find out...WORRY! It may be innocent now, but it almost always leads to trouble!
everythings must be definitely obvious. gently ask yr bf what happened and show him your point of view about that. dont worry so much ! nothing can hide in front of truth
That's weird they wanted to keep it a secret. I wouldn't worry about it. Worrying never solves anything.
i would express my feelings to both of them that talking behind my back upsets me and just tell them how it made u feel
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talk to your boyfriend coz hes the one answerable to u.....
I was so upset!! Should i be worried about this? What would you do?I need some advice please!! 10 points for best answer?
I'm going to tell you this from my own personal experience. If a guy feel the need to hide anything from you from another girl, than something is always up. It's NOT nothing. And he can come up with the most convincing excuse and than try to make it look like the reason he did it was because of how you might react to it unnecessarily or that you're making a big deal out of nothing...really than why are you hiding it?
I was in a 7 years relationship and I found out that nothing was something bigger than I thought and after all the mind games I realize that I should have taken it more serious when I first came across it...
You need to make it clear to both of them that it's disrespectful and they shouldn't hide their friendship from you....than you need to keep open eyes and ears and your mouth shut until you figure everything out because if you keep arguing with them about this it's going to bring them closer and you might create a mess in the family that they will just both deny resulting in nothing. Watch them both from the distance and observe them with your mouth shut for a while until you have everything down for sure... cause I smell something funny. I need some advice please!! 10 points for best answer?
Talk 2 them
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Wouldn't jump the gun, it might be completely innocent. It would be a reasonable request, though, to ask them both not to talk about you behind your back, especially since it is so innocent.
I agree with your other answer, in that I hate sneaks too. Now if they were discussing a surprise birthday party or something like that for you, well, one could understand not including you in discussions. However, just to gab about you for unspecified reasons, no. not ok. talk to them and voice your concerns. better to know than not, if something is wrong with the picture.
I normally wouldn't think it was a big deal that your BF contacted your sister-in-law by email. However, to agree not to tell you, unless they were planning a birthday party for you or something like that, is a concern. Maybe you ought to talk to your brother about this and ask him what he thinks. I'd be ticked about them talking and deciding not to tell me. Sounds like someone is up to no good. Why? Maybe there is an attraction there, but if your brother is still married to her, it could affect families. How long has boyfriend been around? I'd want to know why and I wouldn't be put off, but I'd also share the info with brother.
Ask him why they agreed not to tell you. Are you a jealous person? maybe he didn't want to you to suspect him of something if nothings going on, or maybe he's afraid of you. Personally, if it were me, I wouldn't have told you either if didn't come up, like during dinner or something. But the fact that they agreed not to tell you makes it a little suspicious.
Do they spend a lot of time together? Is one of your birthdays coming up or special occasion?
I don't think it's time to hit the panic button, but if happens a lot you need to tell them both how you feel about it. Your bf does not need to be spending whole days with another girl and not willing to tell you about it.
Hell yeah. You better get on them about that. Go for him first since he wrote the e-mail first. Then her. Tell them to respect the relationship. No need to ask what's going on. It's just going to be a bunch of bullshiznit drama that you don't need. So put it to the straight and tell them to back off each other.
well if you read the email maybe try and think of any point that they wished to hide and the reason maybe they talked about something that might worry you and hence decided... your sister in law is your bf's sister right??? so why worry unless you feel someone is trying to create a gap between you and your bf...
i would say not upset, if they didn't talk about anything personal. But the fact that they wanted to hide it from you and refused to talk about it is a sign of guilt. But maybe they were planning you a surprose party or something. Don't freak out unless you have real proof of something wrong.
Yes you should definitely be worried. If they agreed to not tell you about it then obviously they are doing it for a reason.
Maybe while your boyfriend isnt thre look throgh his E-Mails and see hat they were talking about. And talk to your sister-in-law about whats going on.
Good Luck.
maybe you should be alarmed because why would they keep it a secret if it was nothing? he could have atleast told you ';oh i was talking to so and so just wondering how things are';, he should atleast give you heads up on what he's doing...idk it just doesnt sound like he's being honest with you
I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you walked in on them kissing and what not Then you should worry but its just an email. If it really bothers you go up to your bf and ask him if he has feelings for your sister-in-law.
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Yes. You should be worried. Why would they just decide to hide them talking to eachother from you ?? Thats very mean. Dump his sorry tushy.
wait. that doesn't make any sense. how is it you live with your boyfriend, but you have a sister in law? are you married?
Any time the words ';don't tell'; are involve and you find out...WORRY! It may be innocent now, but it almost always leads to trouble!
everythings must be definitely obvious. gently ask yr bf what happened and show him your point of view about that. dont worry so much ! nothing can hide in front of truth
That's weird they wanted to keep it a secret. I wouldn't worry about it. Worrying never solves anything.
i would express my feelings to both of them that talking behind my back upsets me and just tell them how it made u feel
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talk to your boyfriend coz hes the one answerable to u.....
I really need advice, my BF's best friend just died?
my boyfriend is a construction worker and on October 6th he seen his best friend get electrocuted at work. he sent me a text telling me to call him as soon as i wake up, so i did. he told me that his friend was killed and i immediately started crying and telling him how sorry i was. i had to follow him from the hospital in his company truck back to the workshop and then back home. he tried to help him, but there was nothing that could be done. he seen his best friend die right in front of his eyes...I think he's in shock because he keeps saying he's fine, but i can tell he's VERY bothered by this. he says he cant get it out of his head, the image of his friend getting electrocuted, he said he has never felt so helpless before in his life. i'm staying with him for the time being, he knows i'm here if he ever want to talk. his mom and his sisters, his cousin..have all called and came by to see how he's doing. he keeps saying he's fine. i dont think its hit him yet exactly what happened. i'm really worried about him and i dont know what to do or say to make this any easier for him. he already asked me to go to the viewing and the funeral with him, which i'm going to. i want to help him but i dont know how. its all i can to to keep the tears back when he's around, i know i need to stay strong for him. when he finally breaks down, what do i do? i've never been to a viewing or a funeral before, i've never had anyone that i know or that i'm close to die before. this is really killing me. i want to help him so badly, but he swears he's fine. i know he's not. please help me...i really need advice...thanks in advance for any answers...I really need advice, my BF's best friend just died?
He may need to take a little bit of time off of work and maybe you could suggest. Hopefully the place of work would understand and may even get paid for them if he has personal days. If he starts experiencing depression, overwhelming stress, or post traumatic reaction to seeing the death he may need to see a counselor.I really need advice, my BF's best friend just died?
i dont think you should really do anything about it.. look, i think its totally fine to feel sad/depressed after someone passed away, especially a best friend, everyone acts like that wen someone just died its just how life is,
your bf is just saying he's fine cos he just doesnt want you to feel sad.. or worry abt him ..
but d/w im sure your bf will get over it some day , he just needs some time thats all xx
He may need to take a little bit of time off of work and maybe you could suggest. Hopefully the place of work would understand and may even get paid for them if he has personal days. If he starts experiencing depression, overwhelming stress, or post traumatic reaction to seeing the death he may need to see a counselor.I really need advice, my BF's best friend just died?
i dont think you should really do anything about it.. look, i think its totally fine to feel sad/depressed after someone passed away, especially a best friend, everyone acts like that wen someone just died its just how life is,
your bf is just saying he's fine cos he just doesnt want you to feel sad.. or worry abt him ..
but d/w im sure your bf will get over it some day , he just needs some time thats all xx
Need a guys advice(10 points to best first answer)?
part A ok tell me the truth. what do u really look for in a girl? (im 16) tell me everything.
part B. ok so this one guy and i have been talking, hes kind of a man whore and like we talked for about 6hours the other day, about a lot some of it was sexual and some of it wasn't. like we were joking and saying we were going to hook up and all that. does he really want to hook up with me or do u think he likes me?
2 hours ago - 4 days left to answer. but the thing is we really only text.
oh what i look like. im about 5 1'; i have brown hair that falls just below my shoulders im really pretty thin, and idk if it matters but im a 34A
-bella.
more about me, i talk...a lot, im not good at sports (i tend to fall....a lot) but my fav sport to watch is hockey(LOVE IT, but i tend to go a bit crazy, im the crazy fan that's screaming at the ref or something) football, i will watch, same with other sports as long as its not boring. umm im not like smart, i mean i get C`s, B`s, and like one A. and i laugh ALL the time, i do this snorting thing(only when im laughing really hard) im open to try new things(not sexually, like paintball and stuff) umm im understandingNeed a guys advice(10 points to best first answer)?
A:sense of humor good looks smarts somtimes a girly girl presence and things we can relate to
B:depends on the person a lot of guys joke about that stuff a lot if you try saying somthing like no i would never do that and he agrees it means he probably likes you
part B. ok so this one guy and i have been talking, hes kind of a man whore and like we talked for about 6hours the other day, about a lot some of it was sexual and some of it wasn't. like we were joking and saying we were going to hook up and all that. does he really want to hook up with me or do u think he likes me?
2 hours ago - 4 days left to answer. but the thing is we really only text.
oh what i look like. im about 5 1'; i have brown hair that falls just below my shoulders im really pretty thin, and idk if it matters but im a 34A
-bella.
more about me, i talk...a lot, im not good at sports (i tend to fall....a lot) but my fav sport to watch is hockey(LOVE IT, but i tend to go a bit crazy, im the crazy fan that's screaming at the ref or something) football, i will watch, same with other sports as long as its not boring. umm im not like smart, i mean i get C`s, B`s, and like one A. and i laugh ALL the time, i do this snorting thing(only when im laughing really hard) im open to try new things(not sexually, like paintball and stuff) umm im understandingNeed a guys advice(10 points to best first answer)?
A:sense of humor good looks smarts somtimes a girly girl presence and things we can relate to
B:depends on the person a lot of guys joke about that stuff a lot if you try saying somthing like no i would never do that and he agrees it means he probably likes you
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